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valval Member Posts: 14,911
edited 1. Nov 2012, 14:02 in Community Chit-chat archive
but they were not what i expected more tests and treatment but feel so shocked at moment not sure how much will be around for while going to play it a day at a time val
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  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Take care Val.
    We are here for you whenever you need us.
    (((())))
    Numpty
  • Susiesoo
    Susiesoo Member Posts: 358
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm sorry to hear that Val. I will be thinking of you and I wish you well.

    With very best wishes, Susie
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Mega hugs.Mig
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to hear Val, take care ((((())))s xx................Marie
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You do what you need to do for you. We will be here whenever needed. I am thinking of you very much. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • mellman01
    mellman01 Member Posts: 5,306
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Your in my thoughts Val.


    Take care

    Mell xxx
  • knuckleduster
    knuckleduster Member Posts: 551
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So sorry to hear that Val. Post us when you feel up to it. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs.

    Janet xx
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to hear this Val


    Thinking of you



    Fowls ((()))xxxx
  • georgie66
    georgie66 Member Posts: 403
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    sorry to here this val..
    hugs from me
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,280
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Val dont forget we are always here for you ((((())) xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    tue 1pm for biopsy any pocket duties would be great please
    val
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'll be there Val.
    ((((( )))))
    Thinking of you,
    Numpty
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,280
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Think we may need the bus..trouble is I cant find it..you had it last Val..were did you park it...I will be there Tues xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    If they cant find the bus i will get a taxi to be with you.Mig
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thankyou all so much am so scared weight coming off still even though on steroids well they said it pancreatic lynphoma there is two groups and one more agressive than the other so it wait and see after tue, think it takes a week.
    sorry to be putting this on here but there only so much you can say to those close to you with out scaring them half to death mum not taking it well bless her she coping with dad not being well and now this she being so strong for me and steve and lads just great but how do you say you are not sure you have the strenth to fight this trisher staying on fb half the night incase i need some one to chat to am so lucky and feel so loved but how do i put them through the next few months and all that will bring i know they want to be with me every step of the way but i will feel so guilty i am only 51 why me ok i know why not and it so normal to feel this way trisher got bus but watch out for brolly she got that still val
    val
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,280
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Val I understand what you mean about putting it on your family, it will be hard for them, but they are part of you and will want to be involved...they love you...
    But like you say its good you have us lot to unburden yourself...and we are always here..night and day..xxx by the way were have you hid the bus..in Cornwall I suppose..
    Love
    Barbara
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Val

    My thoughts are with you and also your family , I will be in your pocket next week .


    huggs and kisses (((())))XXXXX



    fowls xxx
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Val, I've been off-line for a few days, so have only just caught up with your post.

    I'm so sorry to hear that you have so much worry at the moment, and I understand your concerns for your family. But as Barbara has said, your family love you very much and will be there to support you, so please don't feel guilty in any way.

    I will definitely be there in your pocket next Tuesday, and all your friends on here will always be here for you. Bless Trisher for being such a good friend too.
    Thinking of you
    Joan ((((( )))))
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  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You don't need to apologise Val. I'm sure we all feel the same, and if there is any way at all we can help, we will.
    Sometimes you need to talk to someone, not as close as family, but someone who cares. I think that's where we come in.
    You mustn't feel guilty about worrying your family. You can't help the situation you find yourself in. Your family want to help you through it, the same as you've helped them with things.
    Take care Val,
    ((((( )))))
    Thinking of you,
    Numpty
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,280
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Im still thinking about you Val..((((()))) xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh my darling girl. I am so, so sorry, what a stressful and difficult time. I will be there on Tuesday. Take care, pal, I send hugs and love. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • deedeeitsme
    deedeeitsme Member Posts: 321
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Will be there Tuesday Val......my hubby is also having a biopsy on Tuesday morning so will be a busy day. Take care and believe me your family are there to support you so don't ever think you're a burden.

    Dee x
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    AWe pet you know you can come on here any time there is always someone around, count me in on Tues.

    (((((())))))s xxx

    Marie
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thankyou all will not reply individually sorry but been out most of day and not to fab now but it helps more than you will ever know just to be able to get it out val
    val
  • Loulou11
    Loulou11 Member Posts: 86
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sending you lots of love and hugs for Tuesday, please don't try and protect your family they love you and probably feel hopeless at the mo. You could always give them the sensored version and let loose on us.

    Thinking of ya xxxx