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  • Kitty
    Kitty Member Posts: 3,583
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello Today - er Toady, Barbara, mig, Joan, Christine, Elizabeth and Toni.

    Can't remember if I've told you I have an appointment with the fragrant Dr P (my rheumy) at the beginning of September. It seems so long to wait, but I have a respiratory appointment at the end of this month, a dermatology appointment at the beginning of August, and an oncology appointment at the end of September!! All my ologists want to see me - how nice. :lol:

    I don't know about any of you, but I'm not looking forward to the forthcoming heatwave - it's already too hot for me thank you :roll:

    Joan, I do hope your mouth is getting better. I had Fluconazole capsules for oral thrush - much better than using gels or ointments, but mine was ready made up - what a nuisance having to mix it yourself.

    Christine, oh 12! The terrible twos were bad enough, but when they get to stroppy 12 you wonder if they'll ever grow out of it. Thankfully they do.

    Toady, taps and teeth - what a combination. :?

    Toni, how is Lucy coping with the heat? When I was on chemo, I was always cold - perhaps it was the lack of hair. One of my drugs was Epirubicin, it made your wee red. Does Doxirubicin do the same? I also had Cyclophoshphamide which is sometimes used in lower doses for RA. It can cause cystisis!! The other drugs were 5FU and Taxotere. Although I only had one dose of that as it made my white blood cells disappear. The regime was called FEC-T - we called it fekkin' FEC! Is that allowed on these forums?? :shock:

    Barbara, I hope it gets cooler soon, but from what they've said, it's not going to yet awhile.

    Elizabeth, don't know if you're reading without posting, but I hope you are ok.

    Sending you all hugs. xx
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    "Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." Robert A Heinlein

  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Afternoon all or is it evening
    Toady..hope the dentist goes ok and the taps..hope they can replace them with the same ... :o hope you are more geared up now...I am always in a froth these days :roll:
    Christine..glad you got to spend time with your family ..yes 14 is the age for strops I just ignore them and not get into battle :lol: dog sitting ..I love looking after others peoples animals...then I don't need to get one myself :D bet he is pampered at yours...the birds have found my strawberries...so I will have to put the net over them...think if we didn't pick and eat them they would go soft...Christine my GD is coming to Stockton this week for a day..I had never heard of it till you came on here, how strange is that ,her friends dad lives there so they are getting the bus from Manchester to see him....... Joan I hope your mouth will soon be feeling better..and how is Sue doing.
    We she still have one GD here...the eldest one..she has hoovered the upstairs...so that is a big job out the way...I am meeting myself coming back today :? and just realised I have my dentist checkup tomorrow ..it has gone black here and think a storm is on its way :o
    See you later xxxxxxxoops just saw you there Kath...its is very humid here but think its going to thunder aww good luck with your oligist :shock:
    Love
    Barbara
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Joan, I hope you and Sue had a good day.

    How nice of all your ologists to want to see you. Sounds as if you'll be busy. I really don't want to complain about the heat but I find it so difficult now.

    Barabara, I never know when afternoon finishes and evening starts. My son's dog gets the leftovers off everyone's plates but I never leave anything so I'll probably get her some dog treats to make it up. Hope your GD enjoys her trip to our region. Do you know which part she's going to? That was good of your GD to do the hoovering.

    We were supposed to get heavy rain and maybe thunder storms but it only rained a little for about 10 minutes just before I left work so I got the bus home but it had already stopped by the time I got on. Some traffic cones have been put near the bus stop to stop people parking there but the driver said there isn't enough room to get the bus anywhere near the raised platform so passengers have to walk out in to the road to get on. Someone said the work in the High Street is due to be finished on Thursday. Doesn't look like it to me. :?

    Everyone seems to be packing suitcases. My son's wife has already packed theirs ready for Friday, my sister has started packing as they go away in 3 weeks and my boss has got 5 huge suitcases out of the loft. They go on Friday but probably won't pack till that morning. Isn't it funny how everyone does it differently?

    Hope Elizabeth is ok. And everyone else who hasn't been in recently.
    Christine
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Afternoon all
    Just had my checkup at the dentist...£18 for 5 mins not bad wages...I asked could I leave longer between appointments has I had to rely on hubby to take me...so they have given me one for 9 months time... :D
    Christine I will ask her were about they are going in Stockton..they are catching the mega bus from Manchester...£4..a brilliant price apparently its only on Wednesdays..that rd works sound awful..I haste having to round bollards and things...wish I was packing... :) like you say everyone is talking of hols
    Still only 2 flowers on my potatoes...wounder if I could harvest them yet looked on the net some say the potatoes will just be smaller..well I dont mind that...ooh I am very impatient
    Hope everyone's having a goodish day..xxxxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,311
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello Kathleen Barbara Christine and anyone else i missed
    i hope everyone is well and not in too much pain.
    sue is well she has water tabs. i have a cold and sore throat.
    take care
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    It's not cheap going to the dentist, is it Barbara? I've got a chipped tooth but it's not bothering me. I still need to go though. £4 from Manchester to Stockton? That's really good. It costs me £4 20 to get to and from the next town in either direction and over £6 to go a little further when I go to the hospital. I was watching a gardening programme (can't remember which one) and they very gently moved some of the soil away round the potatoes to see how they were doing then put the soil back.

    Joan, hope your cold doesn't last long and Sue's water tablets are doing their job.

    Well tomorrow is the big day for my niece. 12.30 and she'll be having her head shaved. I haven't seen or spoken to her but I wonder if she'll sleep tonight. :shock:

    I'll leave the kettle on in case anyone else pops in.
    Christine
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    morning all
    Joan I hope the water tabs work for Sue, if that mouth goes worse you go back ..they can be very painful...
    Christine you look up megabus..the prices are brilliant..but I think I had it wrong they are getting the bus to Leeds then to Stockton I think... :? I checked the prices yesterday, and its £5 for us to go to Leeds and the same back...like you say the short bus journeys between towns cost a fortune... :roll: aww I will be thinking of your niece at 12.30...I think I might just checked the potatoes... :) there doesn't seem to be anymore flowers coming :?
    cloudy here today...but a little cooler..it seems Thursday is going to be very hot... :o
    Today I must remember to do the online shopping.... :lol:
    Will leave the kettle on and give the place a clean before Toni comes in..hope this week is going ok for Lucy...
    Love
    Barbara
  • Kitty
    Kitty Member Posts: 3,583
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello Joan, Toady, Barbara, Christine, and anyone else who pops in.

    Phew!! Went into town shopping this morning. What a scorcher!! I bought myself 3 pairs of cotton trousers. I usually wear black leggings - which make my itchy legs even itchier. :roll: Also got some more Dermol 500 emollient that you can also use as a soap replacement. Last night was awful. I don't think I stopped scratching once and I'm still feeling it now - b***** hot weather. :x Rant over.

    Joan, sorry to hear you have a cold and sore throat. How miserable for you. :(

    Barbara, hope your potatoes start to grow soon. :)

    Christine, we've had no rain at all. It did turn quite black "ovver bill's muvvers" as they say, but no rain.

    I've already had a double 99 today, but I see there are some nice juicy ice lollies - we call them suckers here - so I'll have one of those with a large slice of cake, thank you very much whoever bought that in. :D

    Still no news of Elizabeth? Getting worried now. :?
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    "Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea." Robert A Heinlein

  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    hello everyone ,Haven't been in the cafe this week been a bit busy ,but have been looking in.We ( i say we )but it was me cut the grass back and front ,hubbies not really safe with a mower as his eyesight is bad so he does the labouring and tea making while i mow.We also had a go at clearing out the shed we can now get in ,so much junk in there,middle son is going to go to the dump when we have finished doing it.
    Made apple pie and plum crumble ,theres plenty in the cafe can any one make custard mine always lumpy. Mig
  • toady
    toady Member Posts: 2,701
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello all :D well I have done the 'thing' - emerged from the dentist with less trouble than I expected :D so I am a happy & relieved toad today. The tooth was patchable so there was v little invasive stuff thankfully, I skipped my meth but I feel I can have my enbrel & chance it. Cost less than I expected too so I disposed of the excess budget in a certain store's grocery dept (*&*), so there are cookies (soft ones just in case!), muffins, and if the cake you found was coffee sponge Kath, that was courtesy of me too. & v nice. :D

    (Note to self. Count yourself lucky to have got off so lightly and don't start moaning about something petty within 24 hours!!!)

    Thanks for the moral support. I may even make my next OT appt if I strictly behave - out Sunday and now again today is pushing my luck a bit.

    Glad your checkup was ok barbara and you have been let off for 9 months. That takes it over winter too which is always good, less germs. :)

    Kath, I hope you can juggle all your ologists, at least by having one at the end Jul & one at start of Aug that's 2 you can poke out of the way with a stick quite close together.. then the others will seem less with a bit of luck. Sorry the heat is aggravating the itching, it will peak on Fri it seems and then go down again a bit but maybe not as far you'd prefer. Should be less humid though and with some overcast rainy bits. I have never heard of it being black ovver Bill's muvvers but I like it :D the origin seems to vary according to which account you believe, like so many sayings.

    Hope the dog-sitting goes well applerose, even if it rather than you is going to be in charge :lol: is it a nice dog, that's the main thing. TK has posted on the kitty thread so is around somewhere & hopefully ok. Hope it all goes well with your niece, it will be a bit scary I should think, well I would have been, but it sounds as though she will take it in her stride. :)

    Sorry you & sue are under the weather joan :( hope you can clear up the sore throat & cold as quickly as possible, horrid to have that this weather especially. I hope you don't have too many things you have to cancel, or will miss anything you wanted to do.

    I will have some of that crumble thanks mig and if I have it with ice-cream I won't have to be the custard maker :wink: but mine is usually ok so I will volunteer, if anyone prefers it.

    Good luck with the potato crop barbara and hope you can keep the birds off the strawberries - hopes of jam are fading fast lol. :lol:

    Best to all, xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Barbara, I'll keep the megabus in mind in case I'm going anywhere. Might be cheaper than an ordinary bus. How are your potatoes?

    Kath, I think I need to find some cooler trousers. I usually wear jeans for work and have some jean shorts (just below the knee) but they are still too warm. I like the warm weather but, boy, does it bring problems.

    Mig, you have been busy. It does feel good when you make some space. Mmmm, apple pie and custard sounds rather delicious.

    What a relief, Toady, getting your tooth done. Glad you had some money left over. Think I need a slice of your cake as well as Mig's apple pie. Lucy, my son's dog, is lovely. Very laid back so it'll be lovely to have her company. Glad Elizabeth is still around. I was getting worried about her.

    What an emotional afternoon. My niece did go ahead and have her head shaved. I think there was a second when she suddenly wasn't sure but her sister, who was doing the shaving was really good at calming her down. Once she had started, Erin had a big smile on her face. The whole year from school was there cheering and chanting 'Erin, Erin, Erin.' There were lots of tears, her mum, her big sister, even her eldest sister who did the shaving had a tear or two. And my GD cried her eyes out. We heard a lot of comments from the students as we walked round such as 'I'm proud to be in the same school as someone who can do that.'

    Here she is with mum and dad.

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    Christine
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Evening all
    Christine, aww bless your neice for doing this, it takes a lot of guts...has she rasied what she wanted , I really hope so she deserve it it give her an hug from me when you next see her :D
    the megabus goes to all citys and a lot of towns, some days its £5 to London from Manchester one way
    mig glad you have got some jobs done the garden was always my job...my oh just mows it now..he thinks thats it...but at least he does it...we got rid of our shed when the roof blew off...and all our junk was on show :lol: apple pie sound good :D
    toady I am glad the tooth was straightforward. , phew now relax and enjoy what ever you spent the money on.. :D think I will tip the potatoes out tomorow what flowers were there have died now..fingers crossed
    Kath..dont worry we will get chips :lol: sorryyou are suffering with the heat, the scratching must drive you mad...I have cotton everything at the min, think tomorrow is going to be hotter :shock: ..tell you what I have used to stop scratching from migie bits thrush cream, my neighbour told me to try it...and it works :)
    right I will say goodnight..and I am very proud of Erin..she is a beutiful young lady xxxxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,311
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello Christine Barbara Kathleen Toady Mig
    i hope everyone's having a good day.
    Kathleen the pharmacist makes up the med not me they got in a mix up and said i had to take it as powder when i went back on mon to check they
    said it had to be liquid and made it up.
    i hope everyone's having a good day.
    take care
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Afternoon all
    Joan I hope it helps your mouth...let me know how you get on..
    Phew is all I can say.... :oops: this is the colour of my face at the min :lol:
    Hope everyone's doing okish I have made ice cream from yogurt..and splendor and strawberry's not a clue what it will taste like... :?
    the cats next door are all flaked out...wish I had a paddling pool I would be in it....
    Will see you later there is lemonade in the fridge...home made...xxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • Kitty
    Kitty Member Posts: 3,583
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello Christine, Barbara, Mig, Toady, Joan, and Elizabeth if she's lurking nearby - hope to see you back soon.

    Christine, I can't wear anything shorter than ankle length because of my awful looking scabs where I've been scratching. :roll: Beautiful photo of Erin, no wonder you are proud of her.

    Joan, glad you got your medicine mixed for you. I hope it's helping.

    Toady, I'm glad to hear you got your tooth fixed. It was coffee sponge cake, thank you. :D

    Mig, glad to see you back too, especially as you are laden with goodies. I fancy some plum crumble. I've cheated and brought in a carton of ready made custard, it will be lovely cold on the crumble - then I'll have a piece of apple pie with ice cream. :wink:

    Hope everyone gets some sleep tonight in spite of the heat. xx
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  • toady
    toady Member Posts: 2,701
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello all, v hot indeed but I've been able to have a lovely quiet day inside.. I count myself lucky it didn't fall that I have anywhere to go today or tomorrow.
    Sorry to everyone that doesn't like it or is feeling under the weather as well as.

    Yes it's hot for cats isn't it, the neighbours' is tucking itself into cool little patches in the shrubbery and I keep coming across him in different places when I go out.

    Hope marrianne is ok.. I was thinking, with my tap situation, that at this rate marrianne will be doing her washing in the bath, and I will be bathing in the kitchen sink :shock: well hopefully it will not come to that but I can't see them being replaceable, I was told not, anyway. So it may come to some sort of temporary bodge fix for now til it can move up the queue of jobs.

    Joan, how annoying that the pharmacist made a mistake with your medicine, and an extra trip to check. :roll: That's not very good. Hope it helps now you are able to start it and the cold is not one that hangs around.

    Applerose, so well done to Erin.. :) and she looks lovely anyway. It's a big thing to do. Glad she had her sister doing the 'honours', that must have helped. It will grow back quickly over the rest of the summer. Glad to hear Lucy is a good dog. Does she need long walks or is she a little dog with little legs. :D

    Well lemonade sounds lovely, and how are those potatoes? :D Will sit here and cool down with the evening and see what the night brings.

    Plenty of cake left, they were 2 for something or other so it would have been silly to get one. :wink: (I sounded a bit like I was chucking my money about willy-nilly but it was mostly sensible things I needed anyway and has saved me thinking about an online shop for a little longer. You certainly could spend a lot v quickly though with some of 'those' food prices! :o )

    Sending thoughts for a good night for folks, xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Barbara, will do. Thank you. We don't know how much has been raised but it is definitely over £1000 and it is still coming in so a big thank you to everyone who sponsored Erin. Your ice cream sounds good. I'll have to give it a try. I've seen a small but deepish pool somewhere. Thought about getting it to sit in in the garden but don't think I could be bothered with filling it.

    Joan, glad you got your meds sorted out. It's not good when they get it wrong.

    Kath, you poor thing. All that itching. Yes, we are all very proud of Erin. Just checked the temperature and it's 20 degrees outside and 19 degrees inside. Phew.

    Toady, hope you find a solution to your tap problem soon. I thought it was nice for Erin to have her sister shave her head too. She should have about an inch to an inch and a half by the time she goes back to school. Lucy is a black labrador something. She can take or leave walks so that's ok. Poor thing is wondering why my son has gone without her. She keeps checking upstairs and outside. I'm sure she'll settle in a couple of days though. I know what you mean about spending too much on food. I can't resist the bargains and I have to be honest, I have sometimes had to throw things out because I didn't use them. :oops:

    Just had an update from my sister. So far Erin has raised £1528 and it's not all in yet. :D
    Christine
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Morning all
    Christine..£1,528 is brilliant good for her..hopefully it might go over 2, 000 :D Lucy will settle down..now I could do with a dog like that .. :D Erin and her sisters hair will probably grow quicker while its summer I know mine does..my hairdresser cuts mine and my neighbours every 5 weeks instead of 6..hope you don't get to hot at work...must be nice while they are all on holiday or is it lonely..
    Kath I really feel for you being hot is bad but scratching has well..you must be desperate for some relief...I would wear what I wanted to cool down never mind the scabs on show..and I always use the carton custard much better than mine :lol:
    Toady..I was wondering how Marrianne was going on bet she is shattered but hopefully by now she has a washer by now...glad you managed a nice relaxing day inside..dont you just yearn for them..i do has I get older and more wonky..I agree about spending to much on food..I think the recession concentrated peoples mind on this.. :roll:
    Well there is a lovely breeze here hope it last but worried about the thunder storms we are promised tonight..wounder if this is why we have breeze it is whipping up.. :o
    This weekend kath might get her chips...I will let you know and take a pic of the harvest... :lol: see you all later...xxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Well done Erin,you look cute with short hair.
    Just started raining here and thunder in the distance.Mig
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Sorry been AWOL from the cafe. things have been hectic with my boy and had a few appointments; rheummy, 3 for the BP and bloods so been here and there. All done now except getting my annual steroid on Monday. I'll be flying then :D


    The storm woke up all the children so I had some comforting to do. Dan was shaking so I had to reassure him it was going away. I thought it was beautiful and added bonus was the rain for the flowers.

    OH cut down some laurel yesterday and he as left the poor pidgeon and her nest exposed but its lovely to look at her sitting on her eggs.

    Kath bet you feel cooler now. I once had really short hair,grade 4, but have it long now.

    Take care everyone. Will be going away to quieter places as much as possible throughout the summer so might not be online too often.

    Elizabeth xxxx
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,311
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hello Barbara Kathleen Toady Christine Mig Elizabeth
    i hope you all have a good weekend.
    thank you for the kind words
    take care
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Evening all
    Mig we are promised thunder tonight..hope we dont...when is your next trip.. :D
    Elizabeth we were worried in case you was still poorly glad it was appointments not glad but you know what I mean..no wounder your son was scared I am the same with thunder..at least you could keep him calm..hope the jab helps on Monday....
    Joan hope you and Sue have a good weekend...and that your mouth feels better very soon
    Just had the baby here stones everywhere....even down her shorts... :lol: so it is quiet now..all gc at home..still not done online shopping...
    Just had a lovely call from my cousin in South Africa..he is in his late 60s and has been there since he was 19..he says if I get skype he will get on that next time :shock: ooh he might have a shock we ave exchanged letters and email and pics but talk face to face.... :)
    I hope everyone is doing ok..will see you tomorrow there are cold drinks for anyone that pops in xxxxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Yes, Barbara, Erin's hair will soon grow. My hair seems to grow a lot any time of year. It wasn't too hot at work today which is unusual. On the walk home, it was very hot one minute then breezy and cool the next. Best thing was, I got 4 weeks wages all at once. They have to last 4 weeks though. Not lonely at all. It's good having the place to myself although the 18 year old will be there from Monday night till Thursday lunchtime before he goes to join the others. I quite enjoy a good thunder storm but hope you don't get any. Looking forward to seeing your potatoes. Must remember the trick of carrying stones in my shorts so it leaves my hands free. How lovely to hear from your cousin.

    Thank you Mig. So sounds like you are about to get the thunder. Hope you're ok with it.

    Good to see you back Elizabeth. Hope you do feel good on Monday and that Dan is ok now after the storm. Don't worry about popping in. As long as we know where you are and that things are ok.

    Joan, hope you and Sue have a good weekend and your mouth is improving.

    Poor Lucy, my son's dog, cried most of the night then I had to leave her this morning while I went to work. She was very happy when I came home. She is settling down now though. Got a text from both my son and DIL saying the apartment is lovely and they are having a good time.

    Hope you all have a good weekend.
    Christine
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,341
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Good Morning fellow Café-dwellers :)

    Finally we got 'the storm' overnight :) Pheweeeee!!

    Do two of us have no water???? Outside in my garden will be perfect for doing washing and having a shower ;)

    Daisycat is not so happy this morning - yesterday in the heat she loved it!! She is an odd-un.

    Elizabeth I hope your poor boy is ok and you had no more storms to scare him. Good you are due your steroid jab :D . I got my appointment in for rheumy, but it clashes with Lucy's chemo rota so will have to rearrange :roll:

    Hope you can see the baby birds hatch! I hope you have a good summer and understand the need for peace with you lad, but will miss you.

    Imagine the pharmacy making a mistake with Joan's meds :shock: It's a really good job you were on the ball - get well soon.

    Supposed to be meeting one of Lucy's chemo-crew in Lichfield today, but there's really no 'cover' so I will have to think of somewhere else :?

    Christine Erin is an absolute STAR :) What she has done will do so much good for others. I for one would like to thank HER!! She is beautiful isn't she?

    Barbara - Baby sounds such a character!! Lucy used to love stones too...I remember having carrier bags full of (junk) stuff including stones until she got her own handbag :)

    Mig I hope the air is clearer your way. It's STILL pelting down here :roll:

    Toady thanks for your good night wishes. It wasn't easy to sleep was it and thanks for the cake :) YUM ;)

    Kath I hope you are doing ok and not toooo itchy scratchy :(I hope you slept well yourself :)

    Love to you all

    Toni xxx
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Morning all,Cooler this morning but still raining,just had a rummage in the freezer for something different for tea found some sea bass so thats what we will be having ,baby new potatoes and peas ,shall have herb butter as well.Mig