From trisher- Thanking you all so much

trisher
trisher Member Posts: 9,263
edited 21. Sep 2009, 08:46 in Living with Arthritis archive
It had been only had only been hours after my Darling husband had bought me home from hospital after my hand surgery when he collapsed.

It wass not possible for me to go with the Paramedics in the ambulance.

I was desprately trying to find a way to get to the hospital and be there just to hold his hand wpuld been enough.

How ever he has had major surgery and is now in the safe handsa in Intensive Care.

I cannot thankLynn enough for her help and suggestion for startimg a thread . At first I said no as I there were others on here who neede your help.


I have made a list of all the suggestions that were coming in and have already inquired as I I never want to be in a position like I was in again.

Love Trisher xx [/quote="trisher"]
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  • minky67
    minky67 Member Posts: 2,328
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi Trisher,what a worry youve had im so sorry.
    hope you can get some transport sorted out for the hospital visiting.
    i wish you & you husband all the very best for a speedy recovery.
    take care,luv debs
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I can`t begin to imagine what you have been - and still are - going

    through. Well, maybe some of it.


    Take great care of yourself, and if you need to talk, please PM me.


    Thinking of you........Much love........Ange.
  • debatat
    debatat Member Posts: 659
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trish, I really felt for you as that must have been such a stressful situation. I wish you and your hubby well and a speedy recovery.

    I hope you have got the transport situation covered.

    Best wishes

    Deb x
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    trish take care of your self you r in my thoughts good luck
    val
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trisher,

    I hope he will continue to recover well and quickly and glad that some of the worry has been lifted from you now. Have you found a way to get there now? Is your son able to stay for a bit? Will be thinking of you both and a ((( ))) for you. Love Cris x
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Ange

    I have been trtying to make sure that my t hat typing is readable as I am right handed. I left that part ouy
    Eventually after many hours of trying i eventually was able to track down our son. Then I had to wait another 11 hours for him o get here.

    I then went straight to the hospital and was able to hold his hand

    Thank you so much though.
    luv trisher xx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi debs

    Thank you

    At the moment our son is over ere nowh and has taken me to see to see hubby

    Thank You

    luv trisher xx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Jan/vaval

    Thank you both

    Now I have seen hubby i feel a bit easier. He is not out of the woods yet.

    Jan thank for yn. That's another on my lsit for me to enquire. On Monday our son is going to help me use the names I havent tried.

    luv trisher
  • eckstardeluxe
    eckstardeluxe Member Posts: 1,192
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi

    I'm very sorry I missed the earlier post, I don't think I could have helped but would have liked to pass on my best wishes anyway.

    I sincerely hope your hubby makes a good recovery and that you also get better yourself. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

    Best wishes

    Eck
    xxx
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    sending you both big hugs and hoping that your hubby continues to improve, and that you find a more managable way to get to see him.

    sorry i missed your earlier thread.

    big hugs (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Hi Cris

    How did it go on Friday? Was it any easier for you? How are you now? Did you understand re central lining???

    Thanks Cris. I eventually manged to get hold of son. It tooks him 11 hours to get here. He took me straigh to to the hospital. What a relief it was to see hubby.

    My son will stay a few days yet, he's upset over the whole suitation
    he can manage me in our car. He's seen his dad do it.

    I'm worrying about his wife and my little grandson are on there out there.
    He wants to help me find help as hubby is my fall time carer. Plus I need help with bathing, nearly everything.

    I Iwill ring GP Monday. She's really nice. She will help sort me out.

    take care love
    triisher. xxx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Lynn

    How can I ever thank you for what did to help me? You are so kind.

    With the help of my son. We are going through every answer to the thread you did. e was impressed.

    The transport has to be sorted. I did ring to enquire about some of the suggestions.A few are lookin into it.

    Thank you once again You take care
    love trisher xx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Eck

    Thank you for your good wishes. Don't worry about missing the thread there was a lot going on newbies others needing help.

    Thank you Eck

    Love trisher xx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 19. Sep 2009, 21:53
    Sorry did know you were there.

    That would have been just what I needed.

    I think the pilot should be good looking. Not married don't want him telling us how his misses nags him. then his kids ect ect.

    Besides that when not used for people in trouble. He could help other peeps on here having trouble gettting transport for appointments at hospital.

    If I win the lottery I'll buy a spare helicopter just incase one's in for servicing.

    Thinking about it now the Paramedics who came to our house were not bad looking I even got a kiss when they asked me if I was okay. If I had said no. They may have done something. I just said yes because hubby was in such a bad way.
  • annebr
    annebr Member Posts: 730
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Trisher,

    I am glad that your husband is in good hands and that you have your son with you for the moment.

    Sorry, I don't have any solutions but I do send you my love.

    Anne

    p.s If there is a helicopter with some good looking pilots do you think he could swing by Scotland and take me for a spin?
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Anne

    Don't worry, Lynn and I will interview more pilots. It was her Idea.

    Being your in Scotland does he have to wear a kilt?? I'm thinking of the rotor blades. :shock: It is health and safety reasons.

    It might be better for our healths. I'm concerned for his safety.

    You will get your turn, we won't leave you out.

    Thank you for your god wishes though.It is appreciated.

    love trisher xxx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Wonkeylegs

    Please don't worry about not seeing the thread. There was a lot going on. Lots of newbies and other peeps really needing help.

    At least it has made me realise that I really need to have more back up in place.

    Thank you for your wishes.

    Love trisher xxx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trisher,

    I am glad your son is with you for a min and you mustn't worry about your DIL and your grandson cus you are also recovering from the shock and your own opp.

    I do hope the gp can help you. Did the ward have any suggestions? It must be a problem that crops up now and then and I really hope that it can be sorted soon.

    Hey don't you worry about me, I think I understand the line thing, she called it a portus line (I think) and if it helps then it will be good eh? I just taking a bit of time to get over this one :wink: I shall be fine in a couple of weeks.

    You look after that hand and I really do hope something gets sorted for you soon. love and a ((( ))) Cris, who must go and do some work :wink: x
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,137
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trisher
    So very glad to hear from you after all you've been through.
    I agree it's when something like this happens that you realise how much you depend on one-another. You will see to it that you have a plan B and C from now on I'm sure :)
    Anyway I just want to say all my thoughts are with you both and I wish your hubby a speedy recovery.
    All my best wishes
    Toni x
  • babette
    babette Member Posts: 128
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trisher

    So sorry to hear about your predicament. I hope your hubby is recovering well and that you are recovering from what must have been a scary and shocking experience. Take care!

    B x
  • mistywillow
    mistywillow Member Posts: 711
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trisher
    Sorry, I have only just read your post as own real life making too many demands to spend enough time with Cyber real life! What a dreadful time for you at the moment. I am glad at least your son can be with you for a while. I wish you and your husband a speedy return to better health.
    Cyber hugs to you all
    Gillx
  • page35
    page35 Member Posts: 1,081
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Trisher
    glad your son is with you at the moment and that you have been to see your husband.
    i wish you both well
    take care
    page
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Aw, dear Trisher,

    I do hope that you are ok after your op. Your poor dear husband, what an awful thing to happen to him and you. It is good to know we helped you and I am so pleased you allowed Lynn to post on your behalf. We are all here for each other. It really does help, I know from my own experience on here, when I was upset over my mum being critically ill in hospital at the about this time last year for a long time.

    I am pleased to hear that your son was able to get to you and sincerely hope a care package is put in place quickly and your husband is being well cared for.

    Lots of love and gentle hugs
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    How are you feeling this morning Trish? I hope the news from the

    hospital is better. Also, that you can get your care sorted out.



    One thing I can tell you, all of this will make yours and your

    husbands love stronger than ever.........Thinking of you.......Much

    love........Ange.
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello,
    Wishing your husband a speedy recovery, as you say hes in good hands now. I also hope you are recovering, although such an awful shock must have taken a lot out of you. Take care of yourself, try and rest as much as possible. I'm glad you've got your son to help you now. It must make all the difference.

    With my love, and prayers for you both, hugs and kisses to you.
    Take care, thinking of you both, Love Sue(((((((xxxxxxx))))))))) :)