From trisher- Thanking you all so much
trisher
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It had been only had only been hours after my Darling husband had bought me home from hospital after my hand surgery when he collapsed.
It wass not possible for me to go with the Paramedics in the ambulance.
I was desprately trying to find a way to get to the hospital and be there just to hold his hand wpuld been enough.
How ever he has had major surgery and is now in the safe handsa in Intensive Care.
I cannot thankLynn enough for her help and suggestion for startimg a thread . At first I said no as I there were others on here who neede your help.
I have made a list of all the suggestions that were coming in and have already inquired as I I never want to be in a position like I was in again.
Love Trisher xx [/quote="trisher"]
It wass not possible for me to go with the Paramedics in the ambulance.
I was desprately trying to find a way to get to the hospital and be there just to hold his hand wpuld been enough.
How ever he has had major surgery and is now in the safe handsa in Intensive Care.
I cannot thankLynn enough for her help and suggestion for startimg a thread . At first I said no as I there were others on here who neede your help.
I have made a list of all the suggestions that were coming in and have already inquired as I I never want to be in a position like I was in again.
Love Trisher xx [/quote="trisher"]
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hi Trisher,what a worry youve had im so sorry.
hope you can get some transport sorted out for the hospital visiting.
i wish you & you husband all the very best for a speedy recovery.
take care,luv debs0 -
I can`t begin to imagine what you have been - and still are - going
through. Well, maybe some of it.
Take great care of yourself, and if you need to talk, please PM me.
Thinking of you........Much love........Ange.0 -
Hi Trish, I really felt for you as that must have been such a stressful situation. I wish you and your hubby well and a speedy recovery.
I hope you have got the transport situation covered.
Best wishes
Deb x0 -
trish take care of your self you r in my thoughts good luckval0
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Hi Trisher,
I hope he will continue to recover well and quickly and glad that some of the worry has been lifted from you now. Have you found a way to get there now? Is your son able to stay for a bit? Will be thinking of you both and a ((( ))) for you. Love Cris x0 -
Hi Ange
I have been trtying to make sure that my t hat typing is readable as I am right handed. I left that part ouy
Eventually after many hours of trying i eventually was able to track down our son. Then I had to wait another 11 hours for him o get here.
I then went straight to the hospital and was able to hold his hand
Thank you so much though.
luv trisher xx0 -
Hi debs
Thank you
At the moment our son is over ere nowh and has taken me to see to see hubby
Thank You
luv trisher xx0 -
Jan/vaval
Thank you both
Now I have seen hubby i feel a bit easier. He is not out of the woods yet.
Jan thank for yn. That's another on my lsit for me to enquire. On Monday our son is going to help me use the names I havent tried.
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Hi
I'm very sorry I missed the earlier post, I don't think I could have helped but would have liked to pass on my best wishes anyway.
I sincerely hope your hubby makes a good recovery and that you also get better yourself. I will keep you both in my thoughts.
Best wishes
Eck
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sending you both big hugs and hoping that your hubby continues to improve, and that you find a more managable way to get to see him.
sorry i missed your earlier thread.
big hugs (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))0 -
Oh Hi Cris
How did it go on Friday? Was it any easier for you? How are you now? Did you understand re central lining???
Thanks Cris. I eventually manged to get hold of son. It tooks him 11 hours to get here. He took me straigh to to the hospital. What a relief it was to see hubby.
My son will stay a few days yet, he's upset over the whole suitation
he can manage me in our car. He's seen his dad do it.
I'm worrying about his wife and my little grandson are on there out there.
He wants to help me find help as hubby is my fall time carer. Plus I need help with bathing, nearly everything.
I Iwill ring GP Monday. She's really nice. She will help sort me out.
take care love
triisher. xxx0 -
Hi Lynn
How can I ever thank you for what did to help me? You are so kind.
With the help of my son. We are going through every answer to the thread you did. e was impressed.
The transport has to be sorted. I did ring to enquire about some of the suggestions.A few are lookin into it.
Thank you once again You take care
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Hi Eck
Thank you for your good wishes. Don't worry about missing the thread there was a lot going on newbies others needing help.
Thank you Eck
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Sorry did know you were there.
That would have been just what I needed.
I think the pilot should be good looking. Not married don't want him telling us how his misses nags him. then his kids ect ect.
Besides that when not used for people in trouble. He could help other peeps on here having trouble gettting transport for appointments at hospital.
If I win the lottery I'll buy a spare helicopter just incase one's in for servicing.
Thinking about it now the Paramedics who came to our house were not bad looking I even got a kiss when they asked me if I was okay. If I had said no. They may have done something. I just said yes because hubby was in such a bad way.0 -
Trisher,
I am glad that your husband is in good hands and that you have your son with you for the moment.
Sorry, I don't have any solutions but I do send you my love.
Anne
p.s If there is a helicopter with some good looking pilots do you think he could swing by Scotland and take me for a spin?0 -
Hi Anne
Don't worry, Lynn and I will interview more pilots. It was her Idea.
Being your in Scotland does he have to wear a kilt?? I'm thinking of the rotor blades. :shock: It is health and safety reasons.
It might be better for our healths. I'm concerned for his safety.
You will get your turn, we won't leave you out.
Thank you for your god wishes though.It is appreciated.
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Hi Wonkeylegs
Please don't worry about not seeing the thread. There was a lot going on. Lots of newbies and other peeps really needing help.
At least it has made me realise that I really need to have more back up in place.
Thank you for your wishes.
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Hi Trisher,
I am glad your son is with you for a min and you mustn't worry about your DIL and your grandson cus you are also recovering from the shock and your own opp.
I do hope the gp can help you. Did the ward have any suggestions? It must be a problem that crops up now and then and I really hope that it can be sorted soon.
Hey don't you worry about me, I think I understand the line thing, she called it a portus line (I think) and if it helps then it will be good eh? I just taking a bit of time to get over this one I shall be fine in a couple of weeks.
You look after that hand and I really do hope something gets sorted for you soon. love and a ((( ))) Cris, who must go and do some work x0 -
Hi Trisher
So very glad to hear from you after all you've been through.
I agree it's when something like this happens that you realise how much you depend on one-another. You will see to it that you have a plan B and C from now on I'm sure
Anyway I just want to say all my thoughts are with you both and I wish your hubby a speedy recovery.
All my best wishes
Toni x0 -
Hi Trisher
So sorry to hear about your predicament. I hope your hubby is recovering well and that you are recovering from what must have been a scary and shocking experience. Take care!
B x0 -
Hi Trisher
Sorry, I have only just read your post as own real life making too many demands to spend enough time with Cyber real life! What a dreadful time for you at the moment. I am glad at least your son can be with you for a while. I wish you and your husband a speedy return to better health.
Cyber hugs to you all
Gillx0 -
Hi Trisher
glad your son is with you at the moment and that you have been to see your husband.
i wish you both well
take care
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Aw, dear Trisher,
I do hope that you are ok after your op. Your poor dear husband, what an awful thing to happen to him and you. It is good to know we helped you and I am so pleased you allowed Lynn to post on your behalf. We are all here for each other. It really does help, I know from my own experience on here, when I was upset over my mum being critically ill in hospital at the about this time last year for a long time.
I am pleased to hear that your son was able to get to you and sincerely hope a care package is put in place quickly and your husband is being well cared for.
Lots of love and gentle hugs
Elna xThe happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.
If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.0 -
How are you feeling this morning Trish? I hope the news from the
hospital is better. Also, that you can get your care sorted out.
One thing I can tell you, all of this will make yours and your
husbands love stronger than ever.........Thinking of you.......Much
love........Ange.0 -
Hello,
Wishing your husband a speedy recovery, as you say hes in good hands now. I also hope you are recovering, although such an awful shock must have taken a lot out of you. Take care of yourself, try and rest as much as possible. I'm glad you've got your son to help you now. It must make all the difference.
With my love, and prayers for you both, hugs and kisses to you.
Take care, thinking of you both, Love Sue(((((((xxxxxxx)))))))))0
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