Trisher-In Respite Care At Moment

trisher · 23. Sep 2009, 11:04

Hi

Just did not know where I should put this, so sorry if it is in wrong place or if wrong for me to do it.

I'm all over the place at moment but I'm trying.I know quite a few of you know qhat happend last week and about my hubby being critically ill at moment.

I phoned my Doctor yesterday and she came down to have a talk with me as i'm basically on my own ( my son is still here ) and cannot manage properly. She has helped me so much.

I'm now in a Hospice. I have my own room and bathroom ect. telly cand have been able to take mu computer with me.

The food looks nice , mot that I've eaten yet.. The nurses are excellant, the docotrs are lovely,

The best news is they have their own minivan so I will ne able to visit my hubby as much as I want too. (bearing in mind that others might have booked to go to places,) but as i have been staying by hubby side till late, they think it won't be too much of a problem.

I just hope that you will not mind if i lean on you a bit. I'll try not to be a nuisance to you but I'm sorry if I already have last week.

love trisher xxx

skezier · 23. Sep 2009, 11:10

Hi Trisher,

That's probably a better thing for you just now, especially as your getting over your hand opp as well.

Glad you can now visit your Husband, that must be a huge load off your mind. You take care and lean away,

Love

Cris xx

Wonkylegs · 23. Sep 2009, 11:10

hey Trisher, that is what this place is all about ...... lean on us all as much as you want to!

sooooooooo glad that your doctor has been able to help you and what a solution to come up with ..... great stuff. You get pampered as much as you can and that will ehlp you to stay strong for your hubby.

thinking of you and sending great big hugs to you
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( hugs )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

suzster · 23. Sep 2009, 11:16

hi trisher, i'm really glad you're in a comfortable place with the help you need, it's tough so you lean on us as much as you need to, we are all here for you.
take care and rest please!!
sue

lindalegs · 23. Sep 2009, 11:41

What a brilliant solution Trisher - I'm pleased your GP was proactive and listened to your problems.

You can share any worries with us, we're waiting in cyber space.

Luv Legs

frogmorton · 23. Sep 2009, 11:42

Hi Trisher
How brave are you?! How very very sensible and pratical.
So pleased you are going to be able to put your feet up and be looked after and the stress of visiting is over for you

Now that doesn't mean you get out of popping into the cafe and doing your baking tonight - ok?
Good decision
Love
Toni xx

trisher · 23. Sep 2009, 11:48

Hi Cris.

Oh it is Chris I can now have a bath every day and they even have a washing service for my clothes so I do'nt have to worry about clean knickers etc.

Plus dressings that need doing for an op I had a while ago. It is a wound that does not heal and has to be dressed.

I feel a big weight has been lifted. I have still got the names of places to try from Lynn's thread last week. Incase some e;se on here ever has a problem like me.

They said they are going to give me an injecton tonight to help me get some sleep.

I love the name of your asheep.t My goodness you've got a lot to look after!!

You take care
love trisher.xxx

elnafinn · 23. Sep 2009, 11:51

So relieved and pleased to hear that things have been really wonderfully organised Trisher and that you have a few things that you can sort of put to one side, if you know what I mean and be there for your husband and get well yourself after your operation. It is so good that you are able to be in contact with us all here, your big family. I believe we are all saying "phew" for you. It must also be a great relief to your son too.

Keep calling in, so we know how things are going for you and your dear husband.

Lots of love
Elna x

trisher · 23. Sep 2009, 11:56

Hi Toni, Hi Legs

Ohh I'm not brave, I've been scared stiff. last night the only good thing I thought abougth was baking until I saw that spider in the cafe.

My doctor, she keeps saying that. I must admit I have a really good GP

I can't put my legs up but what is left of them I'll try. \i might look a bit weired.

Going to have a snooze on the sofa and read a book to night.

love trisher xxx

trisher · 23. Sep 2009, 12:01

aww thank you Elna. I don't want to ,make my self a nuisance.

My son is so pleased. There was only a certain amount he could do for me if you know what I mean.

You all have been so good to me and I'll always remember that.

love trisher xxx

trisher · 23. Sep 2009, 12:18

Hi Trisher

Hi

Lynn, Hi Wonkeylegs, Hi Sue

What can I say to you Lynn ? I don't mind being here it's a lovely place, got big garden . At least I have a way to go to hospital.Plus being cared.

They gave eveb got a hairdresser, what a place. I'm so lucky.

I have found a great group of nice friends on here. If there is anything i can do for any of you just ask.

Lynn The Forum pilot is good looking nice muscles, not oever the top but fit.

love trisher xxx

frogmorton · 23. Sep 2009, 12:22

Trisher
I am so happy for you and yes, you have found great group of friends on here

We is lovely!
Better let you get on and have your hair done!! (hubby will be so pleased when you go in and are not stressed - it will be a releif for him and surely aid his recovery).
You take care and i had better go and get the doorways widened in the cafe so we can all get our heads in :oops: :!:
Toni x

angel1 · 23. Sep 2009, 13:07

Trisher, I`m so relieved to hear your news, I`ve been really worried about you.

Please read the message I left on your other thread. Thinking of you..........Much love.....Ange.

debbieclap · 23. Sep 2009, 13:27

HI Trisher
that's a brilliant solution so glad you can get the care you need and get to see hubby.
Keep leaning that's what we are all here for and we all hold each other up if we all lean (well you know what I mean)
Take care
Debbie

page35 · 23. Sep 2009, 14:17

Hi Trisher
glad you are getting help, sound really great where your staying at the mo

so glad you can get to see you hubby too.
best wishes
page

annebr · 23. Sep 2009, 14:21

Trisher,

I am so glad you have a solution to your problems. Take advantage of the pampering.

I hope your husband is on the mend.

Sending you some cyber hugs.

Anne

chris7 · 23. Sep 2009, 14:45

Trisher

So sorry to have just caught up on this news and discover what a hard time you have been having lately.
I do hope you are having a good rest while you are there and am sure you will be getting lots more supportive messages from the lovely people who have known you for longer than I.
Sending my best wishes and hugs. Take care of yourself.
Chris

joyful164 · 23. Sep 2009, 14:53

Hi Trisher

It sounds like you have found a whole new adventure. At least you have had good training from everyone here. It sounds good that you can get your hair done, that will cheer you up and like the others have said, your husband will see you destressed and feel better about that. You have gone through such a lot and helped others, it's your turn now.

Have a good nights sleep.
joy

jordan7j · 23. Sep 2009, 15:16

Hi Trisher, so glad you have such an understanding gp!! You need t be taken care of as much as your husband does, also to be able to still visit him and not hae the worry of that too must be alot off your mind. We are all thinking of you, take care, lots of love Jay

jaspercat · 23. Sep 2009, 15:30

Hi Trisher, hope that you enjoy your respite, at least you have help when you need it, and you can visit your hubbie, I hope all goes well for you love Jaspercatxx

valval · 23. Sep 2009, 15:33

trisher that sounds great place better than sharing arther house with rehab. glad they got u sorted so well take care come on when ever u need us we love to be needed. and we all love u so look after your self do not over do things

minky67 · 23. Sep 2009, 15:52

hi Trisher,all i can do is duplicate whats already been said.
try not to worry,enjoy being looked after.
wishing a speedy recovery to you & your hubby.
we all here to support you love.
till better days come.
luv & best wishes to you both,debs (((())))

ritwren · 23. Sep 2009, 16:31

How wonderful that your GP has found you such a comfortable place to recover in. It's great that they will also transport you to see your Dear Husband, I hope he mends soon. As for you, sounds like you have a nice lot of folks around you too. I'm really happy for you. Hope you get a good night sleep and feel better tomorrow too.
rita

kathbee · 23. Sep 2009, 16:46

That all sounds good Trisher after what you have
been thru of late.

Hope everything works well from now on.

Take care
Kath xx

debatat · 23. Sep 2009, 17:10

Hi Trisher, I am really pleased that you are being looked after. I hope you get the best possible care so you have as much energy to concentrate on visiting your hubby. I am glad you have such a good gp.

Dont worry

Deb x

eckstardeluxe · 23. Sep 2009, 17:15

Hi Trisher

I think that's a great idea. Take full advantage of everything on offer. At least now you can have a little less worry and be nearer your husband. I hope he is doing ok and you too.

Eck
xxx

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