I feel like a baby

dachshund
dachshund Member Posts: 9,169
edited 19. Nov 2009, 11:43 in Living with Arthritis archive
Hello everyone.
I'm back from the pain clinic.
and i've been crying all the time and i dont know why.
i had my app today and my dr told me to mention that my legs are feel as if they are shaking all the time so i said that to him and he said that it was not a sign of arther so perhaps it was from the anitrip and to take paracetamol.
i said about the pain in my hip and and across my back was arther and i was doing the right thing by going to the hydrotherapy and gym.
and i was to carry on with my dr
i should be pleased its not worse but it hurts when i move and goes stiff .
i'm sorry to go on.
i wish everyone a good night.
joan xx
take care
joan xx

Comments

  • debatat
    debatat Member Posts: 659
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Joan, sorry you feel worse. Gentle ((( hugs ))) to you. Do you feel you gained anything from the appt? It doesn't sound as though it really helped you. Maybe a nice hot bath and a glass of something nice will help you to unstiffen.

    Take care

    Deb x
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,169
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Deb.
    Thank you
    i have only got a shower and i dont drink alcohol.
    with anitrip.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,057
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hey Joan
    No way are you a baby :shock:
    Sometimes though these sort of apts can make us feel like crying.
    I too hope you got SOMETHING out of your apt :(
    Did he really tell you to stop the amitrip?
    Love
    Toni x
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,169
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Toni.
    no not to stop the anitrip to take paracetamol as well and to carry on with what i'm doing by going to the gym and the hydro i cannot do a lot at the gym it as to be things that i can do sitting down.
    it's the pain in my hip and across my back and spine he said exersise will help it but it gets stiff
    then and i have more problems walking.
    sorry going on.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • chris7
    chris7 Bots Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Joan

    Really sorry you have had such an upsetting day. I can't offer any advise other than to go back to your doctor if you don't feel a little better in a day or two. I am sending a hug for you and hope tomorrow is a better day.
    take care
    love Chris
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So sorry you are feeling down Joan. NO ONE tries harder than you to keep going. Hope tomorrow is a better day. Much love to you and Sue.......Ange.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Joan

    I am so sorry to hear that your appointment with the pain clinic was not beneficial from what you have said and it was as if the person you spoke to, was not taking much interest at all. That must have been most upsetting so I am not surprised that you have felt so emotional today. We go to these appointments with hope for some help at least and when we feel we do not receive it, we get very despondent, which is only natural.

    Perhaps it would be a good idea to report back to your gp how negative the visit was for you and I do hope that the neurologist you see, is much more sympathetic and understanding.

    It makes me unhappy to hear that you have been so upset today.

    Love
    Elna x(())
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Joan,

    Whenever I've had the shakes I've been told it's a nerve problem, but I can't quite see where you might be advised to take paracetamol for it!

    Do hope you feel better tomorrow, these 'hopeless' days are better over!

    Love
    Annie
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi, I am sorry you are so down, its horrible. I wonder if part of the feeling you have is disappointment that the appointment didn't help much? We invest so much hope in these appointments and when they are over and we've not got much from them, its a horrible feeling. Please don't feel bad about it.

    I've not heard of the amatrip causing the effects you have. If I were you I would'nt stop taking them until you've discussed it with your GP, as I think its one of the drugs you have to stop slowly or they can rebound on you. Certainly, I think you need some advice first. Shaking or trembling, although I am certainly no medic, does sound like a nerve problem and maybe you should be asking your GP if it may be a good idea to see a neurologist, if it carries on.

    Good luck, I hope you will get some rest tonight and feel better in the morning, Love Sue
  • sharmaine
    sharmaine Member Posts: 1,638
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Joan

    It sounds as if you've been let down by your visit to the clinic. I find I have to be firm and spell out what is wrong otherwise they take no notice. A technique I use when visiting these people and to make them listen is to start any statements with "I". I am in pain and I need/want you to.............. etc.

    This may work. I do hope you feel better. Make an appointment to see you GP again and explain to her how you are feeling.

    Warm regards
    Sharmaine
  • ritwren
    ritwren Member Posts: 928
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to hear they were'nt much help at the pain clinic, I'd be crying too if it was me. Sounds to me like they did'nt come up with anything for you that you're not already doing. I can really understand your disappointment as we all have expectations from these clinics and hope they help and understand us. Does'nt sound as if they did for you.
    I hope you are feeling a little stronger today.
    Gentle hugs rita.
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Joan,

    I am sorry you had a not so good appointment with your pain clinic, its not surprising you got upset there. I think we tend to get through this clinging to hopes that something will be done to help us and when that doesn't happen we feel like the rug has been pulled out from under us. I hope you are feeling a bit happier today?

    Something I do think is wrong here, no the shaking isn't a sign of arthritis but hell it is a symptom! I promise you it really can be! Mine is! I don't know exactly how it works but its got to be swelling and inflamation plays havoc with your nerve endings either at root level or at peripheral level so I promise you he is wrong to say its nothing to do with it. That's not within his remit zone!

    Go back and see your doctor and have a chat with them. Don't let it get you down and I hope you get sent to a better pain clinic doctor who ate the right attitude cereal flakes! Hey you come give me anther hand and we will take your mind off it :wink: Hang in there Joan. Luv and a ((( ))) Cris x
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,169
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Lynn Chris Ange Jan Elna Annie Sue Sharmaine
    Rita and Cris.
    Thank you it was very kind of you.
    i'm sorry i got upset because all of you have more pain than i do.
    the dr at the pain c also said it was because of the way i walk i cannot help having c palsy i've been like it all my life perhaps i walk a bit different because or artifical bits and age.
    sorry to go on again and thank you.
    cris i will come and help you any time.
    love joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Joan

    There is absolutely no need to apologise on here for saying how you are feeling. The doctor at the pain clinic was well out of order. Anyone would have been upset by the way you were spoken to and treated.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Never apologise Joan. We care about you. Much love to you and Sue..........Ange.
  • mistywillow
    mistywillow Member Posts: 711
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Joan
    Sorry that you are feeling down and didnt get much help from your appointment, it is very disappointing when that happens. I was going to suggest that maybe your CP had something to do with the shaking feeling. Amyl can cause side effects but if you have been on it a while it is likely that you would have experienced this before now. Maybe your GP is the best person to talk this through with because they are the only ones who actually consider all your problems together rather than the specialists who tend to just focus on their 'bit'
    I hope you feel brighter soon and get some answers. In the meanwhile sending you lots of cyber hugs.
    Gillxx
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Joan,

    So sorry that you're feeling down and in so much pain I think the others have given you some very sound advice.

    I hope you feel better very soon.

    Luv Legs :)

    :oops: PS I did open your thread thinking you wanted advice about getting pregnant ....... sorry :oops: :oops: :oops:
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,169
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you.
    Elna Ange Gill Legs Pixy.
    the dr said to mention the shaking legs to the doc at the pain c. its not from cp as i have not had it before.
    legs it made me laugh you thinking it was a bout pregnancy i'm 68 and i have not got a womb.
    thank you your very kind.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx