Flare up appt

noeltone
noeltone Member Posts: 878
edited 8. Jan 2010, 07:18 in Living with Arthritis archive
I am off to see my Professor consultant tomorrow I wonder what he will say about it all flare up and all perhaps he will incapaciate me again and retire me I dont think he will be pleased about me working I cant win????[/

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  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    just be honest about what you have tried to do, and how you are feeling now ........ the two are not necessarily connected are they?

    but if they are then it is up to you to decide what you want to do, the doctors we see need to treat all of us not just the label! :wink:

    I hope that you get some help and some useful advice to help you - you deserve it after all your struggles.

    hugs
    Wonky
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,880
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Chrisov
    He will be pleased to know you have not given up and have spirit I reckon. Yes he might worry that it has made things worse, but as Wonky says the two might not be connected eh?
    Good luck from me :)
    Love
    Toni xx
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Christov, I hope that your consultant is glad that you are able to do some work. I wouldn't have thought that retirement would happen unless you felt that you couldn't manage. Anyway the very best of Good Luck!!! Love Sue
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,396
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrisov,

    He's not allowed to judge you on whether you work or not, it's your choice at the end of the day - he's not your Dad. :| He should you support you whatever you decide to do. It must do your self esteem a power of good knowing that you're able to work and he should applaud that - I do.

    Luv Legs :D
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi all my consultant sadi regarding work that he would not like the consequences of pushing myself with arthir and I sholud be wary btw legs i wish he was my dad so I will take his advice and think seriously about this work atm everything at college is all off becos of the snow??????
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    sounds like wise words - we have to think about the impact of everything we do as well as what we want to do don't we :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: gets really frustrating at times.

    hope you keeping warm.

    hugs ((((((((()))))))))
    wonky
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,880
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    HI Chrisov
    At least the snow is giving you a little breathing space.
    Your professor/consultant sounds really lovely you know. I guess you will know what to do.
    Whatever you decide We are still here for you too.
    Hey how was Charlie's Christmas? Did santa bring him lots of goodies?
    Love
    Toni xx

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