February - the toughest month?

Wonkylegs

HI All,

well i have never enjoyed February since my mum died in Feb, but each year there always seems to be something else to add to the list of February ills.

Last week our neighbour died aged 51 - the funeral is on Wednesday this week.

On Saturday it will be 27 years since my mum died ( she was only 39).

Today my cousin was taken ill at work & although they called an ambulance he died before he got to hospital. He was 51.

Dad rang to tell me about my cousin, and also said how much he hates February. Turns out both his mum and his dad died in February ....... his dad on the same day as my mum

:roll: :roll: lets hope that is it for this year ....... I do hope so!

Sorry just needed to let that out.
WOnky

joyful164

I know wonky, it does get you like that. And especially when your mum, relatives and friends do not seem to be of any great age.
I can't promise that it will get better, but it will. The thing is, you have to remember the good times and the things you enjoyed together. It sometimes does yu good to 'let out'.
Sorry that you have to undergo some funerals over the next few weeks.

All I can say is that you will find the strength, but do look after yourself. I'll be thinking of you.
(((())) ((())) ((())) We'll all leave plenty of hugs for you by the fire instead.XXXXX
Joy

bertyboy

oh Wonky i can feel for you , so much in a short space of time , xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Wonkylegs

thanks Joy & Berty.

it is kind of you to reply.

& thanks for the hugs

angel1

What a lot of sadness for you to deal with Wonks. I will be thinking of you, lovely girl.


We all benefit from your hugs, so have some of my special angel ones........Much love.........Ange.

chris7

Wonky

Really sorry to see this, what a tough time for you with so much grief and shock at the moment. It will naturally have made you think of your mum too, anniversaries can be so hard for all of us. Lost my mum 30 years ago and still miss her. I was only 19.
We will all be thinking of you in the days ahead and beyond. Hope it helps a little to know we really do care about you.
God bless
Chris xx

annie_mial

Wonks, so sorry you are having such a tough time..............lots of huggies for you..............they have been warming by the fire here and are beautifully soft.......

Annie

skezier

Hi Wonky,

I am sorry to read your news. I really am sending you ((((( )))))'s and you take care. Cris xx

naseebapnaapna

it does not matter how old we are, or te age of the person we lose, we always miss th em.

it is better for thier souls if we try to remember the happy times we had with them. they are happier if they know that we are happy, even if they are not with us physically.

that's why we try to have good times with all htose around us.

yes we will miss them. and i don't think time heals, i think time gives us the time to et used to living with what we miss. but they may be walking at our sides, so to be unhappy hurts thier souls.

when these times come, try to remeber all the good times they gave us.

sangita

Wonkylegs

thanks everyone .... it means a lot to have your support.

hugs
Wonky

salamander

Hi Wonky, sorry to read your post. It must be a really tough month for you and now to lose a cousin as well. just wanted to say sorry really.
Sally

jean62

Hi Wonky
Sorry to hear of your loss . Hope things will get better for you .
I know how difficult it is, I lost my mum last year.
Thinking of you.

Jean

minky67

Hi Wonky, so sorry to read your news.
Huge (((((())))))s for you.
Take care.
luv debs

Wonkylegs

delboy wrote:

Chin up wonky there are lots of happy thoughts to look back on.

you're right there Del ..... just got to try to remember that

thanks

trisher

Hi Wonky

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your cousin.

I'm thinking of you at this sad time.

February is not a good month for you is it?

Wonky. You know that we are all here for you. Here's a special ((((())) for you.

love Trish xxxx

madness1985

Hi Wonky,

I can totaly understand your dislike of feb. My grandad died 11 years ago on 9th feb, my uncle died a year ago this week, my great aunty died this month too and a family friend. Just to add to my misery i have a birthday every day this month including my own. Im 25 on sunday and i hate feb its just depressing.

Here's to March!

xx

tkachev

Wonky
Sorry to read your post......
Both my parents died in February. I absolutely hate the month and this year has been worse with all the cold,snowy weather.
Our neighbours dad died on the 13th, last week, and he is in a state of shock.
Roll on March
Elizabeth xx