not long to go to mediation
only49
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hello not long to go now till mediation starts, this time next week we will be having it out with my son's school, will be glad when its over with to be honest they need a good shake up, they don't seem like they are going to change, started to go on about son walking home from school with a member of staff, it still seems as if they want it all there own way but roll on Wednesday and we will be on neutral ground and i hoping we get it sorted, only thing bothers me is will they go back on what they agree with us don't trust them alot.
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pixyandfaries wrote:good luch hun, dont take any crapsylvia0
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Good luck Sylvia
I hope, if it's all in writing, they will ahve to adhere to whatever is agreed eh?
Love
Toni xx0 -
frogmorton wrote:Good luck Sylvia
I hope, if it's all in writing, they will ahve to adhere to whatever is agreed eh?
Love
Toni xxsylvia0 -
If he is on school action plus they will have targets for him to follow.Usually everything will be written in a report so you and your son know what is agreed.If not, make sure they do put it in writing if you can Sylvia,
good luck
ElizabethNever be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein0 -
tkachev wrote:If he is on school action plus they will have targets for him to follow.Usually everything will be written in a report so you and your son know what is agreed.If not, make sure they do put it in writing if you can Sylvia,
good luck
Elizabethsylvia0 -
Oh I am with you now.That sort of cr*p.I have just had similar stuff.I wrote a note just explaining things linked to arthritis and the difficulties this involves...I dont have the strength to get him to sleep in his own room because I suffer fatigue and pain and cannot get out of bed to keep checking on him cos body especially my foot seizes up.We tried but it was easier for me to monitor him in the same room.They actually apologised and said sorry to not to have taken these things into consideration.Sometimes they just dont realise.
Is it a sensory issue(shoes)?Hope you dont mind me asking.
ElizabethNever be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein0 -
Hi Sylvia
Good luck we are are here for you, I really hope it goes how you want it to, you make sure you keep us updated.
Love and hugs(((((((())))))
Barbara xLove
Barbara0 -
tkachev wrote:Oh I am with you now.That sort of cr*p.I have just had similar stuff.I wrote a note just explaining things linked to arthritis and the difficulties this involves...I dont have the strength to get him to sleep in his own room because I suffer fatigue and pain and cannot get out of bed to keep checking on him cos body especially my foot seizes up.We tried but it was easier for me to monitor him in the same room.They actually apologised and said sorry to not to have taken these things into consideration.Sometimes they just dont realise.
Is it a sensory issue(shoes)?Hope you dont mind me asking.
Elizabeth
they keep banging on about fitness and he has P E and swimming on a Tuesday fitness suite Wednesday, swimming Thursday, and fitness suite on Friday so no wonder he tired, :x :x and now then on about walking home from school and as before they will expect me to meet him at the lollipop man in all weathers and we keep saying until he can do it by himself without someone reminding him then they got to bring him home.sylvia0 -
barbara12 wrote:Hi Sylvia
Good luck we are are here for you, I really hope it goes how you want it to, you make sure you keep us updated.
Love and hugs(((((((())))))
Barbara xsylvia0 -
This is going to be difficult to solve.Does he have a diagnosis? The school must make allowances for his difficulties.They are not always understanding I know.
I do understand about walking home. They have difficulties knowing what is appropriate behaviour or crossing roads or going in the right direction. You just want to keep him safe. What about anyone else you trust to walk him home and keep an eye on him? Or a taxi- would he be entitled to this?
I do have sympathy and I am only throwing suggestions at you but understand these ideas may not be viable.
Have you contacted parent partnership at all. They help with educational issues and can even attend meetings to make sure you are not bullied into agreeing with things you dont want.
Sylvia just stand your ground and say he cant do this or that and needs the school to understand and work with you not against you.
Take care and let us know how you get on,
ElizabethNever be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein0 -
Good luck
Are you taking someone from a parent group to support you?
Also, i wouldnt agree to anything - say you will think about it, dont be pushed.
Dont fill in any silences, say your bit then stop.
Write a list, rehearse some questions etc.
As soon as you leave write your own notes whilst its fresh in your mind.0
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