Support for carers

pluggathome
pluggathome Member Posts: 171
edited 27. Apr 2010, 05:09 in Community Chit-chat archive
Hi all,

I wondered if anyone knows of any support groups, helplines, on-line forums etc for carers and in particular carers for people with ME.

My bestest bud's hubby has ME and has for about 7 years and my buddy is fast running out of the ability to cope.

I used to help but arthur has reduced what I can do over the past couple of years. Also, because of arthur she turns to me less for help and support (bl***y arthur) because me and her hubby look just as grey and as pooped as each other.

I kinda feel like I am letting me buddy down at the mo so I am on the hunt for other ways of helping.

Thanks

Plugg

Comments

  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,026
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Plugg

    You ARE a good mate!

    otherwise you wouldnt be trying to help her still :)

    Just being there as an ear is a help isn't it?

    hopefully someone will have some ideas - I know there is an ME support group, but whether they have anything like this???

    number is 0870 4441836

    If I am ok posting this?

    Toni x
  • pluggathome
    pluggathome Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks Toni. I knew this place would be a good place to start.

    Pluggx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,026
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks Toni. I knew this place would be a good place to start.

    Pluggx

    You're welcome!!

    It's a start anyway eh?

    Love

    Toni xx
  • pluggathome
    pluggathome Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thanks rehab
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi, just a thought. My doctors' surgery has many noticeboards scattered about with all sorts of info pinned to them, same as my rheumy dept. There's also the Yellow Pages and the web. Does your friend receive the carer's allowance? If not, she should apply, as every little helps (as so many celebrities keep telling us). Maybe the CAB could give her some pointers too. Regards. Dreamdaisy
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