feeling sad for son

only49
only49 Member Posts: 1,207
edited 3. Jun 2010, 19:13 in Community Chit-chat archive
after our busy day yesterday with that wondeful man that so understands my son, i am now really feel for my son and somehow its just brought me even closer to him, now i will not think twice i will stick up for him and i will not let all the others that think they know better tell me what to do with my son, i gave him a hugg this morning and i dont mind saying it really got to me as i am not him but he must find life so frustrating poor D .

oh well just have to be more of a rockviller ( type of dog ) also a little yappy terrier. :lol::lol::lol::lol:
sylvia :)stern02.gif

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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,848
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Sylvia

    You will feel very much more attached to him won't you? yesterday was very emotional wasnt it.

    Us Mum's are lionesses eh?

    Bet he is relishing it :D

    Love

    Toni xx
  • only49
    only49 Member Posts: 1,207
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    frogmorton wrote:
    Hi Sylvia

    You will feel very much more attached to him won't you? yesterday was very emotional wasnt it.

    Us Mum's are lionesses eh?

    Bet he is relishing it :D

    Love

    Toni xx
    oh i think despite his difficulties and to put it in a nut shell, imagine a line and draw a line down through the middle of that line and he is 3/4 down that line towards the less able end,

    anyway i think he knows what i like i think he got a good idea of that, gonna be hard but he's my specail man and thats that.

    grrr grrr my club is specail and watch out for my claws grrr grrr
    sylvia :)stern02.gif
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Sylvia,

    You do an absolutely brilliant job. As long as he has his parents support hes going to be fine.And he does know that.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I can understand how you feel, but don't be sad. Think of all the joy and love he brings you. Every child is put on this earth for a reason, and with a Mum like you, he has the best start in life that he could poissibly have.
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  • only49
    only49 Member Posts: 1,207
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    joanlawson wrote:
    I can understand how you feel, but don't be sad. Think of all the joy and love he brings you. Every child is put on this earth for a reason, and with a Mum like you, he has the best start in life that he could poissibly have.
    thankyou joan for them lovely words but now i can tackle a lot more for him now, thanks to the interent, loads of info on the autitisc society web page, they have always been brilliant when i had to phone them.
    sylvia :)stern02.gif
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    It's finding the help that's difficult, it is such a hard condition for people to understand. The world is overwhelmng enough when you can comprehend it - such as the events of yesterday - but if interpretation isn't a strength it's so much more complicated. Best wishes to you and D - is it sunny today? It's glorious here. Keep up the good fight, only49. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • only49
    only49 Member Posts: 1,207
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    dreamdaisy wrote:
    It's finding the help that's difficult, it is such a hard condition for people to understand. The world is overwhelmng enough when you can comprehend it - such as the events of yesterday - but if interpretation isn't a strength it's so much more complicated. Best wishes to you and D - is it sunny today? It's glorious here. Keep up the good fight, only49. DD
    i will and like you said to me before make time for me as well and i try my best too.
    sylvia :)stern02.gif
  • suncatcher
    suncatcher Member Posts: 2,174
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    He is lucky to have a mum like you to keep fighting for him. :D Be proud of your self and your son. It annoys me those who really need help have to fight tooth and nail for it. The idiots who supposted to know dont. The moms know best about there kids. well done you. all the best joanne
    Joanne
  • ironic
    ironic Member Posts: 2,361
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi only, Your doing a great job with him and you are lucky to have each other. Treasure those wonderful moments you have together. He certainly gives you some special times. You are his mum and have every right to be proud of his and your achievements.

    Love from, Ix