peace and quiet

only49

hello everyone


is just me or is that i just love peace and quiet, today is a lovely stress free day as hubby's anoying twin has gone on a trip to an island called stronsay he the sort of person that i really dont like, he loves playing stupid games, oh i dont know if i see you tomorrow or not, :x :x and instead of knocking on our door he just assumes its ok and walks in, :x i hate that, and you cant tell him anything because he cant keep it to himself, and ok i have OA and it makes my life difficult but at least i try to do as much as i can for myself, he loves people waiting on him hand and foot, but me and hubby are not and i cant understand how some one can be like that, i think its about time he got a life, i learnt long ago the only person you can rely on is yourself, and that is what i think keeps me going because i am a stubborn person who will get on with it, ( a family trait ) my dad was just the same, oh well in my case it must be like father like daughter, instead of how it's said " like father like son heh i not going to change.

frogmorton

My dad used to say:

the apple never falls far from the tree

So you wont be much diferent from your Dad. Good thing too with all you have on.Determination will satnd you better in the long run than waiting to be 'helped'

I hate it if people just walk in the house :shock:

You thought about locking the door???

Enjoy the quiet

Love

Toni xx

only49

frogmorton wrote:

My dad used to say:

the apple never falls far from the tree

So you wont be much diferent from your Dad. Good thing too with all you have on.Determination will satnd you better in the long run than waiting to be 'helped'

I hate it if people just walk in the house :shock:

You thought about locking the door???

Enjoy the quiet

Love

Toni xx

oh yes we do that and then he knocks on the window likes a big bossy anoying person that he is, he does it because his aim is to anoy people,

only49

babycham wrote:

only49 wrote:

frogmorton wrote:

My dad used to say:

the apple never falls far from the tree

So you wont be much diferent from your Dad. Good thing too with all you have on.Determination will satnd you better in the long run than waiting to be 'helped'

I hate it if people just walk in the house :shock:

You thought about locking the door???

Enjoy the quiet

Love

Toni xx

oh yes we do that and then he knocks on the window likes a big bossy anoying person that he is, he does it because his aim is to anoy people,

My ex mother in law used to bang on the window with her car keys it drove my ex mad he got his own back though when shes was leaving he always said ...search her bag...Babychamx

i love that i could see his point, i might try that one

ninakang

My hubby's uncle started coming to see us every Saturday afternoon and settling himself down so we had to invite him to eat dinner with us. It bugged me because when asked he would say "Oh I'm not sure if I'm coming round or not" but would turn up anyway unannounced so we couldn't make plans . He was just the type to try to make my hubby feel guilty if we went out by saying "Oh and I really wanted to see you" when he was just coming for the home cooking.

So I decided that Saturday nights were going to be takeaway nights and he felt obliged to put his hand in his pocket to contribute. He didn't come round so much after that. 8)

Nx

only49

ninakang wrote:

My hubby's uncle started coming to see us every Saturday afternoon and settling himself down so we had to invite him to eat dinner with us. It bugged me because when asked he would say "Oh I'm not sure if I'm coming round or not" but would turn up anyway unannounced so we couldn't make plans . He was just the type to try to make my hubby feel guilty if we went out by saying "Oh and I really wanted to see you" when he was just coming for the home cooking.

So I decided that Saturday nights were going to be takeaway nights and he felt obliged to put his hand in his pocket to contribute. He didn't come round so much after that. 8)

Nx

know what you mean hubby mum was good at that saying she would come on next nice day and then didnt come, so irritating.

glad i'm not the only one with iratating family lol

maybe there should be a contest to see who has the most intertating anoying family, i wonder who would win ?

ninakang

Mine hands down - I have a complete WITCH of a mother in law. Really I do.

Nx

dreamdaisy

Everyone has an irritating family, it's the way of families. You have a good family though if everyone pulls together in a time of stress. Wasn't it Tolstoy who said that all families were unhappy, but unhappy in their own way? Or was he talking about marriage? Can't remember. DD

tkachev

only49 wrote:

hello everyone


is just me or is that i just love peace and quiet, today is a lovely stress free day as hubby's anoying twin has gone on a trip to an island called stronsay he the sort of person that i really dont like, he loves playing stupid games, oh i dont know if i see you tomorrow or not, :x :x and instead of knocking on our door he just assumes its ok and walks in, :x i hate that, and you cant tell him anything because he cant keep it to himself, and ok i have OA and it makes my life difficult but at least i try to do as much as i can for myself, he loves people waiting on him hand and foot, but me and hubby are not and i cant understand how some one can be like that, i think its about time he got a life, i learnt long ago the only person you can rely on is yourself, and that is what i think keeps me going because i am a stubborn person who will get on with it, ( a family trait ) my dad was just the same, oh well in my case it must be like father like daughter, instead of how it's said " like father like son heh i not going to change.

Sylvia, have you aked him not to just walk in your house? He might not realise unless its pointed out. Having the autism in the family I am very aware that they dont always get how to behave acceptably so I am always on my toes looking out for inappropriate behaviour in everybody!
I get on with things too. No time to worry about stuff or argue about it!

Elizabeth

tkachev

ninakang wrote:

Mine hands down - I have a complete WITCH of a mother in law. Really I do.

Nx

Sorry to hear that Nina. It must make life so stressful for you.
And i bet hubby doesnt like to get involved!
elizabeth

only49

ninakang wrote:

Mine hands down - I have a complete WITCH of a mother in law. Really I do.

Nx

hubby has i think with his twin first place and and his aunty next followed by his niece oh well as the saying goes you can choose your friends but not your family, we stuck with them lol

only49

tkachev wrote:

only49 wrote:

hello everyone


is just me or is that i just love peace and quiet, today is a lovely stress free day as hubby's anoying twin has gone on a trip to an island called stronsay he the sort of person that i really dont like, he loves playing stupid games, oh i dont know if i see you tomorrow or not, :x :x and instead of knocking on our door he just assumes its ok and walks in, :x i hate that, and you cant tell him anything because he cant keep it to himself, and ok i have OA and it makes my life difficult but at least i try to do as much as i can for myself, he loves people waiting on him hand and foot, but me and hubby are not and i cant understand how some one can be like that, i think its about time he got a life, i learnt long ago the only person you can rely on is yourself, and that is what i think keeps me going because i am a stubborn person who will get on with it, ( a family trait ) my dad was just the same, oh well in my case it must be like father like daughter, instead of how it's said " like father like son heh i not going to change.

Sylvia, have you aked him not to just walk in your house? He might not realise unless its pointed out. Having the autism in the family I am very aware that they dont always get how to behave acceptably so I am always on my toes looking out for inappropriate behaviour in everybody!
I get on with things too. No time to worry about stuff or argue about it!

Elizabeth

locking the door is only way and i always think its our house we have in who we want, anyway i given hubby twin who the one i was talking about a nick name ( pesto ) suits him well, he dont stop and think, and i can remember his mum saying to him your selfish, and you know she was right.

oh well thats life and thats why we all different and its just as well.

dreamdaisy

I know it would be very dull if we were all the same but honestly, there are some we could do without! I hope you and D are having a lovely day together. DD

only49

babycham wrote:

Right I am going to be really vile now I know I know I am really horrible Hands up I admit it but ... when the other half really and I mean really hurts me me I gold star of Punishments ..I say oh go and dig your mother up Sorry guys I know thats really awfull but she really was an old witchxxBabycham

first prize to babycham your the winner



a holiday for 2 someone away from arthur

only49

babycham wrote:

only49 wrote:

babycham wrote:

Right I am going to be really vile now I know I know I am really horrible Hands up I admit it but ... when the other half really and I mean really hurts me me I gold star of Punishments ..I say oh go and dig your mother up Sorry guys I know thats really awfull but she really was an old witchxxBabycham

first prize to babycham your the winner



a holiday for 2 someone away from arthur[/Thanks only 49 the o/h is so put out he wont come with me .....Is it a chalet at Butlins this prize or .... yummmy Sandals...lux.. break Elemis dec... lux spa ... If so can we all go goodness we deserve itxxBabycham

hi babycham i think we put up with hell of a lot, i think it should be somewhere quiet, hot but not too hot, somewhere where for a change we will get pampered and spoilt rotten, and absolutely no one called arthur is allowed within a million miles of us, now only problem is where should we go? and when? and what shall we take? hmmm