Ive had an almighty struggle getting some shoes for a wedding. My feet are bigger and wider after 40 years of wearing the same size(apart from as a little girl of cours). Even flats hurt, some cut across the toes, my ankle hurts in others, toes crunch and some are leaving me with a tingling sensation. So I have to resort to the pair that hurt the least- but still hurt but I would never have chosen them from looking. There not that glamerous Im afraid. They are wide and have a small heel on them which is one consolation as have only worn trainers, and twice sandals, for many years.
Does anyone else have trouble getting shoes and are we to spend the rest of our lives wearing horrid, unflattering styles. Seems we have to overlook all those beautiful styles out there cos of arthritis!
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