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  • maria09
    maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Christov,
    I know how you feel!
    But I dont think anyones ignoring you its just that this such a big site sometimes if you have not been on for a while you miss topics
    It could take weeks to catch up :!:
    So dont take it to heart
    People on here are very supportive
    Keep posting
    Maria x
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning noeltone - it's pelting down here, yet another glorious Suffolk summer's day. Boo! From your silence I can only conclude that you are ignoring us. I hope that's not the case tho - hopefully you are brewing one of your essays. We haven't had one for a while - they are always thought-provoking and enjoyable. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good morning Chrisov,

    Where are you on this drizzly morning? We look forward to hearing from you, please do not keep us waiting too long and let us know how you are going on.

    Luv
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • airwave
    airwave Member Posts: 579
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Boring? Reminds me of the poem, nobody likes me, everybody hates me, think I'll go and eat worms, long fat squishy ones etc etc.

    Our emotional state does rise and fall with our physical state, just part of life I'm afraid.....and arthers helping hand.

    I do note that there is a certain technique to writing on here, being a bloke I find I just can't give out as much touchy feely hugs and kisses as the ladies do, at least its not as easy to express the concern to others. The tales that I read on here make you want to reach out to others, arther touches so many peoples lives, some can show their empathy in their writing.

    8) Its a grin, honest!
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,137
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Ah! Airwave - we know you care :wink:

    I hope you know WE care too Chrisov.

    Brewing a peice of writing you think DD??? I hope so.

    Love

    Toni xx
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Not a word since your original post. Who's ignoring who? You had better be essay writing! After responding to mell's cosmology angst this morning (I am now a master in Bayesian thinking) I need a challenge! DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi all thanks for your thoughts I will not ignore them all individually on purpose I am too sensitive always been that way does anyone get the thought people ignore thewm like when you are talking to someone and they are away from you wanting to escape and be talk to others. I feel tolertaed and find it hard to socialise and when rebiffed take it to heart i need attention all the time becos of pasdt neglect.
    An example i went to a wedding seeing peeps 1st time for ages felt excited about that but peeps were talking about me in unkind way i did not realise i was so umpopular and a guy lives opposite me who i went to school with and i want to be froiends but he was one who took the p--- about my hair my only having arthritis which he has in his teeny weeny little finger and how his worked at the same shoe lathe gfor 300 odd years and never had a day sick i dont like him now and he recalls events and things i did in our childhoohd minor thing i did against him which he obviously still niggleardly recalls. I am stayimg in as much as i can so i dont see him or the other neighbours wh might think the same about me so thoese things have built up and that is why i thought i must be boring and anonymous I have done things with life such as he has no qualis academically and i have my degree but that talk is snobbish

    So that is my bckgrnd at the mo and my head injury has been playing up what with poor concentration memory etc + good old arthur
  • carola
    carola Member Posts: 786
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello

    Just popped onto your thread.

    Are you saying you are staying in the house to avoid this bloke and other neighbours? Please don't do that.

    If you can get outside and do things then DO, hold you head up high and grab the most you can out of this wonderful world.

    Obviously, I do not know you and all the ins and outs of your life and environment however never ever allow negative people to have occupy space in your head and life.

    Keep smiling, :lol: Carol
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry babycham do not understand about being true and old fox more like an old sheep
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yes carola to your question atm i am going out when he is at work but i can hop on a bus outside house and get out
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrisov,
    I am always happy to talk to anyone who needs a chat. Like airwave said its difficult for the men to express their feelings- we ladies do find it much easier. But i still find it difficult to chat to the men.
    I think most of us have felt excluded at some point in our lives. People always gloat or mock because it makes them feel better, maybe the chap is envious you have your degree and it makes him feel much better to mock (disguised as a bit of fun of course). Some people are tactless and dont consider others feelings at all.

    Please dont stay in. Do the things that make you happy and avoid the mockers as much as you can. Turn away when they approach, cross the road or room. You are not losing anything that matters.

    Stay focused on your family, friends and health.
    Very best wishes,

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Probably best that you do avoid this person Chrisov, until you feel more able to deal with him. But DON`T allow him - or anyone else - to keep you from going out and about. Do you still get down to the beach? I envy you that.

    When you are feeling so low, the last thing you need is for others to belittle how you are feeling. One of the worst things to hear is "Pull yourself together". What am I? A pair of bl**dy curtains?

    I hope you can feel a little better soon..........Ange.
  • kathbee
    kathbee Member Posts: 934
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrisov

    I feel so sad to hear you are staying indoors.

    You are a hundred times better than this guy
    you mention and are now avoiding.

    You are so talented, and such a nice person.

    Dont let them get to you. You are worth so much more.

    Go for a bus ride, enjoy the day,
    I will be thinking of you.
    Hope you feel better soon.

    Love Kath x
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Chrisov

    Outside belongs to every one. "When in doubt, go out". Take no notice, that is what this person wants you to do. With whom we liaise is a personal choice. Anyway, I am sure he is making some of it up/elaborating, how can he remember so far back? People love to hear the sound of their own voice and often get totally carried away,without thinking about what they are saying. Ignore him and let him talk to himself if need be.

    Make the most of the beautiful surroundings near you, Chrisov, :) before the not so good weather sets in.

    Luv
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • carola
    carola Member Posts: 786
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Glad to hear you are still going out. That is an important thing.

    Think someone posted a message not to tell you to pull yourself together? I cannot remember who.

    I'm not advising you like that and if I am coming across like that I have not comminicated adequately.

    Remember that people who use bullying behaviour are usually the people with a problem - NOT YOU so like I said, when you go out, hold your head up high and focus on the positive people around you.

    All the best, Carol
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,137
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Chrisov!!!

    Thank goodness you are posting again.

    I am glad you ARE getting out even if not all the time. If you stay in it gets like a viscious circle.

    No-one thinks you are boring on here and we enjoy your posts especially the writing....Remember that bloke who is such a pillock, he can't write like you and he may leave nothing behind him.

    You have your writing - not to mention your family.

    Please keep posting we care about you. We are not those peopel who upset you when you were feeling vulnerable.

    Love

    Toni xx
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You are all soo kind I will do some more writing soon and post it and perhaps a quiz
    this bloke i thought had an ex who has asked me out is very mean to me and wants to boss me around i dont know how to handle that but i like her and she tells me to ignore her ex which is difficult to do when he lives close by
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Christov
    You are lovely , I can just tell from your post... you just need to build up your confidence.
    Love
    Barbaraxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yes, Chrisov, that's it.....confidence! I'm not very good at it myself, so I pretend and make myself look confident, even if inside I've got a lowly worm feeling.....it does help.

    Annie
  • chris7
    chris7 Bots Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Chrisov

    Good to see you did feel able to post about how you were feeling. It really is ok to say it like it is for you, though I wish you hadn't felt the need to do so because of others putting you down. I hope the replies help a litte to make you feel reassured. I always did your quizzes though confess I rarely got more than 5 or 6 without cheating! :oops:
    Do keep posting.
    take care
    Chris
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    HI Noeltone

    glad to see you posting - we have missed you.

    do please do what YOU want to do, not what you think will keep you out of 'trouble' or what others think you SHOULD be doing ......because from my own recent experience doing what we think others want us to do is not always the healthiest of choices.

    please don't be put off from doing what you want to ..... and if one of those things is posting on here more often I hope you know that you'd be welcomed with open arms.

    loads of hugs
    Wonky
  • hileena111
    hileena111 Member Posts: 7,099
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrisov
    Glad to see you back on here......you boring? No.....I'm one of the oldies that remembers you from a long time ago LOL Camel thread and all that LOL
    lOVE
    Hileena
  • bertyboy
    bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Christov
    nice to see you on here , keep it up , if you get the urge to go out do it with your head held high be proud of who you are , there is only one of you and far too many mindless morons , x
    I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,137
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chtisov

    Soooo glad to hear in your 'voice' that some of our words are filtering through.

    Now if you do a quiz make it an easy one for me :wink::lol: rarely got more than 4/5 :oops:

    Relationships can cause trouble yes - I agree with her ignore her Ex. Jealousy makes people behave very badly.

    Some writing too :) That would be good. :)

    Love

    Toni xx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrisov,

    Glad your feeling a bit brighter. I hope you do some more writing and will look forward to seeing some.

    Its not so easy when you live next door to someone who is hell bent on putting you down but well done for going out as and when you wish and please don't let the guy win. Too often it is easier to withdraw but t can be much harder to get back out and into things again. Hang in there though cus your doing really well. Cris x

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