casualty

queenfan
queenfan Member Posts: 563
edited 8. Aug 2010, 08:16 in Community Chit-chat archive
I wish I hadn't watched casualty,
It brought back so many memories of my Mom
I know it is only acting, but I was in tears most of the time & still am
HOW SOFT IS THAT :lol:
Sue x

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  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sue its not sad, it brought back memmories of my grandad but only for a sec because he would be mad with me, I allways remember what he used to be like. He used to let me stand on his feet and we would dance round the room.
    Sending you a ((((hug))))

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Sue

    That is not sad, it has bought out emotions of you and your mum that is not a bad thing.

    It just shows how some of these programmes are made to be so convincing.

    Sending you a gentle (((()))
    love Trish xxx
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Isn't that funny Julie my Dad used to do that with me & my sister,
    he used to dance us to bed on his feet, lovely memories, :wink:
    Sue x
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Aww thanks Trish
    A lot of it still seems a bit raw,
    I knew it would be upsetting but not that much, but still I suppose it does us good to let things out some times
    Sue x
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Sue didn't watch it but sending you a (((((( )))))) and a bounce from Primmy who is this big now! I always think, in time, memories become a source of comfort, I really hope your ok? Love Cris xx
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sometimes things catch one unawares. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's bad. I don't know what to say, so brace yourself - I don't easily give these: (()) DD

    You take care now.
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you Cris I feel a right numpty :roll: Like I have said before it does
    do us good at times.
    Sue x

    DD I know you don't give them out normally so thank you.
    I think it is how I am feeling lately.
    so here I was sitting in bed while hubby & Laura down stairs,
    I was so grateful I was on my own I was sobbing like a fool :roll:
    Sue x
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    HI Sue,
    well if it is any comfort my hubby and I watched it together and were both howling by the end ..... much to the dog's consternation :shock:

    it was a superbly written and acted programme that highlighted the complexities of the issue. Hopefully it will have made people think ..... too often this issue is treated as a black and white issue of right and wrong, when it is not at all clear cut.

    hugs to you & I think it shows you are sensitive not a numpty!

    WOnky xxx
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks Wonky
    You are right, it was well written, After it had ended they both came upstairs, I think they noticed how I was, I ask if they had watched it, they had but I don't think it had the same affect on them,
    Well lets put it this way it probably did but they were more in control
    not like me the fool I am :lol:
    Sue x
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,836
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh dear :(

    I ahvent watched it since my Dad died :( and that's almost ten years ago :(

    i am so sorry :(

    Love and hugs

    Toni xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    she dies surounded by love and not on her own what most of us would wish for we would never let an animal suffer like we do humans i know i would have wanted to do the same in those circumstances who would wish to live with constant pain that only going to get worse and no cure that will only lead to death. we all want to be in control of our own future. to those left behind it so hard to cope with hugs to those who it brought back sad memories to val
    val
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    It's a British thing, isn't it? We are not adept at handlng displays of emotion, either on our own or seeing it in someone else. There are big life events that leave deep, deep marks and grooves in one. Sometimes it all wells up and has to be released. If I need a sob-fest then I stick on Truly, Madly, Deeply. Works like a charm every time and I feel better.

    I hope you feel better today queenfan. Thinking of you. DD Oh, go on then, 'cos it's you (())
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Well today is another day, DD yeah more in control today,
    I think it must be a British thing, not letting people know you are upset
    I prefer to listen to other people not myself.
    In fact after I have been upset & let other people know I have been makes me feel more like a fool :oops:
    When I feel like this ( like a lot of other people I'm sure) I would rather be on my own, you don't feel such a fool on your own do you :lol:
    & after all every body as down days don't they :wink:
    Thank you all for listening to me, NOW WITH A STIFF UPPER LIP :lol:
    Sue x

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