please dont think

bertyboy
bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
edited 10. Sep 2010, 10:24 in Community Chit-chat archive
please dont think bad things of me , i come and go and i am very quiet most of the time , but i was finding myself not sleeping , as things play on my mind so much always have , other peoples pain and problems get in my head , as its all true stories i have problems shutting my head down have to be carefull what i watch and read on tv its not that i dont care just self preservation if you know what i mean x you are all such a lovely bunch xxx
I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx

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  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I must confess I never thought anything of your absence. I know you are one who comes and goes so, to be frank, I don't really notice! I always assume people go 'cos they are OK and don't need us. That seems to be how it works for a fair few around here. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    we do not mind if you stay all the time or come when you feeling able to cope we all stay away when feeling really down as you need to cope in your own way but come when you feel the need we are always here for you hugs to take away for when you need them val
    val
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Berty, I found your post very moving, for some reason.

    As a Counsellor though, I was impressed by your self-awareness. So many people put themselves through unnecessary suffering, by not saying enough is enough for me. Well done..........Ange......x.
  • coco67
    coco67 Member Posts: 2,374
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Berty

    we all have times where we take a step back and take time out so dont worry about poppin in and out when you feel like it, i recently did the same thing, some times it takes to much energy to even try explaining how you feel.

    take care of your self and pop in when you feel like it you will always be welcome xxx

    coco xx
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Berty, I'm sure everyone feels like that at times....I know I do. At times I simply don't have the energy to spare - all I have goes on the basic necessities.

    No apologies needed, have some ((((((((())))))))) and I hope you feel brighter very soon.

    Annie
    xx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Berty,

    Please don't feel you have to apologize, we do all feel like it sometimes. You have had a bad time of it your self and it takes its toll flower. Sending you a bucket of (((( ))))'s and hopes you soon feel better and its nice to see you as well. Luv Cris xx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,772
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Berty

    No way have I thought bad of you :shock:

    If you need to recuperate for a while every now and then you do it.

    You are welcome anytime you need us.

    Love

    Toni xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Berty ...please dont apologize, a lot of us come and go, for so many reasons.We love you for who you are.
    You take care of yourself.
    Lots of hugs and love ((((((())))))
    Barbara xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Berty hope you are ok, sending you a huge ((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))) phew. I have stopped watching the news at night as what was going on around the world was playing on my mind. I always worry about other peeps and family, night time was the worst but after talking about it with my GP it's got easier.

    Love Jules xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all