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snowball · 12. Sep 2010, 17:46

Can who ever is sending pm about my posts to other peeps please pm me. It seems some have a problem with my posts, which is fine but please tell me not other peeps as they are not well enough to deal with that.

Thankyou

Jules

valval · 13. Sep 2010, 02:43

snowball wrote:

Can who ever is sending pm about my posts to other peeps please pm me. It seems some have a problem with my posts, which is fine but please tell me not other peeps as they are not well enough to deal with that.

Thankyou

Jules

not me, love your posts can not see anything wrong with them only pm three people regular try not to let this get to you pal love having you here you the only one who lives any where near me val

trisher · 13. Sep 2010, 02:54

Julie

Not me either. You are a lovely person, always have been always will be. I took to you straight away when you joined here.

Someone sounds like they are a coward though tell others but not to your face.

Love Trish xxxx

janie68 · 13. Sep 2010, 03:52

Jules,

Isn't it sad when these peeps think they have a right to do this? It's out of order what they're doing & should be reported to the mods. This is an open forum where anyone can contribute.

Jules, you have my full support
Janie xx

elnafinn · 13. Sep 2010, 04:11

Hi Jules

Sadly, it would appear that the person concerned has problems/issues, not you or your postings.

You are tackling the situation in an adult fashion and I hope it is sorted very soon.

Luv
Elna x

dreamdaisy · 13. Sep 2010, 04:37

It's not on. It's sneaky, unpleasant and underhanded. I'm upset for you, snowball, and for those receiving the PMs. Surely they can identify the perpetrator. Perhaps the mods should know about this. DD

daylily · 13. Sep 2010, 05:42

snowball wrote:

Can who ever is sending pm about my posts to other peeps please pm me. It seems some have a problem with my posts, which is fine but please tell me not other peeps as they are not well enough to deal with that.

Thankyou

Jules

Hi Jules. Why does it not show you who is sending the posts :?:
On the stroke website I get an e-mail telling me who has sent a pm.
pm's should not be allowed to be posted anon.
(don't mean to be ignorant but what is a peep :?: :oops:
I gather it's someone who posts but what does it mean :?: )

angie1973 · 13. Sep 2010, 06:19

daylily wrote:

snowball wrote:

Can who ever is sending pm about my posts to other peeps please pm me. It seems some have a problem with my posts, which is fine but please tell me not other peeps as they are not well enough to deal with that.

Thankyou

Jules

Hi Jules. Why does it not show you who is sending the posts :?:
On the stroke website I get an e-mail telling me who has sent a pm.
pm's should not be allowed to be posted anon.
(don't mean to be ignorant but what is a peep :?: :oops:
I gather it's someone who posts but what does it mean :?: )

A peep is just a person hun, I think it it stemmed from some programme (Harry Enfield?), or something like that, where 'peeps' was used a lot to say 'person' or 'people'.

I didn't think you could send PM's anon either. Bit silly whoever it is not just being honest. It was one thing that struck me about this group, people can be open and honest. PM's are great for giving the extra support and friendship to someone when they are having a really bad time of it, and it's good it is there to use. Shame some folks see fit to want to abuse it though.

Hope it gets sorted Snowball.
Ange..xx

julie47 · 13. Sep 2010, 08:42

Hi Jules

I am also sorry to hear this and reading your posts I too have never thought they were in any way offensive.

Hope that some technical person can solve this for you.

In the mean time Carry on posting (is that a film)

juliepf x

dreamdaisy · 13. Sep 2010, 09:34

snowball isn't receiving them - her friends are. They can identify the sinner, surely. I don't think one can send a PM anonymously - look at your inbox, all senders are identified. DD

mellman01 · 13. Sep 2010, 09:59

Isn't the world a sick place when even on here we get f*&kwits messing about like this, people who snipe like this by hiding behind anonymity are the lowest of the low and are at the heart of many things that are wrong with the wider society, from the nimby to the twerp who calls 999 about their cat driving them crazy are people who probably need help, but many will be those who really should be named and shamed but today's PC crowed they don't need to worry about such things so can happily carry on acting in such a pathetic and cowardly way without fear of retribution, I bet they were bullies at school, my personal view is grow up or shut up, leave this site alone your not wanted here if you resort to such low stunts go find someone else to upset and lastly get a flippin life you sad lonely individual.

joanlawson · 13. Sep 2010, 10:16

Well said. Mell. Jules, probably the best way to deal with bullies is to ignore them, but report anything nasty to the mods. Don't let the bullies get to you because you are a lovely person.

frogmorton · 13. Sep 2010, 10:22

Hi Jules

sorry I only jsut saw this - teh mods can sort it as we have to register dont we to post at all and they can locate the source - they need to forward them to the mods I think.

I am fuming that someone is being so nasty on here

You take care chick - you have NEVER ever upset me.

Love

Toni xx

mellman01 · 13. Sep 2010, 10:23

Hi Joan thanks, it just does my head in why do this to someone, isn't life complex and bad enough without this s%$t, Grrrrrrrrr I really get annoyed, just once in my life I would love to catch one of these buggers at it, what shallow sick fools they must be, a real Billy or Larry no doubt

queenfan · 13. Sep 2010, 10:35

Julie It's not me, you care too much for us all,
I hope you find the culprit,
I hate things like that
Take care Sue x

coco67 · 13. Sep 2010, 10:44

hi jules

i hope you manage to get this sorted, its bang out of order and they should be ashamed of them selves. i can honestly say its not me , im not even sure how to pm someone on here and dont feel i know any one enough to trouble anyone.. i hope the mods can sort it for you. take care now and try not to let this bully get you down

coco xx

annie_mial · 13. Sep 2010, 12:00

I can't even understand why someone would want to do such a thing! I've never been offended, Julie, and if I had I'd tackle the person concerned head-on.........there's nowt so queer as folks!

Annie

penfactor · 13. Sep 2010, 12:19

Hi hon
I've just seen this & thought it a bit weird too that the pms are anonymous. We should be able to know who they are from so they can be blocked if necessary. I think all our accounts are also linked to IP address so should be poss to find out that way?
Snowball, you are brilliant, so funny & cheery in your posts like pixie, you always make me smile & often LOL!!
I am just starting to post on here more often again & hope to still keep seeing you here too - please don't let this person put you off?
love Pennie XX

trisher · 13. Sep 2010, 12:21

Jules

I don't think they can send you a PM and there name not show up.

Good for you let the Mods sort it out. Most of us have enough to cope with with the problems we have we don't need stupid people adding more problems.

Sending a ((((()))))

Love Trish xxxxx

tkachev · 13. Sep 2010, 12:27

Sorry if I am wrong but I dont think Julie is getting anonymous PMs but some forum members are talking behind her back...about her to her/their friends. Surely they knew it would get back to you Julie?

Elizabeth

daylily · 13. Sep 2010, 12:38

tkachev wrote:

Sorry if I am wrong but I dont think Julie is getting anonymous PMs but some forum members are talking behind her back...about her to her/their friends. Surely they knew it would get back to you Julie?

Elizabeth

they're obviously that thick they didn't realise :!: :!: :!: :!:

dorcas · 13. Sep 2010, 13:12

Jules,
I am so sorry to hear what has been happening to you.

and hope that the person who has PM'd, in such a cowardly way, will be found out. This sneaky behaviour is a form of bullying that can't be tolerated.

The forum is meant to be used for getting help and supporting each other. We have enough to deal with with arther without the added pressure and stress of this kind of indirect harassment.

keep your chin up flower.... we are all behind you. :!:

iris xxx

trisher · 13. Sep 2010, 13:18

tkachev wrote:

Sorry if I am wrong but I dont think Julie is getting anonymous PMs but some forum members are talking behind her back...about her to her/their friends. Surely they knew it would get back to you Julie?

Elizabeth

Elizabeth

I think the PM's are being sent not to Julie but Julie's friends on here. That is why Julie is asking that if they have a problem with what she posts tell her and not send PM's to the people she is friends with on here.

Love Trish xxx

robertls · 13. Sep 2010, 13:35

trisher wrote:

tkachev wrote:

Sorry if I am wrong but I dont think Julie is getting anonymous PMs but some forum members are talking behind her back...about her to her/their friends. Surely they knew it would get back to you Julie?

Elizabeth

Elizabeth

I think the PM's are being sent not to Julie but Julie's friends on here. That is why Julie is asking that if they have a problem with what she posts tell her and not send PM's to the people she is friends with on here.

Love Trish xxx

So someone has sent a Pm to one of Jules friends.....and not her......

And Jules wants them to send direct to her.....

If thats the case..........................Hasn't there been one hell of an over reaction......

Or am I just confused???

Rob x

trisher · 13. Sep 2010, 13:40

I think the Mods should lock this now before there is more problems and upset.

Let the Mods sort it out now.

Trish xxx

[Deleted User] · 13. Sep 2010, 14:17

For clarification: PMs cannot be sent anonymously, and the Mod Team can and will always take action against a nuisance PMer if requested to do so.The person who PM'd this message will know who they are, and will hopefully be more considerate and careful in future. ModeratorIA

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