dreading the letter from the benefits people

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bluebeard
bluebeard Member Posts: 260
edited 27. Sep 2010, 10:57 in Living with Arthritis archive
anyone else really worries about THAT letter that calls you in for the medical test ?

from the dwp ?

I have been on incapacity for ten years , I cant work

believe me if I could , I would have got a job

apparently this new govt are speeding through people testing more and more

I know its sounds awful but I hope I am last on the list to be called in

sory to sound bad

love you all
xx

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  • lavenderlady
    lavenderlady Member Posts: 409
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    hi Blue beard I think most of us to some degree are dreading the letter, I personally will not be attempting going back to work after leaving in 81 to bring up my family of 5 kids my youngest is now 15 but 4 of them had disabilitys now most of them are ok and doing their own thing I feel my illnesses have taken a toll on me and know theres nothing that would fit in with my many hospital and clinic appointments plus the pain I have makes it too much for me to be able to guarantee a day or even half days work, I do however get DLA, which i get indefinatly, yes I am worried I might say or do the wrong thing and they dont get what my health is always like, I guess we need to be thorough in what we say and do,
    I still think only new claims should have had to go through this as we've already proved by our DRs and specialists letters etc so feel like they are disbelieving of the DRs opinions and words which is totally out of order, good luck anyway try not to worry about it ,
  • bluebeard
    bluebeard Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    hi Blue beard I think most of us to some degree are dreading the letter, I personally will not be attempting going back to work after leaving in 81 to bring up my family of 5 kids my youngest is now 15 but 4 of them had disabilitys now most of them are ok and doing their own thing I feel my illnesses have taken a toll on me and know theres nothing that would fit in with my many hospital and clinic appointments plus the pain I have makes it too much for me to be able to guarantee a day or even half days work, I do however get DLA, which i get indefinatly, yes I am worried I might say or do the wrong thing and they dont get what my health is always like, I guess we need to be thorough in what we say and do,
    I still think only new claims should have had to go through this as we've already proved by our DRs and specialists letters etc so feel like they are disbelieving of the DRs opinions and words which is totally out of order, good luck anyway try not to worry about it ,

    my only saving grace is that i have been on IB for many years , my mate who works for dwp reckons they will take some time to get to those on long term benefit as they reckon ..and this sounds awful ..it will be easier to kick people off who have only just become ill...what a shocking state of affairs
  • airwave
    airwave Member Posts: 579
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Yes, losing a welcome benefit is hard and will make a big difference. Most of us can do something even if its use our brainpower rather than our physical abilities, however most of us won't get a job doing that sort of work!

    Keep smiling.

    8)Its a grin, honest!
  • bluebeard
    bluebeard Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    I am doing some volunteering at the moment , they say you have to tell them but I am telling them sweet nothing , thas a ploy to say " ahh..so you CAN do something !!..kick him off !! "

    I had an awful time when I made a simple mistake on a renewal form and they stopped my benefit without informing me by letter

    I only found out two months later when I checked my account !!

    I dont trust them one bit
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hello Bluebeard

    I can sympathise totally with how you are feeling. I too, have been on incapacity for about the same length of time, have had medicals at the request of the DWP in the past.
    I recently received a review letter, asking for medical problems, etc, plus a request for information from my GP. I too, waited, with some trepidation (why we should feel like this, I do not know, we are ill for Heaven's sake, unable to work due to one or multiple health problems, it is not a lifestyle choice as has been bantered about by the Politicians).
    Steady Bubbles, you are ranting.

    I waited, then the DWP envelope arrives, you know exactly who it is from as soon as the post man has it in his hands. Well, it said that I have met all the "criteria" and scored more than enough "points" and they no longer needed any more medical information or the like and I will be paid, as normal, with a Christmas bonus each year of £10.

    I honestly think, although I may just be cynical, that the whole process of forms, letters, more forms, examinations, more information, is designed to wear you down and in the end, makes you feel like a criminal, but, you have to battle on to the end and it can be a battle at times.

    I hope that they reply soon and that you have a supportive GP, wishing you every success. XXXX Bubbles
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • salamander
    salamander Member Posts: 1,906
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    hi BB, I am no one to talk but it's not good to worry about something that hasn't happened yet. Who knows what could happen between now and then. There is a lot of pressure being put on the government about the way disabled people are being treated. By the time they get to you things may have changed. You might even get the support you need.
  • daylily
    daylily Member Posts: 619
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    salamander wrote:
    hi BB, I am no one to talk but it's not good to worry about something that hasn't happened yet. Who knows what could happen between now and then. There is a lot of pressure being put on the government about the way disabled people are being treated. By the time they get to you things may have changed. You might even get the support you need.

    Hi salamander. I do not have any hope with this government treating the less fortunate fairly. It's the easy targets they're after
    to save money.
  • salamander
    salamander Member Posts: 1,906
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    yes, but there are an awful lot of pressure groups out there and they are working their socks off. I think government will have to change tack, they just have to do it in a way that doesn't look like a climb down. I really don't think they will get away with it for much longer.
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hi bluebeared
    It awful having people worrying like this, stress is not good, but they don't seem to care about this.
    Its a massive task to give everyone that is off sick a medical, so maybe it will take a few years to say the least.
    Good luck
    Barbara x
    Love
    Barbara
  • daylily
    daylily Member Posts: 619
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    barbara12 wrote:
    Hi bluebeared
    It awful having people worrying like this, stress is not good, but they don't seem to care about this.
    Its a massive task to give everyone that is off sick a medical, so maybe it will take a few years to say the least.
    Good luck
    Barbara x

    I know there are a lot of spongers out there ( present company the exceptions) but just where are all these jobs coming from
    :? :?
    If they knock 50,000 off the sick can they come up with the jobs for them or is it a question of paying them less on jobseekers allowance :?:
  • salamander
    salamander Member Posts: 1,906
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    "I know there are a lot of spongers out there ( present company the exceptions) but just where are all these jobs coming from
    :? :?"


    Daylily - Do you?
  • daylily
    daylily Member Posts: 619
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    salamander wrote:
    "I know there are a lot of spongers out there ( present company the exceptions) but just where are all these jobs coming from
    :? :?"


    Daylily - Do you?

    Do what :?: Know there are a lot of spongers out there :?:
    Certainly do :!:
    Young man 27ish has two cars, one a BMW, never worked
    (legally that is, he does building work) laughs all the way to the bank.
    Told me once that when they tell him he's coming off benefits he makes 'an attempt at suicide' and presto he's back on benefits.
    That is only one case.
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hi bluebeard

    Yes I am one of those who dread the letter as I also haven't worked in years.

    My family and friends laugh at me and tell me not to be so stupid.
    My hands are bent. I cant touch my head .I can't walk and I have one prosthetic leg. plus other things but i still worry. If I could work I would .

    But I would still be the one they told Get a job.

    JuliePF x
  • salamander
    salamander Member Posts: 1,906
    edited 23. Sep 2010, 11:27
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    tried to delete this
  • salamander
    salamander Member Posts: 1,906
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    daylily wrote:
    salamander wrote:
    "I know there are a lot of spongers out there ( present company the exceptions) but just where are all these jobs coming from
    :? :?"


    Daylily - Do you?

    Do what :?: Know there are a lot of spongers out there :?:
    Certainly do :!:
    Young man 27ish has two cars, one a BMW, never worked
    (legally that is, he does building work) laughs all the way to the bank.
    Told me once that when they tell him he's coming off benefits he makes 'an attempt at suicide' and presto he's back on benefits.
    That is only one case.

    Yes, one that you know of. I don't know any. I just think you are doing the government's dirty work for them if you buy into the whole 'benefit spongers' debate and use that terminology. That's all.
  • daylily
    daylily Member Posts: 619
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    salamander wrote:
    daylily wrote:
    salamander wrote:
    "I know there are a lot of spongers out there ( present company the exceptions) but just where are all these jobs coming from
    :? :?"


    Daylily - Do you?

    Do what :?: Know there are a lot of spongers out there :?:
    Certainly do :!:
    Young man 27ish has two cars, one a BMW, never worked
    (legally that is, he does building work) laughs all the way to the bank.
    Told me once that when they tell him he's coming off benefits he makes 'an attempt at suicide' and presto he's back on benefits.
    That is only one case.

    Yes, one that you know of. I don't know any. I just think you are doing the government's dirty work for them if you buy into the whole 'benefit spongers' debate and use that terminology. That's all.
    Ok. Not a problem. We all have our own opinions
  • bluebeard
    bluebeard Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    thanks everyone

    I do agree though , the government have done a very good job of turning people in need against each other

    its called divide and rule

    soon people will be argueing as to who is " the most ill "

    I dont know any " scroungers "
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,419
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    bluebeard wrote:
    thanks everyone

    I do agree though , the government have done a very good job of turning people in need against each other

    its called divide and rule

    soon people will be argueing as to who is " the most ill "

    I dont know any " scroungers "

    NIcely put Bluebeard

    I hope it takkes forever to get to you too :wink:

    lOve

    Toni xx
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    bluebeard wrote:
    I am doing some volunteering at the moment , they say you have to tell them but I am telling them sweet nothing , thas a ploy to say " ahh..so you CAN do something !!..kick him off !! "

    I had an awful time when I made a simple mistake on a renewal form and they stopped my benefit without informing me by letter

    I only found out two months later when I checked my account !!

    I dont trust them one bit

    My daughter had her housing benefit stopped without being told too.First she knew was when looking at bank account.She was on ESA but was looking for work and told them so they just stopped it without telling her (face to face interview). She could have lost her home.

    Eizabth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • bluebeard
    bluebeard Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    frogmorton wrote:
    bluebeard wrote:
    thanks everyone

    I do agree though , the government have done a very good job of turning people in need against each other

    its called divide and rule

    soon people will be argueing as to who is " the most ill "

    I dont know any " scroungers "

    NIcely put Bluebeard

    I hope it takkes forever to get to you too :wink:

    lOve

    Toni xx

    take care froggy xx
  • bluebeard
    bluebeard Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    tkachev wrote:
    bluebeard wrote:
    I am doing some volunteering at the moment , they say you have to tell them but I am telling them sweet nothing , thas a ploy to say " ahh..so you CAN do something !!..kick him off !! "

    I had an awful time when I made a simple mistake on a renewal form and they stopped my benefit without informing me by letter

    I only found out two months later when I checked my account !!

    I dont trust them one bit

    My daughter had her housing benefit stopped without being told too.First she knew was when looking at bank account.She was on ESA but was looking for work and told them so they just stopped it without telling her (face to face interview). She could have lost her home.

    Eizabth

    shocking isnt it ?