Just to let you know

PamieAFC1903

Yesterday I had a breakdown.

My granda's passing has hit me hard and i mean hard... every day I just want to be with him.

Coming down with mild flu didnt help my emotions or anything really to be honest. And the anxiety, not sleeping hasnt helped either.

I may aswell leave the forum as I seem to have caused upset at being down, ill and depressed.

I am still not getting any help with my pains etc so I may aswell leave and just get to sorting it out myself!

jillyb1

Hope you're feeling a little better , Pamie . It's bad enough coping with this illness but add in losing someone you love and something has to give . I think the only person you need to apologise to is Joseph , living legend as he caught you at a bad moment when you were feeling so distraught . Stay with us on the forum , we all need to support each other and fight back against the awful arthur . Jillyb

barbara12

Hi Pammie
Dont leave the forum, you have added quite a lot since you came on, we had great fun on the cruise.
You have gone through a lot lately, and will feel down, we are always here when you want to talk, but maybe its better to post in LWA.
Sending you lots of hugs (((((((())))))
Love
Barbara x

joanlawson

Oh dear, Pamie, I'm so sorry that you are feeling so upset and depressed at the moment. Everything has combined against you recently, I think, and you are grieving for your granda too, which is awful for you at present. But give yourself some time, and the grief will ease eventually, although it might not seem like that just now.

Please don't leave the forum as so many people are here to support you, and you probably need that at the moment.

Joan

suzygirl

Hi, I just wanted to say, that you need some time and space at the moment. It is hard to lose someone you love, and an infection on top of that will leave you fragile and emotional.

Don't leave the forum, I am unaware of any upset, but I know the folks on here are supportive. You need support right now, and this is a good place to get it.

Keep posting to let us know how you are doing.

Take care

PamieAFC1903

jillyb1 wrote:

Hope you're feeling a little better , Pamie . It's bad enough coping with this illness but add in losing someone you love and something has to give . I think the only person you need to apologise to is Joseph , living legend as he caught you at a bad moment when you were feeling so distraught . Stay with us on the forum , we all need to support each other and fight back against the awful arthur . Jillyb

I have done but I have heard nothing, which is why i think i should just go.

I feel that some folk dont understand I have more than just the pain hitting me at any time.

I will try again once im better but not holding my breath.

barbara12

PamieAFC1903 wrote:

jillyb1 wrote:

Hope you're feeling a little better , Pamie . It's bad enough coping with this illness but add in losing someone you love and something has to give . I think the only person you need to apologise to is Joseph , living legend as he caught you at a bad moment when you were feeling so distraught . Stay with us on the forum , we all need to support each other and fight back against the awful arthur . Jillyb

I have done but I have heard nothing, which is why i think i should just go.

I feel that some folk dont understand I have more than just the pain hitting me at any time.

I will try again once im better but not holding my breath.

Hi Pammie...Joseph wont hold a grudge.....hope you feel better very soon
Barbara x

PamieAFC1903

So do I, I had to cancel going to Aberdeen today. Rearranged it for Tuesday when I'm up for my birthday.

joanlawson

Pamie, Joseph's last message to you on the flu thread was,
I hope that you soon recover and look forward to future postings from you.

I know that he would not wish you to leave the forum.

PamieAFC1903

I'm starting new meds tomorrow. Hopefully they will work. Well they better or I will scream!

valval

do not leave no one wants that please stay will understand if you do not feel like posting for a while but stay you will get lots of help they know lots on here val

livinglegend

PamieAFC1903 wrote:

jillyb1 wrote:

I think the only person you need to apologise to is Joseph , living legend as he caught you at a bad moment when you were feeling so distraught .Jillyb

I have done but I have heard nothing, which is why i think i should just go.

No apology was necessary as we all have bad days and I would have reassured you earlier if I had known. There really is no need to leave the forum.

I don't hold grudges as they can be self-defeating and considered the matter closed when I put my last posting on the cold/flu thread. Please, when you do feel better return to us and continue with your posts as everyone has something to contribute.

jillyb1

Hi , Pamie , hope you're feeling a bit stronger today , we're a funny lot on here and the beauty of it is that we're all different but going through similar kinds of problems . Guess that's what makes it such a supportive forum ; stay with us - we need you and you need us ! Jillyb

PamieAFC1903

Tinkerbelle, need to be better by Sunday... I've got a date lmao.

PamieAFC1903

Only married on here lmao :P

Yeh, on Fluoxetine for my anxiety now.... still cant take the tramadol with it though.... So at moment I'm on Co-Codamol for the pain

PamieAFC1903

tinkerbelle wrote:

PamieAFC1903 wrote:

Only married on here lmao :P

Yeh, on Fluoxetine for my anxiety now.... still cant take the tramadol with it though.... So at moment I'm on Co-Codamol for the pain

Yes its tricky guess you will struggle with just the C/Codamol but hopefully once the Fluoxetine kicks in it ll get better ... Keep chin up and I am glad your still on here few years ago I had a brush with bad anxiety and its horrible with Arthur as well any thing extra is not good it can really push us over the edge hope you have a great birthday Pamie .

Well, I'm going to Aberdeen with my mate on my birthday.... So hopefully will have a good day then and will know if I'm gona be attending Aberdeen College or not .