traluvie needs some hugs.

dreamdaisy

The reason why is on the working matters forum and our friend does need some cyber comfort. traluvie, I am so sorry, you know I am not too good at these so brace yourself: (((()))) Have some of these too. DD

suzygirl

Thinking of you traluvie!!

Poppyg1rl

Oh Traluvie, I am so sorry, perhaps it's best to see this as a respite? a break to get better, recharge your batteries, look after you and then who knows? You may feel well enough to return to work one day.
Thinking of you, sending love and hugs X

dachshund

Hi Traluvie.
when you have pain it gets you down and makes you feel worse and then you start worrying and it all go's around in your head(i dont mean you i mean anyone who feels the same as you we all have it)
you take care i think you will be doing the right thing you will feel better for it.
joan xx

elnafinn

Dear Tracy

I am so sorry to read what happened today. You must be devastated. Things will get better for you, Tracy, but at the moment you must be going through quite a lot of different emotions.

Look after yourself and your family that is the most important thing to do now. We are always here for a chat and support.

I am sending gentle hugs for you.

Elna x

skezier

Hi Tracy,

I am sorry flower and hope the meeting was okish? Its not easy that I do know (medically discharged in my 20's) and it brings home the fact your have got badder than you wanted to think you are but there is life after and well i think Poppy is right and try and think of it as a bit of respite.

I really am sorry and useless today at knowing what to say. You will be ok though and leaving you a cyber ((( ))). Cris x

julie47

Tracey after seeing this thread I went into working matters forum and replied on your post..

But I will say again on here, I am sorry that you have had to leave your job. I remember that day only too well and how you feel.

hopefully you can take the time out and regain some good health so that you can go back to a job that will suit you.

Sending a big hug ((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))

love Juliepf x

tjt6768

It is a terrible thing to be told you can't work, remember it well, even though it was quite a while ago...

Sorry to hear this Tracey...

Many hugs etc..

traluvie

I am overwhelmed by you support and cyber hugs..
You all made me cry lol... tears of joy for such nice ppl..
Really kind of you DD to arrange lots of cyber hugs.. much needed and has certainly put a smile on my face..
Thank you all..
You have really touched me..

elnafinn

Dear Tracy

I remember well being made redundant 7 years ago and it really sucks. I loved my six years in an afternoon job in the hr department of a local IT company. So I do know a little of what you are going through. Looking back it was probably one of the best things that happened to me and other doors have opened since and they most certainly will for you too.

Luv
Elna x

bubbadog

I wanted to also send you a big cyber hug!! I remember the day I was told I wouldn't ever be able to work again, sure it is abig blow but after some time you will find things to fill your days with and the shock and sadness will ease away. Big cyber hugs (()) bubbadog.

caterina57

Tracy -- will Pm You
Cath

rugbygirl

Sorry to hear about your job Tracy.

I know how you feel to lose your job because of your health but at the end of the day it will be for the best. You are the one who needs to feel better about yourself and as others have said there is no point stressing about work because it will only make you worse. If you are in pain you stress and then that stress makes you worse then you are in more pain - its a vicious circle. I hope that now you are free from the worry about working (although its not a nice way for it to happen) you will be able to enjoy being at home, pottering about doing things that you want to at your own pace and then maybe you can think about working again when you feel better in yourself.

Look after yourself

julie47

Morning tracy

Hope you feel a little better today

((((((((((((())))))))))))

love julie xx

traluvie

Thanks again for all your supprt..
Can't say i feel better this morning..
Am still bit tearful so am dragging myself to my best mates house so i can have a gd chin wag with her and let it all out...
Should hopefully come back more cheerful lol..

Poppyg1rl

Think that's the best thing to do Tracey, that's what mates are for, I'd be lost without mine. Hope you feel better for a good natter
Hugs X

frogmorton

Hi Tracy

I am so sorry :sad:

You can have all the hugs going from me I hope it helps. :sad:



Take very good care of you for now.

Love

Toni xx :sad:

dreamdaisy

Of course you are still going to be hugely flat, this is a major blow to you, your self-esteem, your view of yourself. I still think it is a blessing but one in a very heavy disguise. It will take time for you to absorb this and come to terms with it. Oh and thank you fro your thanks for the thread - I may be plain-spoken and not into the huggy thing but I am not completely without a heart. It lurks, somewhere. DD

Starburst

I read the thread. I'm so sorry, Tracey. I think it's probably normal to be feeling like this. I'm pleased to hear you're getting out. Chocolate should definitley be on the cards.

**gentle hugs** xx

bertyboy

just catching up here so will leave a hug , on ward with your life and hopefully less pain in the long term x

barbara12

Hi Tracy
Sorry I have not been on for a couple of days, I really do feel for you, like Elna says sometimes it can be for the best, sorry I know you wont see it like this just now.
But I am sure you will be doing something before long.
Good luck and heres some hugs to get you through,(((((()))))
Love
Barbara xx

tillytop

Hello Tracy

So sorry to read what has happened. I can't think of anything helpful to say other than that I am thinking of you.

Love Tilly xxx

julie47

Hi tracy

hope the visit to your friends house helped you get your worries off your chest and that you left feeling a little happier.

take care , i'm sure your friend gave you hugs but hey.....here's some more (((((((((((((())))))))))))))

love juliepf x

ironic

Hi Tracey,
That was an awful blow for you but as everyone has said your health comes first.
I hope the chat with your friend has helped to clear your thoughts a bit and hopefully as time goes on you will start to feel better in yourself.
Lv, Ix

chris7

Hi Tracy

Just seen this on WM and now here. So sorry lovey. I hope the friend gave you a big and that you are feeling a little more cheery after such bad news.
take care, I send some more (((( ))) to add to the pile.
Chris

traluvie

Whoa what a huge pile of hugs i have recieved...
Thank you all...
You have been a great support and made me things clearer..
Had a lovely day with my friend, plenty of tea and good old chat she always says it as it is... honesty is definately the best policy..
Been busy sorting the kids outfits for red nose day tom, both happy and sorted now..
Have realised the energy i do have can be used so i can do things with the children, if i was working this would not be possible i would be worn out and exhauseted..
I am going to concentrate on my health so i am able to do things with the children.. and in time if i do feel better then that would be the time to look for appropiate work..
Thanks again..
Here's a big hug for you all to say thank you..