please can
valval
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please can i borrow some positive thoughts for tue my dad going in for tripple heart by pass and i must admit to you lot i am scared stiff but know with all the positive thoughts from you will give me strenth and help things turn out positively hope you do not mind me asking and might not get in much but will be thinking of you all val
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will be there with you Val I can understand you being scared but this is becoming a routine op now Your dad will be fine I am sure
Cath0 -
sending possative thoughts and best wishes by the bucket full xxxxx0
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Hi Val
Both my best friend and my daughter's father-in-law had a triple bypass operation many years ago, and they are both now in their late 80s and enjoying life to the full. At the time of their operations, they were both very weak and ill, so it gave them a completely new lease of life. My friend walked all round Stratford-on-Avon with me yesterday, and I had a job to keep up with her, even though she is over twenty years older than me.
It is a worrying time for you and your family, but I'm sure that the operation will be a success, and your Dad will benefit so much from it. I will be thinking of you, and sending positive thoughts and my best wishes.
Love Joan xx0 -
Val i send a bucket of positive thoughts for you, I am sure your dad will be absolutely fine and I wish him a speedy recovery.
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Hi Val
I will be thinking about you and your mum and dad, like the others have said this op has become routine, but that doesn't stop you worrying.
Sending your dad my very best vibes....
Love and lots of hugs for you all (((((())))
Barbara xxLove
Barbara0 -
All my best wishes my dear... I am sure that he will be ok..
XXMe-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
Hi Val everything will be fine. My dad was offered one but it was still in its infancy in those days so he was trying to decide what to do when sadly he died of another heart attack aged 65. I so wish he had made the decision in time as I'm sure we would have lived a lot longer and with a better quality of life. Of course all ops are unpleasant but it will be for the best i'm sure.He will be a new man.
Lots of hugs Val ((( ))) Elizabeth.Never be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein0 -
Hi Val,
Your being scared is perfectly understandable, it's your dad. I'm sending you loads of positive thoughts, and your dad will be fine. My uncle had a massive bypass done in the earlier days , i'm going back 40 odd years ago and he lived on for many a happy year.
So also sending you and you mum and dad big hugs with even more positive thoughts.
Karen xxKaren xx0 -
Count me in, valval, I am sure all will be fine and your dad will be up and about and back to his old self much sooner than you might think. I wish him the very best, here's to a new lease of life, yes? DDHave you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0
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Hi Val.
i will be thinking about you and your mum and dad
on tuesday.
your dad will be able to enjoy life more
you all take care and i will be there.
joan xxtake care
joan xx0 -
Hi Val,
Someone very close to me had the same operation last year and he's back at work now albeit part-time. It is a big operation and you're bound to be worried so I'm sending positive thoughts for your Pa.Love, Legs x
'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'0 -
thankyou all passed his pre op today so it all go for going in on monday it hard to see some one who has always been fit and strong so affected but feel he will get new lease of life after it made me feel so much more confident reading what you had all wrote thankyou so much
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Dear Val,
Our thoughts are with you and your dad.
with best wishes from all the forum team.
Moderator AN0 -
Hi Val , My thoughts and good wishes are with you both for monday , it is horrible when its someone close to you having such a big op , try to think postive he will be so much better after he gets over it ........jillyx0
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Oh Val I am sorry I am late but sending thoughts and hopes (((( )))) Cris xx0
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