Arfur's pole dance

tjt6768

I want to know what the poor Poles name is and what he's done to you to warrant you calling him greasy & climbing all over him.. Bet the poor fellow was quite happy working in his field picking lettuces for the likes of us... :roll: :roll: :shock:


Del, I truly feel the frustration too Rkid, I'm having a crap one today.. I've just had an almighty rant about my old man to Janet, I'm glad she understands me, she knows none of it is personal, lol..

joanlawson

I think the best thing is not to struggle too much to get to the top of the pole all in one go, but to climb it gradually in easy stages, only going as far as you physically can each day. That doesn't mean you should give up trying, but you have to be kind to yourself and learn to climb within your capabilities. You won't end up in a crumpled heap at the bottom, or buried by the bricks, because we are all here to catch you if you fall, and to make sure that the pole is a little more easily surmountable.

Joan

valval

we do have to be more determined and organised than others or we would never get any where but we do have to remember try to do to much and arther will bite good and propper

dreamdaisy

I am 100% with you on that, del. It's the Sisyphus thing, yes? Or being drowned in the muck from the Augean stables. On a regular basis. DD

katknapp

i think i still need to learn this lesson....right now im still at the bottom of the pole with no energy or willpower to try and climb :sad:

tjt6768

I'm currently stood in the three foot deep trough I dug myself at the base of mine.. Lol
Someone give me a peg up :x

I make a target on my daily metaphoric pole, then laugh at it indignantly and ignore it.