who has done something totally stupid today
valval
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well me for one .decided to get new hover mower light weight one carried it back from town
got son (he did offer to meet me and carry it) to build it, then cut grass not once but twice.
right hand got the shakes now and feel so strange think have set neck off again. every year get so frustrated go and do to much and suffer for days .at rhymmy tue ao if have set arther off at least he might get to see something for a change will i ever learn no a good pal gave me the lecture this morning as well :oops: val

right hand got the shakes now and feel so strange think have set neck off again. every year get so frustrated go and do to much and suffer for days .at rhymmy tue ao if have set arther off at least he might get to see something for a change will i ever learn no a good pal gave me the lecture this morning as well :oops: val
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Oh Val, sometimes there is no choice but to do things ourselves.If you are anything like me you won't ask people to help in a direct way but hope they see the pain and discomfort you are in and offer.
Now you have set your neck off and, as well as mowing twice(bet it looks lovely) carrying it home can't have helped.
aybe you need to be more direct with those men in your life but I know old habits die hard.
Take care and have a rest now.Hope all goes well at the rheummy appointment,
ElizabethNever be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
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I know it's little consolation but I've done the same this weekend, Val
Loads of washing, ironing, making beds and hoovering underneath them. Then I took the girls for a bike ride this afternoon. Well, I say "bike ride" - they rode their bikes and I tried to keep up with them, wearing completely unsuitable sandals which didn't support my feet and now my heels are aching!
But I've learned to let others rake over - hubby is on dinner duty - I rang him at work to tell him
Nxx0 -
Well to be honest, I do something silly every day, just cant help myself. Trouble is it is not easy to change ourselves, to be able to ask for more help. I'm already in bed resting would you believe it, and I still wont learn.
Karen xxKaren xx0 -
Val
I hope payback isn't too bad tomorrow. I hope you atleast manage a good nights sleep for all your efforts.
Take care
JuliePf x0 -
it does look fab sat out for an hour this afternoon. tim works 6 days a week and over time dureing that time as well bless him he would help if asked did the ant powder to save me bothering. ade was at girl friend for weekend and steve at work i do like to do it my self if posible always have done but do ask for help when needed if it had not been light weight one would not have been able to carry it home. to those of you like me have good nights rest and be care full tomorrow and do not forget your pain meds valval0
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Dear oh dear.. Yet another one that won't learn.. Lol
What are we like,a supposed bunch of adults (plus me) & we all constantly make the same mistake over & over again... :roll: :roll:
We need a collective kick up the jacksy me thinks..
Me-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
feel like an elephant has trampled me, rest morning i think where has the sun gone. right what to eat and then pain meds and curl up with good book i think might even manage a nap before work valval0
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Did a classic one a little earlier: made a cup of tea, put the milk in the cupboard and my hot mug of Tetley in the fridge. :roll:Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0
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Didn't do it today but..
The other day i was getting changed to get in the bath..
Holding on to the sink for support i took my trousers off and through them straight down the toilet.. and guess what either my OH or son had been toilet previously and not flushed the chain..
Was not the loveliest of things i wanted to be doing before relaxing in the bath lol..xxTracyxx
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and that's why toilets have lids.. Lol
DD, glad to hear you're using the best teabags hun..
Lol
I am gonna do something stupid to this bloody phone in a minute,grrr........ Keeps booting me offline....
Me-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
i thought the lid was for me to sit on when gettind shoes and socks off silly me
traluvie my aim not as good as yours men :oops: (ok tony not all of u) never stop to think i hope you gave them what 4 valval0 -
Mr DD don't flush sometimes either: I don't think this is necessarily a major fault of the man part of mankind, don't some urinals flush through automatically or summat? It is irritating tho - we have to think about flushing, they don't, because sometimes the flush fairy does it for them. Bless. Multi-tasking - it's a woman's world. DDHave you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0
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No matter how many times i moan at them about flushing the toilet they don't listen..
Suppose it easier to pop it out wee, pop it back in and walk away.. all in one motion lol..
If the lid was down like it should have been, my trousers wouldn't have ended up there in te first place lol...xxTracyxx
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Christ... I'm starting to worry that I'm not a proper bloke. :shock: :eek: :eek: :shock:
I ALWAYS flush the loo, ALWAYS put the lid down, I HATE bad toilet etiquette...
Maybe I'm bilingual :???: :eek:
Well I know I'm not gay, I just help em out when they're busy
Me-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
do not worry the men here flush and put lid down and they r real men as well (came from when dog used to drink out of it if left up ) valval0
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Thats good then Val..
No more accidents with me throwing stuff down the toilet..xxTracyxx
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Oh valval, that made me laugh! How big was the dog - are we talking Great Dane?
Credit where credit is due, Mr DD does change the toilet roll for a new one when needed. DD
Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0 -
grey hound/ alsation cross he was a little tyke but lovely . used to open the bathroom window to get out flooded bathroom more than once turning tap on while climbing up good job bathroom down stairsval0
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Wow! What a mixture of hounds, was he tall and skinny-ish with a long coat, or more bulky with a short coat?
No wonder he could lap from the lav! Our bathroom is ground floor too, useful during the day, damned painful at night. DD
Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0 -
he was tallish short coat coffee coloured was great dog could clear 6ft fence from standing many a time .used to go up mum and dads for kit kat then wait for ride home he was very special and thought he was the boss valval0
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I put my laundry in the tumble dryer instead of the w/machine this morning :eek:
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It's ok John, we are blokes, as far as we are concerned they're the same thing... Wimmins territory :shock: :shock: :eek: :eek:
Oh boy, I'm in bother again, lol..
Me-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
Hi Val, I think I have gone mad!! Yesterday afteroon I was just putting some washing away when it went from that to clearing out my OH's boxer short draw and folded them all (they had been thrown in any old how!) and put them away tidy. And got all the towels and sheets from the airing cupboard and folded all the sheets nicely and quilt covers and made them into sets ready to be put on beds!! And I asked hubby to put everything from the top shelf of the airing cupboard in the guest bedroom so I can sort and make up sets. I think I have started nesting as the Physic's call it! I wouldn't mind but I can't have children and haven't got a maternal crumbling bone in my body!!
As for loo thoughts, I make OH put loo seat down after one morning finding bubba (cat) back legs in the air with tail pointing up drinking out the loo! It was something you had to see for yourself everytime I think about I chuckle! So now we have a rule in the house flush and put seat down! other wise you will find bubba drinking out the loo!0 -
hi bubba we had cat years ago and yes he used to do that as well even though he had nice clean water changed 3 times aday he would much rather use the toilet never used to let him lick me after he started that lol.
the mood does hit you on a good day just have to go with the flow but it not over doing things that difficult do you want to come do mine pleaseval0
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