I AM IN PANIC MODE

bertyboy
bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
edited 5. Aug 2011, 17:58 in Living with Arthritis archive
I am now in panic mode as i have just been given my pre op appointment and date for op , 9th august and then the 12th of september , i know nothing of the procedure really its on my left knee that had a tkr last april and now need a resuface and a button at the back which from what i do know is a plastic piece , behind the knee cap :???:
I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx

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  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    There's no need to panic, at last you know what's what and when it's going to happen. I know nothing about the procedure but I am sure they will be able to answer your questions at the pre-op, well, I hope they can! I am sure all will be (and will go) well this time around. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • dorcas
    dorcas Member Posts: 3,516
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi bertygirl :grin:

    I can understand your panic! it's getting the pre-op /op dates...suddenly the reality hits and the nerves jangle. :!: but.... as DD said, I'm sure the surgeon will explain all that's to happen and answer any questions you have.

    You've had a tough time since last year.... but hopefully this op will put things right and you'll be pain free.

    Sending you positive vibes and calming ((((hugs))))

    Iris xxx
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi there

    I agree with DD and Iris. It's ok knowing you need this op, but when you get the actual go ahead is so different. It does become real and frightening, but you will be in good hands and everything will be explained to you.

    If you would like pocket duties for the 9th, I will in your pocket.

    Karen xx
    Karen xx
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Bertygirl

    I can well imagine how you are feelng. It must all go well this time around for you, you have suffered more than enough since your previous operation. You are a brave girl. :smile:

    Elna x
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  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi bertyboy, how are you feeling now? I hope you are feeling a little less stressed about it all. I know it's been rough for you but you do need to get sorted, yes? You know we will all be behind you on the respective days. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi, It is a shock when you get a date for an op. However much you know you need it and you've been longing for the date to come and the job over and done with, but I'm sure that you'll be fine and glad you've had it done. Lots of love, Suexxx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Berty
    I will be thinking about you, and have everything crossed that they sought it for you,sure they will
    Dont forget we all understand the fear, pocket duties are booked in.
    You take care xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • hileena111
    hileena111 Member Posts: 7,099
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Bertyboy
    Well at least you know whats happening now...you are bound to be scared Sorry I know nothing about it....the most i have had is a THR
    We'll be here for pocket duty
    Love

    Hileena
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hope you have big pockets its going to be a bit packed in there.Mig
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    How are you feeling today, bertyboy? Better, I hope. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Berty.

    Can fully understand your panic mode....I am in that mode too.

    I am pleased though that you have both dates. One for your assessment and then for your op. I went for my assessment 23 jun and I am still waiting for my op date. :x

    Will be waiting to jump in your pocket on the 9th.

    Take care
    Juliepf x
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Count me in for pocket duties too, I'm sure that it will be ok. As Mig said, hope you have large pockets...
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  • bertyboy
    bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi ALL what a wonderfull bunch you are ,thank you for all your words and upcoming pocket duty that is now booked for the 19th and not the 9th , hope you can still make it , i am casting it all out of my mind for now i just know it needs doing and cant be anyworse than i thought the tkr would be , which for all facing a tkr its not really that bad its just been my bad luck thats gone in a diffrent direction ,xx
    I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx
  • rugbygirl
    rugbygirl Member Posts: 691
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi Berty

    Count me in for pocket duties too as I know anything is unknown is always a worry. I will be available for all pocket duties as required. Hope everything goes as planned and you are soon pain-free and wondering why you are so worried about things.

    Look after yourself
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  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Berty,

    Late as ever bit you know I am with you on the 19th and for the pre-op.

    Like Iris said its not surprising your getting panicky especially cus you have been there before so short a time ago.

    I think your right put it out your head and leave it shelved.

    You know I think they really will get it right for you this time and they will look after you and we(and thats all of us lodgers and employers included) will be lurking in them shadows. love and more calming hugs i nicked from Iris earlier. Cris xx
  • chris7
    chris7 Bots Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Berty

    I will be thinking of you and squeezing in what will be a crowded pocket on the 19th. Bless you for so kindly thinking of, and reassuring others facing knee ops even in your current panic mode. I know things haven't quite worked out for you so am especially crossing my fingers this time and hope you have a successful outcome and a good recovery.
    take care
    love
    Chris
  • speedalong
    speedalong Member Posts: 3,315
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Berty, panic mode is normal. Use that adrenalin to get all organised and prepared and then focus on how great it will be to get that knee sorted!

    Speedy
    I have had OA since mid twenties. It affects my hips and knees. I had a THR on the left aged 30 and now have a resurface-replacement on the right - done May 2010.
  • weejean
    weejean Member Posts: 346
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Bertyboy

    I understand exactly how you are feeling :shock: I am going in for a bi-lateral THR on 9th September and I am also very nervous and panicky. I will be in your pocket for your pre-op and your surgery and we can recover together. Good luck and I really hope it all goes well for you xx
    Big Hugs
    Jean xx