My poor baby

cthornley
cthornley Member Posts: 627
edited 12. Sep 2011, 18:12 in Community Chit-chat archive
For once i'm here cuddling my poorly baby (ok he's 3 but still my baby)
rather than him cuddling a poorly me

As much as I hate being poorly, I would do anything to swap
The sad eyes are heartbreaking :sad:

We had a rough night last night, with a high temp, up nearly every hour. He's been home with his dad all day, doing a good impression of the calpol advert

but now we're hot and constantly crying, no matter what mummy does
Cuddles is the best thing i've managed so far, although its like hugging a hot water bottle
Hope we have a better night tonight
Chrissie

Comments

  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Awww Chrissie, it is so heartbreaking isnt it to see your little one so poorly, we just want to have the illness for them :sad:

    it doesnt matter how old they are they are still our babies! Mine is 18 and just gone off to Uni !

    I do hope he gets better quickly and you all get a better night. ((((hugs)))
    cool him down with a nice cool flannel on his forehead, if he'll have it, you probably done that already.

    sleep well, fingers crossed

    Rose x
  • Ankyspond
    Ankyspond Member Posts: 626
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hope he feels better soon, give him plenty of fluids nd cool baths.

    Mine are 20, 17 & 15 and will never be too old to be my babies, it's lovely to hear someone else say the same. Xx
    AS Sufferer
    Live, love and enjoy life, live each day as though it's your last!
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I hope you get a better night, Chrissie, and that your son will be better tomorrow. I think we can stand illness in ourselves, but with our children, it's a different matter. The trouble is that they are too young to understand why they feel so poorly, and you can't explain to them.

    My two babies celebrated their 40th birthday this year :shock: Where did all those years go :?:

    Joan
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  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Poor child Chrissie. I do hope he starts to feel better soon.They get totally wiped don't they? But they bounce back suddenly.

    Hope you are coping okay too.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrissie

    hope your little boy feels better soon and you both managed som sleep.

    Hugs to you both (((((())))))
  • jillyb1
    jillyb1 Member Posts: 1,725
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thinking of you both and sending extra cuddles to both of you . Jillyb
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Aww Chrissie..he is just a baby bless him...I do hope he feel better very soon...cuddles do go a long way...
    And sending you some hugs to keep you going...((((())))
    Love
    Barbara
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,087
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Is he any better yet Chrissie???

    just wondering and hoping.

    Love

    Toni xx
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrissie, I am sorry to read this and I hope things are generally better for your lad. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    There is nothing worse than seeing your baby ill.... I hope that he makes a speedy recovery for you Chrissie... My baby is 23 but I still hate to see her poorly..

    Give him a big many hug from me.... :grin:

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  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    my baby 24 and still call it him from time to time along with mummys little angel but to see littles ones ill is awfull hope he feeling bit better now val
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  • cthornley
    cthornley Member Posts: 627
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks everybody
    He's a bit better now his temperature has broken although that in itself was horrible as he had 2 episodes of night terrors that lasted 1/2 an hr & an hour repectively. Yelling, screaming, kicking out & hitting but not really awake. He kept crying out for me but if I went to him he said "go away I want my mummy" :???: but as I said he wasn't really awake.
    He used to have night terrors regularly when he was little but it's harder now he can physically hurt me :shock: The best thing about them is he doesn't seem to remember anything the next day although I'm always traumatised.
    Anyway he seems much better today just a bit knackered (as am I )
    Thanks again
    Chrissie
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,087
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hopefully Chrissie

    that will be it now and you will both start to get some proper sleep.

    Love

    Toni xx
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrissie,

    How is the lttle one today? and yourself of course?

    Rose x
  • cthornley
    cthornley Member Posts: 627
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Rose
    He's better but still not himself, not poorly but not right either
    I've been on my own with him all weekend and he's been clingy, grumpy and had the attention span of a gnat....I'm truly exhausted.
    Today work was a welcome break !
    He's also been quite sad because his two best friends have left his nursery for nursery's attached to their local schools. He's played with one of them every weekday since he was 7 months old so I understand his confusion and sadness. I think thats making it harder to get him back to his old self.
    I don't know how to make it better or even explain why, he looks so lost :sad: The other friend i'm trying to keep contact with on weekends but his best friend I don't really know the family.
    We're off on holiday together next week so hopefully some quality mummy & daddy time will put him back to rights.
    Chrissie
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Chrissie,

    Awww poor little chap it is hard for them isnt it. When he feels better he will soon make new friends :grin: Glad he is on the mend tho and you had a 'rest' at work !

    You have a great holiday together and recouperate. It will all be back to 'normal' soon :grin:

    Rose x