first love

valval · 26. Oct 2011, 15:21

ok what is your first love doing now? do you know and how long ago?

mine single last i heard living away from here and was 35 years ago good times lol

julie47 · 26. Oct 2011, 16:32

He is laying on sofa val watching david attenborough

I married him.....

I was nearly 16 and he was 16
He is now 49 and I am nearly 49 (in feb)

juliepf x

Poppyg1rl · 26. Oct 2011, 16:44

Same with me Julie

I was 18 and he was 25 when we met at work, we've been married 19 years on 11th November

julie47 · 26. Oct 2011, 16:49

oooh poppy congratulations for the 11th

27 years for us

bubbles · 26. Oct 2011, 18:57

erm, married, now divorced, living on his own as far as I know, how long ago? Early 1970's if my memory serves me.

cacyhi · 26. Oct 2011, 18:59

I was 15 he was 18 - that was a long time ago 1975 - he's a BankManager now and sometimes I think it would have been quite nice to be married to a bankmanager then I remember that I broke off our engagement because he was soooo boring. He'd make a calculation in a notebook to see if we could go out or not - not very exciting when you are a teenager

valval · 27. Oct 2011, 05:35

julie47 wrote:

He is laying on sofa val watching david attenborough

I married him.....

I was nearly 16 and he was 16
He is now 49 and I am nearly 49 (in feb)

juliepf x

that so cute well done in this age not many manage this lol

valval · 27. Oct 2011, 05:36

Poppyg1rl wrote:

Same with me Julie I was 18 and he was 25 when we met at work, we've been married 19 years on 11th November

made me smile have good anniversary val

valval · 27. Oct 2011, 05:37

bubbles wrote:

erm, married, now divorced, living on his own as far as I know, how long ago? Early 1970's if my memory serves me.

the 70s were such a fun time to be a teenager loved it

valval · 27. Oct 2011, 05:39

cacyhi wrote:

I was 15 he was 18 - that was a long time ago 1975 - he's a BankManager now and sometimes I think it would have been quite nice to be married to a bankmanager then I remember that I broke off our engagement because he was soooo boring. He'd make a calculation in a notebook to see if we could go out or not - not very exciting when you are a teenager

bet he still boring but the money would be nice lol sorry checking in note book to see if free to see you i would have ditched him as well lol

dreamdaisy · 27. Oct 2011, 06:25

I remember boyfriends and the first husband but I did not actually know what true love felt like until I met the current Mr DD. It still feels the same after 23 years. My heart still turns over when I hear his key in the door, or when I look at him snoozing on the sofa. It turns over even more rapidly when he buys me beer!

Julie? Your answer made my eyes leak. DD

joanlawson · 27. Oct 2011, 08:52

My first love was when I was still at school at the age of 16 ( he was 17) He was every teenager's dream- very good-looking, sweet, loving, and very generous. I was madly in love with him for three years until I went off to college in London, but he stayed home in Yorkshire. After a year of being apart, I eventually broke up with him. He wanted to get engaged, but I wasn't ready for that. It was painful to finish with him, but I was much too young to get married, so it was the best thing to do.

The last thing I heard, he had married a nurse..........another Joan

My Mum used to see him sometimes while out shopping, and apparently he got even more handsome as he got older. See what I missed :!:

PS. If you're reading this, Jeff, thanks for the memories

cloud9 · 27. Oct 2011, 10:26

Mine was a neighbour and we met when we were both 5. I adored him for the next 11 years until I left home to work and he met a tall, leggy, long blonde hair, pretty girl. He married her, had 2 beautiful sons, divorced her and is now living with someone. I still see him from time to time and I still think he's gorgeous. I'm very much in love with my OH and we've been together for almost 28 years now. I wouldn't change him for the world.

frogmorton · 27. Oct 2011, 13:59

You know mine Val

but l really really loved him - he meant the world to me and l am still not over it even 25+ years later :sad:

Last l heard when we would both of been in our mid 30's he was living with a 50 year old woman in 'one of the London boroughs'

am VERY happy with my husband and like cloud wouldn't change him for anything

Love

toni xx

valval · 27. Oct 2011, 14:26

i do not think you ever truly get over your first true love but there are so many types of love that you never have to settle for second best

magenta · 27. Oct 2011, 18:14

Hiya,

I married mine

Met when I was 18, he was 17!! Few dates, then went our 'seperate ways'. Met again when I was going on 23, him just 22, and that was it! 20yrs later we're still as loved up as before.

Magenta x

joanlawson · 27. Oct 2011, 18:45

delboy wrote:

No idea, don't care.

Oh dear, was it that bad, Del :?: :eek:

tonesp · 28. Oct 2011, 02:33

My first love knocked me back for someone more promising.She still lives on a council estate and I live in a big house with a swimming pool in Spain Justice!!!! :evil :evil :evil

frogmorton · 28. Oct 2011, 04:18

valval wrote:

i do not think you ever truly get over your first true love but there are so many types of love that you never have to settle for second best

My Husband said that to me....

he was glad he didn't have to settle for second best...min l once saw HIS first love and she looked a LOT like me :shock:

Toni xx

joanlawson · 28. Oct 2011, 06:24

delboy wrote:

She dumped me

Altogether now...........Ahhhhh :!:

joanlawson · 28. Oct 2011, 06:27

tonesp wrote:

My first love knocked me back for someone more promising.She still lives on a council estate and I live in a big house with a swimming pool in Spain Justice!!!! :evil :evil :evil

Tone, I've sent you a PM, but you haven't picked it up.

PS. No, I'm not the one from the council estate :shock:

Compositor · 28. Oct 2011, 06:28

Met my lady when I was16, she was 17 at the time...she was a morris dancers and I was on the Carnival Committee locally. I had never gone out with a girl before, it was all new to me...believe it or nor I was a quiet one. We went out for four years before we got married in 1971, we love with the in-laws for tweve months until we got our council house, then, much to my delight we had our first daughter, followed by another shortly afterwards. We then tookthe step of buying our own house. Apart from time off having children, my wife has never had time off from work and she's 61 now...the countless times I have been off, and, eventually I finished work altogether, she's been the one that's had to care for me. I have never had the experience of going with another and never wanted to either, but, I know, I certainly got a gem when I married her all those many years ago, and, could never imagine life life with another lady. The love she shows to me, my two daughters and four granddaughters, how could I ever wish for more...and yet she soldiers on, turning out at 6.30 every morning, never complaining...I'm a very lucky guy. John x

joanlawson · 28. Oct 2011, 06:34

John, that's a wonderful tribute to your wife. How lovely that you've had such a long and happy marriage. True love :!:

Joan

tkachev · 28. Oct 2011, 06:42

Well my first love died very young.

Elizabeth

joanlawson · 28. Oct 2011, 06:49

tkachev wrote:

Well my first love died very young.

Elizabeth

Oh Elizabeth, that's very sad

valval · 28. Oct 2011, 07:13

there are lots of sad storys and some that make you realise how good life is to you thanks everyone for replys they make lovely reading.
dell can not think why she would dump you was not me did not go out with a del honest but did dump a few along the way to finding steve

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