OH going in for Op tomorrow :0(
JuliaHod12
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Hi Guys
Well the OH is going in to have a large tumour on his Parotid Gland removed tomorrow :-( It's going to be quite a big Op with the incision going from behind his right ear to just under his chin, he's going to be in hospital at least 1 night, maybe 2 depending how he gets on! :-(
I think I am more nervous than him...........last time he had an Op was 1987 to have his Wisdom Teeth extracted!
It will also be the first time I have been left at home overnight by myself since 1992 :-(
Its usually me that in hospital or off visiting family!
Julia x
Well the OH is going in to have a large tumour on his Parotid Gland removed tomorrow :-( It's going to be quite a big Op with the incision going from behind his right ear to just under his chin, he's going to be in hospital at least 1 night, maybe 2 depending how he gets on! :-(
I think I am more nervous than him...........last time he had an Op was 1987 to have his Wisdom Teeth extracted!
It will also be the first time I have been left at home overnight by myself since 1992 :-(
Its usually me that in hospital or off visiting family!
Julia x
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Fingers crossed for your oh,hope everything goes alright ,hope you have a restful night with out oh,gonna be strange for you.let us know how he gets on.Mig0
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I, too, hope all goes well, Julia. Your OH sounds the phlegmatic type. When mine had to go for an op I thought it was going to take a fork lift truck and a squad of heavies to get him there. (These ex-rugby players :roll: )
I do hope it goes well for both of you.If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
Steven Wright0 -
Julia, my partner had the same OP about 10 years ago, before we met.
He had a course of radio therapy after, they never found the original source of the tumour but all cancerous cells were removed and he was and is completely fine ( well... thats's debatable actually, lol) and has long since been discharged.
One of his neck muscles was removed in the process and that with the long scar makes him look quite intimidating. And he still likes to tell people how he had
'his head cut off and sown back on again'
Men... really why do they have to blow things out of proportion?!
Best wishes to your OH, I'm sure all will be fine . xLife is what happens while you're busy making other plans.0 -
I wish him the best of luck hun..
Us Blokes are toughMe-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
Hi Julia
I so hope it goes well for him,. Try not to worry and let us know how he goes on please? Leaving a ((( ))) and a anti-worry bucket. Cris x0 -
Dear Julia
I do hope your husband has got on ok today and is being looked after really well.
I wish l could tell you not to worry, but you will :? .
Fingers crossed for a swift recovery
Love
Toni xx0 -
Hi Guys
Thanks again for the support.....you are all stars! :-)
OH is fine........sitting up in hospital eating biccies and drinking Tea!
They couldnt take all the Tumour as it was too close to major nerves etc, so have taken what they can............the scarring isn;t as bad as expected, but he's left with rosy patches on his cheek and a slightly dropped lip........thesemight improve, or they might not!
In all I am just relieved he is ok and will be back home in a day or two!
Julia x0 -
H Julia,
Bless him I hope he will get a comfortable night and you have him home again very soon. Cris x0 -
That's great news hun, please pass on all our wishes for a speedy recovery?
My neighbour and good friend is waiting for the same thing..Me-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
Well done your o/h .Hope he is home soon .Marrianne0
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Good news ,please pass on good wishes from me.Mig0
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Julia Im so sorry I missed this...but I am relived that you OH is doing fine...what a worry for you both..I do wish him a good recovery...xxLove
Barbara0 -
I do hope he's continuing to improve. And that you're managing OK.If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
Steven Wright0 -
Glad to hear OH is doing well, Julia. Best wishes to you both.xxLife is what happens while you're busy making other plans.0
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Hope all's going well. Fondest wishes to you both,
Numpty0 -
Hi Julia.
i hope your husband comming a long well and you are alright and having a good day.
joan xxtake care
joan xx0 -
Hi all
just a quick update..............!
hubby still in hospital .............hoping he will be home tomorrow xx0 -
Hi Julia,
Hope he is home tomorrow for you and leaving you a ((( ))). Cris x0 -
Only just spotted this Julia sorry.
Wishing you both well and a speedy get well to OH.Ruby0
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