Billy no mates

tjt6768
tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
edited 24. May 2012, 07:49 in Living with Arthritis archive
well, I've just been to attend my very first arthritis care meeting.. On my own :shock:
I checked and checked and triple checked the date and time.. Venue etc..
Got there early...
Went in.... Not one person from arthritis care :? I checked the tones etc again.. Yup, there it us, on the website, third thursday if the month, 2-3.30, outwood memorial hall, wakefield...
Only people there were some old folks playing bingo, nothing to do with ac.
The people I spoke to at the place checked the calender, nothing... Hadn't seen ac for a couple of months or so..
I tried ringing the numbers I had from the website but got no answer. So I sent an email asking why I was sat there all on my own.. :cry:
Wouldn't mind, I emailed them a couple of weeks ago asking about the meetings, was yolks to just turn up..
Not the best of starts to my foray into ac meetings..
:cry::cry::cry: I was all alone :cry::cry::cry: Lol

Oh well....
Guess I smell or summat :o
e050.gifMe-Tony
n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
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Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP

Comments

  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    You Poor love , it must have been awful for you , did you join in with the bingo , Hows your doogie(dog) getting on .


    fowls
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Oh poor you Tony, not good advertising at all is it for that kind of meeting? You did everything correctly, calling in advance to check. Well, it was their loss, big time and I don't suppose you shall be rushing to go back.

    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I right I would give the bingo a miss lol...
    It wasn't too bad as it's just a couple of miles away but I'm disappointed that it's still in the website...
    Oh, I don't have a dog mi dear lol.. Have a rather large cat though :D and he's doing fine, sleeping as usual.. Once he's woken us on a morning and been fed, he goes straight back to sleep, lucky boy :roll: :lol:
    fowls48 wrote:
    You Poor love , it must have been awful for you , did you join in with the bingo , Hows your doogie(dog) getting on .


    fowls
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I'm a little disappointed hun, I must admit.. Not good advertising as you say.. I was kinda looking forward to it too... Hoping an email will come through soon with a decent explanation.
    Cheers Elna :D
    elnafinn wrote:
    Oh poor you Tony, not good advertising at all is it for that kind of meeting? You did everything correctly, calling in advance to check. Well, it was their loss, big time and I don't suppose you shall be rushing to go back.

    Elna x
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,147
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Oh Dear Tony :(

    I am sorry.

    In fact not that impressed really.

    Tomorrow l am going to Suncatcher's event in oldbury (bit far for you) going with Roses1 if she is ok.

    It's lovely to meet others in the same position. You must be so disapointed.

    Love

    Toni xxx
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    No way to treat people,hope they have the good manners to reply.Set RA on them.Mig
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Sorry tony

    thought you had a dog , i have 4 **** lol 3 moggy minors and 1 posh bengal. 2 fluffy pom dogs (Zoo )If you luv cats go to Gandee Vasan
    www.gandeevasan.com/ click on cats atonic he has pictures of beautiful cats , my cat chintz is on the site and also tiggy tiger , chintz abrown spotted bengal large green eyes Tiggy is the tabby in a basket.Sorry proud owner of **** it can be a bore .Glad your **** is doing well , poor jenson had to go to vets last week he has cycstitus poor thing , i was horrified as he weighed in at 5 1/2 kilos oooops poor soul, is now on a diet .


    fowls .
  • bubbadog
    bubbadog Member Posts: 5,544
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Oh Tony, what a waste of time hey! What with you feeling under the weather as well! Don't think your billy no mates your Tony tons of mates!!
    Well it was there loss hey!

    And fowls what a great site! I love cats, had them in my life from the day I was cannoned into this world! And OH & I are lucky to have Bubba puss with us currently. So was lovely to look at those pics which is your baby as there is 2 cats in baskets?
  • emsjane
    emsjane Member Posts: 351
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I had the same problem tony at my local group although I will let them off as it was deep winter and frosty under foot and the lady who was waiting there to tell people it was cancelled that week told me it was mainly old biddies who go to the group and they go for the social aspect really! So me being only 42!! I thought mAybe the group wasn't for me and I was looking for a more active group that had guest speakers etc! Oh well. Maybe in 20 years I can go, if I'm still alive!! Lol
    LOVE EMMA X
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    thanks webby :D
    I had an email back from Jalsinder? Sorry, I can't remember her surname right now. Apologizing.. She could not understand what had happened. I will try and dig out the email as I can't remember exactly what else she put :oops: I've not slept much last night.. Lol

    Emma, you're a whipper snapper at that age, lol... I'm 43, soon to be all the 4's, so I get what you mean. Sadly it's the nature of the beast that a lot of people we will come into contact with through or arthritic lives will be older than us. I always seemed to be the youngest by quite a margin when I was in the hospital after surgery etc..

    Cheers folks
    Sorry I've not been online a couple of days..
    Hope everyone is ok?
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    yup :cry:
    And you too matey
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • Folara
    Folara Member Posts: 568
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I'm off for a nap in a minute but then I'm positively ancient at 45 :D

    I have been very proactive this morning tho as I taught my friends husband on a riding lesson.

    Enjoy your lap nap :lol:

    Fols x
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    surely you don't mean the four legged equine beasts :shock:
    I'm afraid, very afraid.. Lol
    Folara wrote:
    I'm off for a nap in a minute but then I'm positively ancient at 45 :D

    I have been very proactive this morning tho as I taught my friends husband on a riding lesson.

    Enjoy your lap nap :lol:

    Fols x
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP