I thought Id say Hi as suffering Really bad today :(

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tuppie
tuppie Member Posts: 16
edited 3. Jul 2012, 16:15 in Living with Arthritis archive
Hello, i have been reading the forum since April when the specialist confirmed Spinal Arthritis.... but tonight i thought id have a ickle moan if you dont mind me jumping stright in.,....


I just crack on with it Cry at night with pain Have the BIggest sweats and hot flushes (Full hystorectomy aged 28 so not menapause ...they left my ovaries)
but today i cant smile, My fingers feel like they are bloating, my neck is killing me i sweating like a Fat lapdancer gosh i can go on and on... you guys understand as we are living with this Every single minute of the day.

I have taken my Zapain and amitriptyline for the night and still nothing (mind you dont touch the pain to be honest i just pop the pills to try and fraud my brain)
I have 30mg Morphine but i had to stop taking these as next day I am sick all day and bedridden.
Just feeling Really low...Husband at a Dinner night (army) so cant moan to him....

On a good note reading other posts from you guys least im not a lone and not limited edition some one understands the pain and the joys that come with it...

any how enough self pitty glad i took the plunge and braved to say Hello im new and sorry to have moaned to ya.xxxx

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  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    You moan away mi dear... We are all expert listeners (readers lol) here and definately understand..

    Welcome to the forum, sorry that you have had to find us though..

    Best wishes and keep posting, newbies are always welcome :D
    e050.gifMe-Tony
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    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hi Tuppie

    Welcome to the forum. I am sorry that you have waited until you wish to have a rant before chatting to us. :wink: Nevermind you are here now and I am sorry that you have had more than enough today. Sounds like it too, I must say. Mind you, it has been sooooooooo hot and humid today that I have felt so lethargic and also kept breaking out in sweats after having done nothing in particular. :shock:

    So hubby at a dinner then? Well, you may well be better off having a rant to us lot, as you say, we do know where you are coming from and I am sure you will get lots of support. I was just going out to do a little cleaning job at the end of the road and saw your posting and wanted to reply. I shall definitely be washed and rung out by the time I get back indoors in about 50 minutes max. :roll:

    Please do not apologise for having a moan, we all do it from time to time.
    I do hope that tomorrow is better for you. :)

    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hi tuppie, welcome to the forum.
    You moan as long and hard as you want, we'll listen. It sounds to me as though you have plenty to moan about!
    I'm sorry you're feeling so rough at the moment and hope it soon improves.
    I look forward to seeing you post in the future.
    Take care,
    Numpty
  • tuppie
    tuppie Member Posts: 16
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Thank u all xx I hate having a moan but sometimes it's ;(

    I have retired to the bedroom with my cat! Husband should be home soon so for now I'll just try and get comfy and sleep...

    Thank you for being so welcoming I wish I said Hi sooner x

    Night night all xx
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
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    night, sleep well :D
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
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    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Night, night, sweet dreams, Tuppie. Hope hubby had an enjoyable evening.

    Tomorrow is another day. :D

    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • jilly
    jilly Member Posts: 503
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hello ,sorry you are in so much pain dont worry about having a moan we all need one at times , it is horrible being in pain when you cant get rid of it and worse if you are on your own . Hope you can get off to sleep and feel better tomorrow . Welcome to the forum .....jillyx
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
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    Good morning Tuppie :D

    How's you today? I left home at 7.30 am but am back now. Pleased that I took my cagoule with me as I did need it. A change in the weather from yesterday but much fresher. :) Just had brunch and could do with a nap. Perhaps I shall just do that. :lol:

    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
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    morning it can all get to much sometimes but that why we are here and help each other glad you have posted and hope you will come back welcome and keep intouch.
    i always find it the middle of the night when pain takes control and stops me getting the sleep i need to cope there are ways to distract your self from the pain that helps you get through the bad times good luck have lovely day val
    val
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
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    Hi Tuppie


    Hope you are feeling better today .

    karen xx
  • resusjan
    resusjan Member Posts: 290
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    Hi Tuppie,

    Sorry I missed this last night. A belated welcome from me. I hope you're having a better day today.
    Jan xx
  • hileena111
    hileena111 Member Posts: 7,099
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hi
    Sorry I missed this yesterday
    A big welcome to the forum and dont worry about moaning....we all have to have a moan now and again :wink:

    Love
    Hileena
  • tuppie
    tuppie Member Posts: 16
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Evening all thank you once again for your kind welcomes xx

    Not alone tonight husband home and tickling my feet, its the small things :)



    Pain wise still as bad and to top it all I have a stinking cold hey ho!


    Hope every one else is ok xxxx
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
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    Hello tuppie, it's lovely to meet you and I am glad that you have found us. I used to think I was the only one (well, I knew I was, none of my friends had anything like this!) then I found AC and the world changed for the better. You are talking to the initiated here (but you know that, you said you had been looking in since April) and I am so pleased you 'took the plunge' - we are a supportive, informative and friendly bunch of creakers. :wink: I hope you and the husband have summat lovely planned for the week-end and I wish you well. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
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    Hi Tuppie,Hope today will be a little better for you,cant bear my feet touched which is not helpful as they are relly bad with RA and everyone likes to prod and poke them.Mig
  • tuppie
    tuppie Member Posts: 16
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hello All, again.....

    Pain today maybe a 7 i have lived with it for so long I just put up with it and cry inside....

    Pain Clinic appointment finally came throught August 7th lets see how much more money I can waste on Perscriptions.......

    Anyhow the only thing I would love to be removed other then the PAIN is the hot flushes day and night......shall see my Dr next time about it and mention it too him but i shall wait till gets a little colder as i would not want him to think im silly as its recently been hot and humid i think i have seen my Dr more times then he has seen his wife so I shall Leave him alone for a bit.



    Hope we are all ok this evening? xxx
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
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    evening. :D
    I suppose seven out if ten is better than a nine eh?

    Have you thought about getting a pre payment certificate for the prescriptions? If you are going to be paying regularly they are a Godsend. I daredn't think how much mine would cost if I paid full price. I get a yearly certificate, I think it's about £110, but you can pay monthly..
    It's silly really because I'm unable to work and in benefits but because my wife works we gery penalised all the time :roll:
    Anyway, if you've not heard of them before I'm sure the government website will have all the info.

    Take it easy... :D

    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
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    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP