Would just like to say....

tjt6768
tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
edited 14. Oct 2012, 09:47 in Living with Arthritis archive
I'm sure that some of you know about the tough times we have been through in the Tony household..
Well I'd just like to thank everyone who has been there for me through this. The support I've had has been absolutely top notch and I really appreciate it.
It's going to take a long time to get mi head back in the game but I'm trying to get there.
Dad's death really hit hard and there have been some horrible experiences through him being ill with the hospitals etc in lincolnshire, all of that combined with one flare after another sent me into hiding somewhat.
Formal complaints to the trusts have been submitted, we would really like to stop what happened with Dad happening to someone else. I can't really go into detail but needless to say the treatment was appalling..

I'm just wittering on now lol.

Anyway..... A HUGE thank you to you all and please accept my apologies for my absence during any pocket duties..
I sincerely hope that everyone is as well as can be..
Take it easy.
:D
e050.gifMe-Tony
n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
k040.gif
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP

Comments

  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You're back! That's the main thing.

    You know there aren't enough blokes on this forum to go round among us wimmin so I hope you're feeling strong :wink:

    Good to have you back, mate.
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • DebraKelly
    DebraKelly Member Posts: 398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thinking of you.
  • dibdab
    dibdab Member Posts: 1,498
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good to have you back!!!!! Take care of yourself, getting back in the race takes a while when it feels like the world is falling in around you.

    Deb
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    It's lovely to have you back, you have had a great deal to cope with and that takes time. Come and go as you wish - we're always here. :wink: DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Welcome back Tony missed you.Mig
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Glad you're back Tony, it wasn't the same without you.

    Numpty
  • Jo90
    Jo90 Member Posts: 68
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tony
    Sorry to hear you have had such a rough time. Welcome back, the door is always open :-)
    Look after yourself
    Jo
    x
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony its lovely to have you back with us,I am glad you have put in a complaint..like you say it will hopefully help others, bit by bit you will get there...we are always here for you.
    take care xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • LignumVitae
    LignumVitae Member Posts: 1,972
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So pleased to have you back, you have been much missed! I hope the complaints proceedure goes OK. Many applause to you for taking up that option, it isn't an easy thing to do and to do it to help others shows what a bloomin star you are! Hope the flare ups give up and life gets a bit easier for you soon. Big fat I missed you hugs, LV xx
    Hey little fighter, things will get brighter
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    you know we love to have you here and understand that you needed space we are here when you want to post but do not feel you have to we do understand that it takes time ((())) val
    val
  • jilly
    jilly Member Posts: 503
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Its lovely to see you posting again , i dont post much but i read the posts most days and missed you. sorry you are having a flare and hope you are better soon . life is really hard and cruel sometimes is'nt it , sending you hugs ((((())))) ...jillyx
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thanks folks.. That's put a smile on mi mush :D lol
    Don't wanna tempt fate but today is slightly easier so far. I'm not going to push things though. Just popped round the corner to Toni's to see them and their menagerie.. The three new kittens are adorable... :D
    So, at the minute they have TEN CATS &A DOG :shock: They're on about keeping one of the kittens though... Ridiculous.. Not my say though so I'll keep mi gob shut.

    Right, once again, I thank I thank you all.. Lots of Yorkshire Blokey Hugs (TM) from me plus purrs from The Great White Dope..
    PS, I've got a trademark on YBH's now lol
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • bubbadog
    bubbadog Member Posts: 5,544
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So pleased to hear from my Bloke friend! TM. hehehe! You don't have to thank us! We all love and adore you, even the guys! (You know 'bromance!) :lol: I'm pleased you popped by to say Hi, was worrying about the 'Tony' household, you do what you feel is right, and if that means putting in formal complaints to the trust do that! It may be worth getting in touch with your local M.P and telling them what has happened and that you have complained to the Trust. That's what my aunt did when our uncle passed and he had been treated appallingly and my Aunt still to this day says he passed because of the lack of care from the dr's & nurses. (He had diabeties and kidney failure). She felt it was the only way she would be listened to. You do what you need to do and you come back when your ready. As I said before we will be here waiting with open arms for you (Including the guys!) & Janet. Fuss to the big white dope, hope he's behaving himself and looking out for you! Hope Jan's ok , send her a BIG (((HUG))) from me, and a BIG (((HUG))) from me to you! You take care of YOURSELF that's more important than anything! Chat more when your ready, bubba.
    P.S Got Trademark on Bloke Friend! :wink:
  • jillyb1
    jillyb1 Member Posts: 1,725
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You've been sorely missed , Tony and Janet , Hope you've turned a corner and can move towards some happier times . Jillyb
  • SteveBurns
    SteveBurns Member Posts: 177
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Welcome back Tony I wish you would stop dancing though as you're wearing me out :D
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    cheers again one n all.. Steve, I'm afraid the dancing never ends lol.. Thanks rkid :D
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony looking forward to getting to know you..............Marie
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thanks hun :D
    villier wrote:
    Tony looking forward to getting to know you..............Marie
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tony,

    Nice to see you back. I bit like Jilly and look in but not been posting much but missed you about the place.

    It will get easier and in the mean time leaving you 2 kittens and the beagle :lol:

    A bucket of hopes and a load of sheep ridden ((((( ))))) and tea for you and Janet. Cris xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    It's been good to see you back. Just take your time though and pop in whenever you feel like it. Hope something good comes out of your putting in the complaint. You and Janet take care.
    Christine
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    sorry, only just spotted this :oops:
    Thank you girls :D

    I'm slowly making progress... X
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP