Everything is awful and I need a hug please...
Starburst
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Just like the title says. Too drained to explain, just need to feel less alone.
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Sophie!!
I am so sorry. It's Friday and I hope that means you can rest up over the weekend?
Big
((((()))))
For you
love
Toni xxx
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Mega hugs,am sending positive vibes.(((()))) Mig0
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Hope things are better for you tomorrow.
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Shula0 -
((((())))) DDHave you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0
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Here you are Sophie ((((((())))), and if you need any more you know were I am xxLove
Barbara0 -
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(((((())))))If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
Steven Wright0 -
Thinking of you lots and hoping things are less awful for you very soon.
Love and ((()))s
Tilly xxx0 -
(((()))) from me too!.....
We all need these now and again...and this is the place to find it!
Thinking of you! xRuby0 -
What a lovely, supportive bunch of special people you all are! Thank you so very much. I needed to feel less alone and I do. xxxx I had a good cry and then slept for 11 hours and mentally, I feel stronger.
I posted about this before but my mum had a tumour removed and they weren't sure if/how far it had spread, so she had half her colon removed last week. We're still waiting for the histology results and I've been mostly calm but last night I lost it. I was thinking about what if she needs chemo, what if she'll be really poorly, what if she dies and I ended up hysterical.
Yesterday, I finished my 12 week run of uni and placement, I was looking forward to my 2 week break but I am so worried about my mum, have a huge assignment to do and to top it all of, I'm in a horrible flare up. I just felt sad and angry. I wanted time to rest and relax, now I'm not sure it's going to happen.
Thank you for being there for me, it means more than words can describe.0 -
And some Yorkshire Blokey hugs from me too.
Best wishes to your mum, fingers are crossed hun.Me-Tony
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Hello Starburst
i'm so sorry you take care and have plenty of rest.
((((((((starburst))))))))
joan xxtake care
joan xx0 -
Sorry you have been so upset. I hope your mum gets good results back and that you feel a bit better now and can manage your assignment. (((hugs)))Christine0
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I think anybody would need a good cry facing all that! I hope you are coping ok today, here's a big hug to help you ((((((((())))))))) it sounds as if you need to give yourself a bit of time and space from everything. Time to flop on the sofa in front of a Christmas film or two with lots of chocolate maybe? Take care sweetie, LV xxHey little fighter, things will get brighter0
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No wonder you're flaring, Sophie. Try to forget about the 'what ifs' - they just wear us out pointlessly. One day at a time. The assignment will go well - you have a good track record. ((()))If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
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Some more ((((())))) for you Sophie, keeping fingers crossed for your mum pet............tc.....................Marie xxSmile a while and while you smile
smile another smile and soon there
will be miles and miles of smiles
just because you smiled I wish your
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Hello Sophie. I hope things are a bit easier. I'm thinking of you. (())If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
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Me too Sophie
some spare (((()))) just incase they are still needed
love
Toni xx0 -
Hello my lovelies,
Well, my mum got all the clear. No tumours and no cancerous cells left, they got rid of all of it. Sometimes the NHS is very very good. I've cried happy tears all day.
It's a wonderful early Christmas present for us all. I've also decided to try and find a decent psychotherapist to help me cope with my anxiety and other challenging feelings.
Thank you for being there for me.
Sophie xx0 -
Awe Sophie
Fantastic news what a Christmas present made up for you and your mum, yes maybe a good psychotherapist will do you the world of good, although in my neck of the woods there is a six months waiting list hopefully not as long where you are................well my lovely you will sleep well tonight I'm sure....................tc.............Marie xxSmile a while and while you smile
smile another smile and soon there
will be miles and miles of smiles
just because you smiled I wish your
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Sophie I am so very pleased for you and your mum, now you take care of yourself...and have a lovely Christmas..all of you xxLove
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Brilliant news Sophie. The best Xmas present you could have. I'm sure you'll have a wonderful Xmas now.Christine0
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Excellent news, Sophie, and a good, practical plan for dealing with your anxiety. Don't forget we're here for you, tooIf at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
Steven Wright0
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