Everything is awful and I need a hug please...

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Starburst
Starburst Member Posts: 2,546
edited 19. Dec 2012, 10:43 in Community Chit-chat archive
Just like the title says. Too drained to explain, just need to feel less alone. :cry:

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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,430
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Sophie!!

    I am so sorry. It's Friday and I hope that means you can rest up over the weekend?

    Big

    ((((()))))
    For you

    love

    Toni xxx

    PS never alone with us lot :)
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Mega hugs,am sending positive vibes.(((()))) Mig
  • ShulaArcher
    ShulaArcher Member Posts: 174
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hope things are better for you tomorrow.

    (((((()))))))

    Shula
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    ((((())))) DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Here you are Sophie ((((((())))), and if you need any more you know were I am xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    you only have to ask these lovely people and they give and give so sorry bit late getting to this was bloods day and takes quite a while.

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    val
    val
  • robertls
    robertls Member Posts: 2,304
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Well young lady..... c045.gif

    .....even though we've never been introduced... a015.gif .....

    If its a hug you need.... a055.gif ...

    Here's one.........from me to you.....
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  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,716
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    (((((())))))
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • tillytop
    tillytop Member Posts: 3,460
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Thinking of you lots and hoping things are less awful for you very soon.

    Love and ((()))s

    Tilly xxx
  • ruby2
    ruby2 Member Posts: 423
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    (((()))) from me too!.....

    We all need these now and again...and this is the place to find it!

    Thinking of you! x
    Ruby
  • Starburst
    Starburst Member Posts: 2,546
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    What a lovely, supportive bunch of special people you all are! Thank you so very much. I needed to feel less alone and I do. xxxx I had a good cry and then slept for 11 hours and mentally, I feel stronger.

    I posted about this before but my mum had a tumour removed and they weren't sure if/how far it had spread, so she had half her colon removed last week. We're still waiting for the histology results and I've been mostly calm but last night I lost it. I was thinking about what if she needs chemo, what if she'll be really poorly, what if she dies and I ended up hysterical.

    Yesterday, I finished my 12 week run of uni and placement, I was looking forward to my 2 week break but I am so worried about my mum, have a huge assignment to do and to top it all of, I'm in a horrible flare up. I just felt sad and angry. I wanted time to rest and relax, now I'm not sure it's going to happen.

    Thank you for being there for me, it means more than words can describe.
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    And some Yorkshire Blokey hugs from me too.
    :D
    Best wishes to your mum, fingers are crossed hun.
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  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 8,935
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hello Starburst
    i'm so sorry you take care and have plenty of rest.
    ((((((((starburst))))))))
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Sorry you have been so upset. I hope your mum gets good results back and that you feel a bit better now and can manage your assignment. (((hugs)))
    Christine
  • LignumVitae
    LignumVitae Member Posts: 1,972
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    I think anybody would need a good cry facing all that! I hope you are coping ok today, here's a big hug to help you ((((((((())))))))) it sounds as if you need to give yourself a bit of time and space from everything. Time to flop on the sofa in front of a Christmas film or two with lots of chocolate maybe? Take care sweetie, LV xx
    Hey little fighter, things will get brighter
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,716
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    No wonder you're flaring, Sophie. Try to forget about the 'what ifs' - they just wear us out pointlessly. One day at a time. The assignment will go well - you have a good track record. ((()))
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
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    Some more ((((())))) for you Sophie, keeping fingers crossed for your mum pet............tc.....................Marie xx
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,716
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hello Sophie. I hope things are a bit easier. I'm thinking of you. (())
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,430
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Me too Sophie

    some spare (((()))) just incase they are still needed

    love

    Toni xx
  • Starburst
    Starburst Member Posts: 2,546
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Hello my lovelies,

    Well, my mum got all the clear. No tumours and no cancerous cells left, they got rid of all of it. Sometimes the NHS is very very good. I've cried happy tears all day.

    It's a wonderful early Christmas present for us all. I've also decided to try and find a decent psychotherapist to help me cope with my anxiety and other challenging feelings.

    Thank you for being there for me.

    Sophie xx
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
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    Awe Sophie

    Fantastic news what a Christmas present made up for you and your mum, yes maybe a good psychotherapist will do you the world of good, although in my neck of the woods there is a six months waiting list hopefully not as long where you are................well my lovely you will sleep well tonight I'm sure....................tc.............Marie xx
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Sophie I am so very pleased for you and your mum, now you take care of yourself...and have a lovely Christmas..all of you xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Brilliant news Sophie. The best Xmas present you could have. I'm sure you'll have a wonderful Xmas now.
    Christine
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,430
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    My goodness me!!!

    Things have really improved for you Sophie I am so so pleased now you all have a fabulous Christmas

    Love

    Toni xx

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  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,716
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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    Excellent news, Sophie, and a good, practical plan for dealing with your anxiety. Don't forget we're here for you, too :)
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
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