just need positive thoughts

maria09
maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
edited 21. Jan 2013, 09:05 in Living with Arthritis archive
I know we all go through this but Im struggling physically & mentally
Wont bore you all with the details
Just need help to feel happy & positive again
Thank You
Maria
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  • Tubby
    Tubby Member Posts: 177
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I was in the same place a couple of weeks ago but I am out of the other side now. Sending lots of positive vibes. Things may look bad today but they will get better.
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sending good thoughts and hugs.Mig
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    This will pass because all things do but, alas, it seems that the rubbish stuff takes longer to pass than the good stuff. I'm sending as much positivity as I can and I hope things brighten up for you very soon. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    now buckey of hugs (((()))) check
    spare spoons check
    positive vibes check

    all coming your way val
    val
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sending some (((())))s Maria hope you get through this soon xx
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Feel free to 'bore' us with details if it helps, Maria. Plenty of positive vibes winging your way and a few of these. ((()))
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • GraceB
    GraceB Member Posts: 1,595
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Maria,
    It's hard isn't it when all life seems to do is to throw bad things your way? When you're in pain as well it just seems to be too much at times.

    Please just take one day at a time, listen to your body/joints and make sure you have some 'me time' even if this is only 10 minutes or so with a good book or something else that helps you to relax.

    Take care,
    GraceB
    Turn a negative into a positive!
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Lovey..we can all associate with this...sometimes its not just down to Arthritis...but other matters has well, but we are here if you need to talk...and here are some hugs (((((()))) xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • kentishlady
    kentishlady Member Posts: 809
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Maria. Most of us on here know the feeling only too well so am sending you lots of thoughts and very gently ((())). Take care of yourself. Beryl
  • Susiesoo
    Susiesoo Member Posts: 358
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Maria

    I hope you are feeling happier and more positive and that Christmas fills you with cheer.

    Thinking of you. Susie
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Maria09, I hope things have been a little better for you today. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • maria09
    maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you all so much for your kind words and thoughts
    Christmas was good did feel positive until something else happened to bring me straight back down again feel like my lifes a giant snakes and ladders game!
    My work contract ends in 2 months im still waiting to hear regarding my work pension ! So looks like another stressful start to the year!
    Hope this New Year is good for us all xx
  • kentishlady
    kentishlady Member Posts: 809
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Maria. Hope things will improve for you soon. We all know the feeling so do understand what you have been going through. Am glad you had a nice Christmas and hope the New Year will be good for you.

    Beryl.
  • mike26
    mike26 Member Posts: 416
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi maria 09
    yes maria things dont always go to plan ,but we start a new year
    so raise a glass (small red wine) and start again.best wishes mike26.
    :roll: :roll:
  • maria09
    maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Heres hoping to a better year
    Come to think of it I said that last year & the year before
    Can only hope so chink of glasses to a better year to all of us
    Maria
  • wall1409
    wall1409 Member Posts: 294
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Mega hugs Maria. You've got new year coming up so relax, chin up hun. You are never alone thanks to this website xxxx


    WENDY XXX
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Repeat after me, Maria:

    This is going to be a good year.
    This is going to be a good year.
    This is going to be a good year.
    This is going to be a good year.
    This is going to be a good year.

    And let's all drink to that :D
    (Make mine a white, please, Mike.)
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • mike26
    mike26 Member Posts: 416
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    think reds better 4 u stickywicket ,
    something to do with the flavering oids inthe grapes. :D:D :roll:
    mike26.
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Better for me? Bettter for me? I don't drink wine because it's good for me. I leave that to the meds. I drink wine because I like it :D I like a nice CB best but I don't discriminate and will happily slurp a red with you. Bottoms up :wink:
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • Susiesoo
    Susiesoo Member Posts: 358
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Maria

    positive thoughts coming your way and a chink of glasses for a good 2013 for all of us.

    Happy New Year!

    Susie :)
  • kentishlady
    kentishlady Member Posts: 809
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Maria. Hope you are feeling a little brighter today. Have been thinking of you as I've been 'down in the dumps' over the last few days. Think we all need some brighter weather which might help just a little, although at the moment, it's not raining here!

    Take care of yourself.

    Beryl
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,169
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Maria.
    how are you feeling. try and have plenty of sit downs during the day.
    ((((((((maria))))))))
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • maria09
    maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you all for your replies
    I am now feeling positive As I have just found out I have got tier1 Ill health retirement :D
    All your positive vibes worked
    Thank you Thank you
    Keep warm & safe in this snowy weather
    Maria
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    That's very good news, Maria, and a great start to the year. I'm so pleased for you. Thanks for letting us know.
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • maria09
    maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thank you sticky
    :) How are you getting on :?:
    Maria

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