Hello everyone, I'm Merry xx
MerryChapman
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Hello!
I'm Merry and I'm 34. I was born with CDH and now have OA in my left hip as a result. I'm looking for somewhere where I can be honest about feelings, worries etc without burdening friends and families - are the forums a good place for this?
I also feel a bit isolated at times and would love to get to others in a similar situation.
Hope to hear from people soon.
Merry xxxx
I'm Merry and I'm 34. I was born with CDH and now have OA in my left hip as a result. I'm looking for somewhere where I can be honest about feelings, worries etc without burdening friends and families - are the forums a good place for this?
I also feel a bit isolated at times and would love to get to others in a similar situation.
Hope to hear from people soon.
Merry xxxx
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Hello Merry. It's lovely to meet you and you've come to exactly the right place.
We don't always like to be burdening our families with every ache and pain and here is a safe place to share them with people who do understand. Sometimes it's just the little things that combine and build up into one big thing, isn't it? In fact, sometimes we manage to struggle on for so long with the big stuff, it's actually something minor that takes us unawares and floors us temporarily :roll:
I hope you'll find us very supportive and encouragingIf at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
Steven Wright0 -
Hi and welcome. The forum is a great place to chat with others who understand the pain and frustration.
Take care0 -
Hello Merry (what a lovely name!) you are indeed in the right place to be listened too and to listen in return. We do understand what it's like, how difficult things can be with friends and family and, as you get to know the forum, you will see how regularly that topic crops up. I have an arthritic foot in both arthritis camps, I have an auto-immune one and that has led to OA in my ankles, knees and now my right hip. YUK. DDHave you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0
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Hello Merry and welcome to the forum. You have definitely chosen to come to the right place for advice and support you may need. None of us bite!! We all understand what it is like to be living with arthritis in all its varying forms.
Shall hope to see you around whenever you feel like dropping in on us all.
Beryl.0 -
Hello Merry
Yes, this is the place to come to for a shoulder to cry on, advice, support, etc, etc. Welcome and feel free . . .
Shula0 -
Welome Merry,
You have come to a fabulous place, I have only been around a few months and have had so much help and support which has been second to none....... we all live with chronic pain regardless of what Arthur we have, a lot of us have also got other conditions to contend with as well............ there are a lot of knowledgable and I must say very humerous people which sometimes puts a lighter slant on things and as they say laughter is the best medicine............. hope to see you around............tc...............Marie xSmile a while and while you smile
smile another smile and soon there
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hi from me too. Glad you've found us. .
Hope you settle in nicely.
Me-Tony
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Hi Merry
I too have CDH and my left hip went first to OA, and I had it replaced nearly 4 years ago. My right hip is on it`s way out now, and I am on the waiting list for another THR. But I am a bitolder than you at 44!
I have found this forum a God send when I am having a bad day, there is always someone with a comforting word and good advice.
Nice to have you on board x
NB0 -
Lovely to meet you Merry and welcome you to our lovely forums
Love
Toni xxx0 -
Hello Merry
And a warm welcome from me,you are right about talking to people that understand and that is what we do...but I always say we understand some of what you are going through...
I hope to see you posting more very soon xLove
Barbara0 -
Hi Merry, Welcome to the forum. You have came to a lovely place with lovely people
Eileen xx0 -
Hi all,
Thank you for the lovely welcome xxx
I've had a difficult and fairly stiff few months since my youngest daughter was born in August so I'm sure I'll be venting soon!
Nearlybionic, do you mind me asking what age you were when you had they THR on your left hip and what state your leg was in after the CDH hips? Xxx
Did anyone hear the radio 4 programme on disability and relationships called "My Lover, My Carer"?
Merry xx0 -
Sorry nearlybionic, I've just re-read your post and you had your THR nearly four years ago - teaches me to read properly! But I would like to hear more about your CDH xxx0
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MerryChapman wrote:Hi all,
Thank you for the lovely welcome xxx
Did anyone hear the radio 4 programme on disability and relationships called "My Lover, My Carer"?
Merry xx
A pleasure Merry
and No I missed that programme was it any good?
Love
Toni xx0 -
Hi Toni,
It was very interesting - it was about relationships but from both sides. It also looked at it from the point of view of people who had been perfectly healthy and then had accidents / developed issues and those who'd been born with disabilities. I wanted hubby to listen, but he wouldn't. He's really supportive on day to day issues so I can't knock him really. Xxxx0 -
hi merry
nice name and welcome to you, you found good place here
good bunch of people.
mike260 -
Hi Merry
I have had problems with my hips since my teens, but they started to get worse in my early 20`s. I had a lot of tests/x rays etc then but did not get a proper answer to my issues. In my late 30`s my left hip particularly became very painful,and I was struggling to walk or do anything at all. I had X rays which showed bilateral hip dysplasia and bone on bone OA in left hip. I was referred to a regional orthopaedic centre for my THR as I was told my hip was too complicated for my local hospital. I had my LTHR in Feb 2009.
I have had some problems since including a dislocation of the THR, and lumbar spine pain/sciatica. I am now having pain and poor mobility due to my right hip, which has deteriorated a lot over the past 9-12 months, and following Xrays/MRI`s have been listed for another THR.
I have had a limp for as long as I remember and low back pain, and hope one day to be without both!
Not sure if you wanted to know all that!!
NB0
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