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spoonful of memories
daffy2
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An old wooden spoon of mine has had a crack for a long time but today's washing up saw it finally split and so render itself unfit for further culinary duties.I realised what a lot of memories were attached to such a humble object. It started life with me as a student mid 70's, took up residence in the marital home a few years later, saw service with my 2 children, accompanied me to my new,single, home when my marriage ended, and will now be retired to the allotment to be used as a plant marker probably. It has that odd shape they get from constant use(I expect it's possible to tell I'm right handed from looking at that) and conjures up memories of shared student meals, OH grumbling because it wasn't the right shape for wok use, my daughter bashing anything within range, my son making tomato sauce wearing his swimming goggles against the onion fumes....
My daughter and ex would think this train of thought odd, my son would absolutely get it, bless him.
My daughter and ex would think this train of thought odd, my son would absolutely get it, bless him.
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Wooden spoons do curve and colour interestingly though. Unfortunately they do also 'thin out'. Yours has, as my old Mum would have said 'done good service'. It was her highest accolade for both things and people
I find them comforting, homely - Antony Powell wrote that 'books do furnish a room' I reckon that wooden spoons do furnish a kitchen. A friend sent me a lovely set of three for Christmas 2011, they are now fully used and 'abused' but they remind me of her everytime I use them - and I kept the reindeer ribbon that was used to tie them together. I'm getting better at throwing out redundant stuff but daffy, I would urge you not to relegate your spoon to the discomforts of the garden, keep it safe and warm in a drawer or utensil pot. It's served you well, now it's your turn to 'serve' it with a dollop of kindness. DD
PS I have a thing about wooden chopping boards too. My mum still has the bread board that she and daddy were given by one of his sisters when they married in December 1945.
I have a veg knife that my Beloved Godmother ( God rest her) bought me as part of a set when I was 18! The blade is now a funny shape from years of sharpening and I have bought several others over the years but I can't throw it out. Like your spoon, it's travelled with me to different houses and marriages and seen the birth of all my kids. It's handle is a bit mangled where my old dog had a bit of a chew once and along with all that history it is one of my most precious possessions! Is that sad or just sentimental? After all it's just a bit of plastic with a metal blade but my if it could talk!! Actually if it could talk it would have been thrown out years ago - it knows far too much :shock:
Love Kate x
I have quite a few things that hold lots of memory's the main one being a bottle opener...I am 62 and it was used st my 18th....then when we celebrated our sons being born...then our GC....I love the idea that your spoon will end up in the allotment...
Barbara
Funnily enough - I am still very very upset that some workman naffed off with my Dad's lumphammer
('specially as he isn't here to 'wear in' a new one :x )
Daffy2 I get it too
love
Toni xxx
Toni xxx
I am also guilty of having a nik-nak cabinet that is full of "memories" of family and friends and there is always something new being added, most recently a Grandma mug and a Grandad boxed zippo lighter from our gorgeous Granddaughter (first christmas presents form her, she's 8 months old and super cute).
Take care. Dee x
Yes to both questions. It will go to the shed to begin with, but it isn't relegation in my eyes as the allotment is essential to my sanity, and so it will just be accompanying a different part of my life!
It will be in good company as there is a small knife up there which reminds me of my FIL each time I use it - for some reason a vegetable knife which had the end of the blade broken off was not discarded but he used to sharpen it up regularly on the concrete coal bunker outside the kitchen door, and over the years the serrated edges got worn right down and the end smoothed off, and it was always very sharp. I also keep it sharp and find it useful for cutting veg, especially asparagus.
DD I think some chaps do harbour feelings for significant first tools, but being male don't like to say so. Gardeners and carpenters have been known to open up on the subject of 'grandad's tools' on TV though.