Yippeee yeah moving day!!
CJHunter
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Hello all you lovely people.
Am so sorry I have not been in touch and kept in touch with you guys. Its been a bit manic this end, so let me tell you my story eh ??
Once upon a time........
We decided to put our house on the market due to homophobic abuse from the prison officer neighbour who had recently moved in with in laws. For 7 years all had been fine until we objected to a monstrosity of an extension being proposed looking directly into our home. We duly objected as advised by the local planning officer and after that the real feelings about mine and Julies relationship started to manifest itself.
The final straw was when this oaf of a prison officer came over ours and assaulted me, not only did her scare me he hurt my bl**dy already painful shoulder. The police were totally and utterly useless but hey they look after their own don't they, oops did I say that out loud; naughty me!!
We managed to get a buyer and find a property. All was going a okay until a day before exchange the old woman we were buying from pulled the plug and decided she wasn ready to move, OMG what do we do were our initial thoughts. Do we stay and suffer them or do we go and rent until we sort ourselves out?
Ju phoned a friend to tell her what had happened and out of the blue she suggested that we sell and move in with her and her husband until we found elsewhere. We jumped at the chance and although it has not always been easy we are finally getting to the end.
On Wed this week we are supposed to be getting the keys and Thurs moving our bits we have with us in and camping rough for a week until we get our stuff delivered from storage.
The downside of all of this is that we have had to have our cats stay in a cattery and although we visit twice a week and the cattery is fantastic it has not been easy for them either.
An upside is that although my body and mind has been through hell I am now on new meds, (Humira) which at he mo has been my wonder drug not only for my bones but my skin has improved 95% too.
So that is the main reasoning for not being about. I hope you have all been as well as can be. I will resume normality soon!!! (yeah right )
I hope you have liked my story , take care all you lovely peeps. xxxx
Am so sorry I have not been in touch and kept in touch with you guys. Its been a bit manic this end, so let me tell you my story eh ??
Once upon a time........
We decided to put our house on the market due to homophobic abuse from the prison officer neighbour who had recently moved in with in laws. For 7 years all had been fine until we objected to a monstrosity of an extension being proposed looking directly into our home. We duly objected as advised by the local planning officer and after that the real feelings about mine and Julies relationship started to manifest itself.
The final straw was when this oaf of a prison officer came over ours and assaulted me, not only did her scare me he hurt my bl**dy already painful shoulder. The police were totally and utterly useless but hey they look after their own don't they, oops did I say that out loud; naughty me!!
We managed to get a buyer and find a property. All was going a okay until a day before exchange the old woman we were buying from pulled the plug and decided she wasn ready to move, OMG what do we do were our initial thoughts. Do we stay and suffer them or do we go and rent until we sort ourselves out?
Ju phoned a friend to tell her what had happened and out of the blue she suggested that we sell and move in with her and her husband until we found elsewhere. We jumped at the chance and although it has not always been easy we are finally getting to the end.
On Wed this week we are supposed to be getting the keys and Thurs moving our bits we have with us in and camping rough for a week until we get our stuff delivered from storage.
The downside of all of this is that we have had to have our cats stay in a cattery and although we visit twice a week and the cattery is fantastic it has not been easy for them either.
An upside is that although my body and mind has been through hell I am now on new meds, (Humira) which at he mo has been my wonder drug not only for my bones but my skin has improved 95% too.
So that is the main reasoning for not being about. I hope you have all been as well as can be. I will resume normality soon!!! (yeah right )
I hope you have liked my story , take care all you lovely peeps. xxxx
Clare xx
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Hi Happy moving
We had to move due to having neighbours from hell
We left a lovely large four bedroomed semi to a small detached house at twice the price but I always said after that dreadful experience I always said I'd never live in a semi again as you never know who will move in and your story proved it! What a nasty evil man he was I'm trying to be polite here
Its time for a new start and I hope all goes well for you
We have been in our house now 15 years and can still remember what it was like living next to the low life's!
Here's to a peaceful life
Maria0 -
And about time to Clare... I was wondering how you had got on...what a lot of messing about for you both...and I agree they do look out for there own...I hope you are bringing a civil action...the nasty piece of work... :shock: now when you are settled I want a pic..and I bet your cats will be over the moon when you pick them up... you take care and good luck with the meds.xLove
Barbara0 -
Good luck to both of you and the cats too.Hope the meds continue to work for you. Mig0
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Lovely to see you, Clare. You've been through a lot of hassle. I hope things are better for you now.If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
Steven Wright0 -
Thanks guys xxClare xx0
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The house next door is rented out and we have had a mix of neighbours. Luckily we have a lovely family at the moment so much so if they ever have to leave I'd consider paying their rent! There is no price on peace.
Definately agree with you carrying on with the sale as the priority was to get away from that madman as soon as possible.
Take your time buying the next property. Cash is King as Phil Spencer would say.
All the best
Elizabeth xNever be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein0 -
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Well HELLO Clare
Lovely to see you and hear your fantastic news!
Health and house-wise.
Hope it all goes swimmingly for you both. say hi to Ju for me
Love and ((()))
Toni xxx0 -
What a dreadful thing to happen. I think you did the right thing selling while you had a buyer. How lovely of your friend to let you stay. Hope you will both be very happy in your new home. Bet the cats will be over the moon to be back with you.Christine0
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Hi
Happy moving
Let us know how you get on
As the saying goes onwards and upwards
Maria0 -
Hi Clare I hope it has all gone or going well..have you got your cats home yet... they will have to get used to there new neighbourhood... xLove
Barbara0
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