Need help with Medicine decision

I have been diagnosed with Early rheumatoid arthritis and I have been taking sulfasalazine but the specialist thinks I need to change medication and is suggesting methotrexate or leflunomide and I have read up about the side effects and the words 'cancer treatment' are scaring the hell out of me. 'Hair loss' 'can cause birth defects' are the main concerns. I may not be actively trying for a baby but I am 31 and I have an 11 year old, I have been with my partner a long time (over 10 years) and now we are starting to talk about potentially having a baby. I feel if I start any of these, my body clock is just going to run out and I will not have any luck. And losing my hair is something I never want to happen. Very superficial I know but my hair is like my security blanket so I am finding it really difficult. Please help me and let me know how "common" hair loss is. And the common side effects people have experienced.. And also the success rate of conception after the medication.

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