not enough engery to see daniel craig.... or do i? (rant)

suziev
suziev Member Posts: 252
edited 12. Jan 2009, 14:29 in Living with Arthritis archive
hello to all out there

just wondered if there is anybody out there that has the engery to go to the pics after looking after a house, 2 kids ( 3 years old and 7 month old) sorting dinner and then cook tea??????
hubby wants to take me out and am just too tried to go, i've missed a couple of nights out at christmas because i felt like i couldn't be arsed which isn't like me. i would like to say at this point that hubby is very good and helps with the kids, dinner and tea, there is nothing more that he can do other than find a magic pill for me to take!
i would dearly love to go see daniel craig's new film after all i would love to lose myself in those blue eyes of his BUT is this going to put the washing in the airing cupboard? is this going to get the kids clothes sorted for tomorrow?

am no fun to be with and all i want is my bed......with daniel craig in it! i bet i could find some energy then :lol::lol:

right rant over
suzie

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  • katekelly
    katekelly Member Posts: 975
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I had a good moan to my Hubby about not going out and so we decided we would go to the pictures. The day arrived and I felt so awful but after I'd kicked up such a stink I didn't dare say anything. So off we went to see "The day the earth stood still". I tell you something it was so loud it would have woken the dead!!! Afterwards because my ears were ringing so bad I was really awake so we even went to the pub for a drink so although it was a real effort to go it was worth it!!!
  • oneday
    oneday Member Posts: 1,434
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dont get cut up about it....by the time you have done housework and looked after kids its tiring never mind if arthur is joining in.....next time you do feel well to go out look around you!!..most people arein 20s arent they i.e. no house,kids etc.so loads of energy to go out!!!!!!
    I just used to think when i was in my 20s perhaps older people may just be boring but now realise its cos we are knackered.!!!!
    wait while summer and its nicer to go out.
  • mash65
    mash65 Bots Posts: 834
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    i just look at tv think would love to see that,but now think i'll wait til its on telly.then i can have a hot bath, curl upon sofa & watch it in comfort of my own home.
    i used to moan about my parents never coming to see us(they got arthr)now i appoligies to them cause now i realise why they couldnt visit.
    iv put off going out loads,but if i do manage it(maybe once or twice a yr)i do enjoy it.but pay for it afterwards ouch!!!life is for living so do as much living as u can.long time dead as i say.debs
  • colinone
    colinone Member Posts: 1,039
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    suziev wrote:
    hello to all out there

    just wondered if there is anybody out there that has the engery to go to the pics after looking after a house, 2 kids ( 3 years old and 7 month old) sorting dinner and then cook tea??????
    hubby wants to take me out and am just too tried to go, i've missed a couple of nights out at christmas because i felt like i couldn't be arsed which isn't like me. i would like to say at this point that hubby is very good and helps with the kids, dinner and tea, there is nothing more that he can do other than find a magic pill for me to take!
    i would dearly love to go see daniel craig's new film after all i would love to lose myself in those blue eyes of his BUT is this going to put the washing in the airing cupboard? is this going to get the kids clothes sorted for tomorrow?

    am no fun to be with and all i want is my bed......with daniel craig in it! i bet i could find some energy then :lol::lol:

    right rant over
    suzie

    Hi Suzie now this is from a guys point of view, Its good to have a change and do something different. I know your not well and dont feel good, i know you have the house and the kids to sort out and i understand how hard it is coping when your not well. I understand the need and compulsion to put the clothes in the airing cuboard and get the kids clothes ready for the next day its all understandable. But who the hell is this Daniel Craig fellow.
    Take care and do try get yourself a night out away from the kids the house and the chores
    Colin
  • suziev
    suziev Member Posts: 252
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    colinone wrote:
    suziev wrote:
    hello to all out there

    just wondered if there is anybody out there that has the engery to go to the pics after looking after a house, 2 kids ( 3 years old and 7 month old) sorting dinner and then cook tea??????
    hubby wants to take me out and am just too tried to go, i've missed a couple of nights out at christmas because i felt like i couldn't be arsed which isn't like me. i would like to say at this point that hubby is very good and helps with the kids, dinner and tea, there is nothing more that he can do other than find a magic pill for me to take!
    i would dearly love to go see daniel craig's new film after all i would love to lose myself in those blue eyes of his BUT is this going to put the washing in the airing cupboard? is this going to get the kids clothes sorted for tomorrow?

    am no fun to be with and all i want is my bed......with daniel craig in it! i bet i could find some energy then :lol::lol:

    right rant over
    suzie

    Hi Suzie now this is from a guys point of view, Its good to have a change and do something different. I know your not well and dont feel good, i know you have the house and the kids to sort out and i understand how hard it is coping when your not well. I understand the need and compulsion to put the clothes in the airing cuboard and get the kids clothes ready for the next day its all understandable. But who the hell is this Daniel Craig fellow.
    Take care and do try get yourself a night out away from the kids the house and the chores
    Colin

    thank you colin i do hope your joking about daniel craig!!

    thanks everyone for your posts, i am booking a babysitter for this weekend and i will be going out no matter how i feel!

    suziex
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Suzie,

    I'm glad you're booking the babysitter.

    Over the years I too have had this battle but 9 times out of 10 if my husband has wanted to go out, even if it's the last thing in the world that I want to do, I grit my teeth and go. It's far easier to give in to this disease than it is to make yourself do something. Very often I've found that once I've made that supreme effort and found the strength from somewhere it's worth it even if it's for his sake not mine.

    Luv Legs :D
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • livinglegend
    livinglegend Member Posts: 1,425
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    suziev wrote:
    i would dearly love to go see daniel craig's new film after all i would love to lose myself in those blue eyes of his BUT is this going to put the washing in the airing cupboard? is this going to get the kids clothes sorted for tomorrow?

    am no fun to be with and all i want is my bed......with daniel craig in it! i bet i could find some energy then :lol::lol: suzie

    Stock up on painkillers and go see Daniel Craig's new film. :lol::lol::lol:

    You and hubby have a tease and a laugh while loading the airing cupboard when you get back and tell the kids its an adventure to wear the same clothes for two days in a row. :P

    All work and no play makes Suzie ......... (fill in with appropriate insults.) :roll:

    Joseph 8)
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