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this morning i took D shopping with me, and he never stopped talking about t***s the t*** from the time we left till the time we got home, :roll: :roll:



even when i was driving the car, i was really trying to concentrate but it was very difficult, you could say he was so switched off, and in his own world he wasnt caring, typical of him and his autistic behavior, anyway while in the shoe shop as i had to get D some new slippers and myself some trying to get anything done was difficult and i remember thinking i wished i go by myself,

anyway got his slippers and then said to him he could sit on my scooter and look after it, and thankfully he was happy, so i got some help from an assistant for my slippers while D was happy, and even managed a bit of conversation as well, and i was telling that i had arthritis and she was very sympathetic and i enjoyed the chat.
anyway after that we both decided we had enough and came home, and as he knew his way from the garage that the car was kept in and was safe, i said off you go to the house D
i was glad to get home.
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him to be any different well, maybe i just settle for a little less t and t but to be honest one of my biggest worries is getting people to understand how much help he will need in life, which is why years down the line we might have to consider moving south for D and my benifit as i really dont think there will be the help for him here, and besides ok living down south is not like living here, but it does have draw backs, still 3 weeks left of the summer hols D goes back on the 17 th august, made it this far i can survive a little longer, you know what they say " survival of the fittest" well i know thats not strickly true but if i can live with arthur i can live with D thats the easy bit, and i think its all for a reason.
its a long way away and besides we have to really think it through before we did it anyway, anyway me and hubby have family members living south so we see how things go over the years, anyway i am not going anywhere for years yet, but you have to think about your kids and especially as D a very special boy.
Life is tough isnt it? Yesterday i dropped and smashed a bowl by mistake and Dan got upset and started carrying plates out into the garden to smash. Managed to stop that but later he tried to chop our washing line in half so now it is hanging by a thread!
All because I dropped a bowl!
Today he went to RAF Hendon with the school and started to jive with one of the band!
Elizabeth
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein
Does D get to watch Thomas on the TV in the morning? 8.30 on channel 5 here.
Elizabeth
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein
i agree it is quiet here but because of that bit of water between us it can make life harder, and i cant do anything yet but when i come back from my holiday in farr near inverness, cant get internet access or mobile signal unless you go to inverness as it is in the middle of no where, along a single track road, but people treat the road as a 2 way road and go fast along there
Elizabeth
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
Harvey Fierstein
S's specialised topics are TV idents and logos eg "BBC1 standing stone, 1996, looks like big stones and orange night sky ..." and the Powergen characters from ITV weather reports years ago .. eg "Aurora is hot and sunny and summer and dancing in the sun ..." So kind-of know what you mean ... he loves talking about all this stuff on his electronic communication aid. So I do know what you mean. When they first start talking about this sort of stuff we are delighted ... but over the years the novelty wears off!!
Footwear shopping with children (especially extra special ones) can be stressful though - so sounds like it was a successful trip despite your need for a change of topic!
Speedy