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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) I hope it’s not too noisy next door for you today. Have a good day
Toni (()) how is your shoulder doing. The gas man is coming this afternoon for the service. Have a good day. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) I hope your mum (()) gets on alright have a good day take care
take care
joan xx0 -
morning Toni
Wppl xx
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hi Toni
How are you this afternoon?
Mums ok 👍
She had her blood test early this morning
I’ve written one of the poems I had in mind but haven’t typed it up
So it’s definitely in the bank
No dodgy post dated cheques required lol
Mum had a blood test early this morning
I did manage to get some of the sleep back but not all
So I must admit I had a Cornish pasty
But I haven’t had once since the great Dino scone fight of prehistoric times so it could be worse
Thermostat wars are on, mum was coughing so I put heating up
Now I’ve discreetly re - adjusted temperature 🤫
Ok tidying up and shower duties
👋 toady and Joan
Bye for now all tc xx
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Hi all 👋 ooh, tired today 😣 not sure why, haven't done much. Maybe the extra work and painting, sometimes I find you get away with a bit of exertion for a while then it sends the bill in later. Anyway quiet today mostly & not much rain even though they said it would be, so yes Sleek got here with even a bit of sunshine to play with frog and has been very industrious. Yes of course a kennel is a fine idea 👍 I have myself 'rehomed' a snail and a beetle today from indoors to out, and a small spider that was living in a rolled up rug and thought it was onto a very good thing no doubt. I have another little resident speckly one strung across the lower pane of glass of my inner front door, haven't the heart to move him we have little chats, who needs virtual pets 😂. I will try and fish out mine, it was a keyring type possibly a woolworthsy copy I think 🤔 see what state it's in. I love Cris keeping a phone for hers specially, well we do these things don't we. The small room is indeed perfect for small cats, all mod cons I am even working on a way to get the phone line in there via a WiFi dongle, til then she'll manage on her mobile I'm sure 😀. Any suggestions as to further amenities welcome, I have hardly touched my catazon prime yet. Hope your silent rain isn't sneaking in anywhere - love to all :) xx
Hello Joan, hardly any noise today thank you, they just did a bit in the afternoon and that wasn't too bad 👍. Should have a couple of fine days if we're lucky. I need to do a grocery shop soon they feel taking things away from stock permanently I find in fresco these days, like their beetroot that isn't in vinegar, rather annoying 🙄. Have a good evening:) xx
Hi bosh, hope you are winning the thermostat wars by stealth 🕵️ I can't decide if I'm hold or cold this evening. I have just bought a new jumper from 'the house of nosegay' naturally 😉 this hardly counts as news, well not good news anyway for me, winter clothes 😱. Glad you got a bit of sleep back and hope that plus Cornish pasty was a helpful combo 👍️. I have just had a tea and a modest piece of cake, no idea what that constitutes, sevenses? anyway who cares at the moment now is not the time to be fussy about mealtimes. Will probably be R Brek and an early night for me, hope you have a good night yourself and your mum doesn't have to wait too long for her tests back 🤞 :) xx
Hope everyone else ok at the moment, Colin @Arthritic_Adventures and @sandeelilly, how are you doing? Thinking of everyone not here currently 😘 xx
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hi Toni and toady
This is the poem I wrote, it’s called “Write” 🙏
I write - it’s sustains me
When life seems to drain me
I put pen to paper to cleanse my mind
Leaving the insecurities of the day behind
I don’t seek vengeance, I write it down
When all you see on my face is a slight or moderate frown
My vitriol, my passion, my hate, it’s all on the page
While everything you touch is like molten lava, from your rage
You don’t need to buy me flowers or tell me what do you think I want to hear
I’m at long last last self-contained, while you choose to drown your sorrows in beer2 -
hi Joan
How are you?
Thanks about mum
Hope you have a good night
Bye for now tc xx
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hi toady
Stealth indeed,
I like it
Mainly losing, but never mind lol
Sevenses, I like that too haha
What about a veggie Cornish pasty combined with R Brek?
Just don’t tell the physio
Have a good night toady tc xx
ps a nice staircase substitute for you lol xx
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Morning Joan how are you today? Did your service go ok for your gas? I know Barbara wishes her husband could do it for you bless her. Thanks for asking my shoulder is still pretty sore not sure what if anything to do about it. I have restarted the physio exercises properly so we'll see. Makes everything quite difficult being right handed😕 Better stop moaning hand't I did at least manage this ready for the baby
Might add name weight and date of birth as and when we know those details. Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi
Your Mum isn't 100% yet then still coughing? Glad the blood test is over with for her hope the tweak in meds has helped. Thermostat up thermostat down. Frustrating really for you. Will your Mum not add a blanket to her lap that's what we do because you do get colder when you sit still.
It is actually not raining here and today i am right. Well at least so far.
Not sure I blame you having a pasty. I rarely eat pastry but sometimes as you know enjoy a vegan sausage roll or vegan steak bake from dreggs. Once in a while won't hurt you - some people eat them daily!
Your poem is close on one of your very best Reshmi. This one you have given a lot of yourself thank you so much for making the withdrawal and letting us read it.
Is it group for you today? I hope so you can get out in some cooler air away from the oppressive heating at home.
Take care my friend I do hope you have a good day ((())) xxx
Morning Toady
I hope you feel much less tired today yes you do sometimes pay the bill a while later for overdoing it I agree.
Sleek does seem very proud of her handywork says she's leant a lot from you. Well she hasn't learnt much from Paul. Finally got a lock on the bathroom door after maybe 3/4 years the other day. I refused to let his family come unless he did it! Our doors are lovely wood unpainted and I would have done it myself only he is very protective of the doors so didn't dare. They are also quite high up out of babies and then small children's reach😊
What do you think of the bib I cross stitched for our imminent arrival? It's in my post to Joan.
The small bedroom - improvements? Well not much more if you've added a comfy (fluff collecting) blankie on the bed? Sleek also likes a pillow/cushion underneath the bed if the bed has an underneath. A good place to hide from workmen or vet visits😉
If your 'new' speckly doesn't come inside the house then that's fine keep him. He doesn't need walking, expensive food or even vet visits! Not sure about the one who took up residence in your rug though!!! I had Daddy long legs in my bedroom this very morning. Went to get the sp***r catcher think when I got back he was IN the bed! He has now been rehomed outside, luckily it's not raining. Extra lucky it's dry actually as l am walking with Kari before the foodbank. this morning.
Cris is as soft as we are bless her. Maybe you'd do well not to start up another Tamagotchi my Pou does sometimes feel a good deal of responsibility. He gets ill if I don't look after him😣
Well better get on Have a good day.
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good morning everyone
Wppl xx
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) I hope you manage to get everything you want in your delivery. Yes it’s going to be fine for a few days but cold. Have a good day
Toni (()) yes the gas man came it was only a service check. I think muscle’s take a long time to get right again and you have to work through the pain I remember him saying to me. Your sewing is lovely. Not too long now. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) how is your mum (()) to day I like cheese and onion pasty. Have a good day
take care
joan xx0 -
hi Toni
How are you today?
Lovely embroidery 👍
Must be exciting that the baby is due soon
Mum is ok 👍
She has a cough but not a full on virus like before
Thanks about poem 🙏
New cleaners
Went to group 👍
Must “ablute” - I invented a verb lol
Before the window of ablutions closes forever
Another poem is in my mind about the littleys
👋 Joan
How are you?
Cheese and onion pasty sounds very yummy lol
👋greetings toady
Bye for now all tc xx
Ps some nice British decisiveness lol xx
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hi again Toni
I’m afraid I’m fighting a losing battle against the thermostat today, but mum is in a bit of a strop, so dare not apply my stealthy tactics lol
So I’m just writing whatever comes into my head as I’m too tired to read back again, sorry about that
RR told me in the group that he’s written some short stories on the bus soon and he’s sending them to a publisher soon to try and get them published, I know he’s a professional artist of course but this is the first I’ve heard of his “literary credentials” lol - he seemed very sure that the publisher will welcome his work with open arms haha
I was on the verge of telling him that becoming a published author might not be as straightforward as all that
I’m really not to sure what he writes about and also how much of a great writer he can be if he only writes on the bus haha
I wonder what his subject matter is, bosh ate a Cornish pasty yesterday, toady ate R Brek at a very unladylike hour, LA had polished off all the giant chocolate buttons, so he had to have cornflakes for breakfast, something fascinating like that I’m sure, Balzac would be turning in his grave really.
Internet may be working properly tomorrow, according to the internet provider- but they have been known to tell (hopefully vegan) porkie pies from dreggs (great rhyme by the way) - I will keep you informed
I think I’ll stop there Toni
Have a good night and take care xx
Ps special tea party lol xx
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Hi all - not much better a day I must say - lots of little frustrations and not the best night last night either, lots of dreams etc. Noise next door up to a point, ran into a hitch with my new telephone & practically chucked the thing in the bin by the end of it 😄 then went back to make a repeat purchase of some clothes I'd found on nosegay that was just what I wanted (ordered one to test), to find that having been up for years and plenty of stock, they had suddenly taken the lot down and sold them off as a wholesale joblot. Why me 🤷♀️. So have been on the internet far too much, no time for tamagotchis absolutely not frog 😱 there are enough ways to fritter my time away 😬. Meanwhile some of us have done beautiful productive work like cross-stitch 😍 gosh how lovely and you that doesn't even love sewing, I think that's fabulous 😊. And Paul has been stirred into action too 😄. Hope your day has gone well and food bank etc, it looks ok weatherwise the next few days, I must get out of the house even if just to wander round like a revenant while I take a hold of myself. Daddy longlegs yes they are definitely 'out there' aren't they, horrid little harbingers of autumn, and some of them indoors as well 😱 I had one in the kitchen but in the bed, eek no! Talking of which, an underbed blankie/cushion for Sleek, righto good idea 👍️ oh and fairylights, how did I forget fairylights? I have a solar vintage lightbulb but not much solar to be had soon 😕. I don't suppose you're an expert on curtain track hooks btw? one more thing on the list of annoyances.. Have a good night and take care of the shoulder :) xx
Hello Joan, I won't do my shop til Sunday at soonest and at this rate will be putting it off, some things just aren't coming into stock like dried milk powder, might not come in at all of course - can't wait forever 🤷♀️ tempting to change supermarket altogether. Hope you have had a good day glad your heating is ok. Reasonable bit of sun the next couple of days will make the best of the brightness while it lasts :) xx
Hi bosh I like 'ablute' 🚿👍️ and the window of ablutions too 😄. Glad you got to group today it was quite nice here really but the internet grabbed hold of me and sucked me in, mostly to no use whatsoever 🙄 hope your wifi behaving. Like Toni I love yesterday's poem, a very powerful thing is writing, and then turning that into a piece of work in turn, lovely use of language 😊. Hope your day has been ok and your mum is feeling not too bad. How is the coat situation with you at the moment for walking, what grade are we at? light medium heavy 😄 or some other particular category. If I go out tomorrow I shall have to decide on the day, with my British indecisiveness in full swing, I expect 😄 certainly turning a bit nippy but there should be some sun. Have a good night yourself send me some nice dreams if poss, last night's were not of the fairies and bunnies variety that's for sure 🙄 take care :) xx
Love to all 😘 xx
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hi toady
How are you?
Did the builders behave well today?
No unauthorised demands for R Brek with their Earl grey I hope?
You partook of sevenses? Well I won’t tell anyone lol
Are you a chocolate R Brek fan? Or is that a step too far perhaps?
It may involve boldly going where no toady has gone before and all that haha
At least you find yourself in a thermostat detente
LA said when he’ll be 7 he’ll be too old for cuddles - or “coggles”, but he was lying through his teeth and we both knew it lol
Have a good night toady tc xx
Ps more creepy gothic steps for you xx
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Morning Joan hope you and the dogs are well. Good that the heating is serviced hopefully you'll have a nice cosy winter this year🤞 Yes the physio says exercise and time should help (he said it's tendons?) but of course this is without any xrays or MRIs I am worried it's actually the arthritis😕 I really hate MRI scanners they make me so so panicky if my head is inside which it would have to be wouldn't it😕 Anyway enjoy this better weather Joan and take care ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi hope you and your Mum ok and that her cough goes away soon it must be annoying for her. Over-heating is definitely annoying for you though🙄
Well who knew that RR was a writer too! I hope you hadn't just told him about your poems? If so I suspect he is just copying you. I take it his bus journeys are fairly lengthy then? Who told him about your pasty😶 I must say though that man is a real character you did well to just listen and not comment about the likelihood of him being snapped up by a major publishing company.🤭
I'd love a littley ditty if the idea is in the bank no rush though.
Thank you and Joan too of course for your kind words about my sewing. It was something to do, but not good for my shoulder. The girls came over yesterday for a 'hospital bag' for when she is admitted. She will be in several days due to the diabetes, steroid injections for the baby and then the caesarean. Yes I am excited about it, but worry a bit too. That's just me I suppose.
Oh Reshmi something terrible is happening this afternoon! Help!!!! Yes I'm afraid it's the hairdressers for me😣Yes it is. Mind you I can't actually see too well out of my fringe so maybe not a bad thing this time.
I do hope your internet is really restored today (who are you with?) I love the idea of vegan porkie-pies😂
Ok wish me luck and of course when I come back I'll look 10 years younger far, far too young to be an imminent (or even eminent) Granny!!!
Have a good day my friend ((())) xxx
Morning Toady
Out today you must go looking like a revenant or not. Sleek will come along and hold your paw, walking next to you or if not she will happily ride in your cat bag, whichever suits you. She is so excited about the fairy lights for 'her' bedroom she reckons that will just be perfect and to please refer back to her 'mood board'?
What?!!! Honestly really nosegay seller!!! Our Toad needed those clothes what a pain in the rear. Maybe they'd had enough? I'm glad you are not going to waste time on a Tamagotchi they are really a big time waster. Time better spent on real things. Like trying to find more clothes to wear🙄🤬
Yes even Paul stirred to action! Well this here baby will be along before we know it and so I had to do something didn't I? The bib I had bought (it's a bib!) in France a while back and time was ticking…..Mum to be says yes please date and time of birth as well as name and weight to be added when we know the details. l don't think doing it is actually helping my shoulder even though l have only done a little each day and with a cushion under my arm too…..😕
Now I do know a bit about curtain hooks - for instance you can buy metal types which won't totally ruin the environment so much. What is going on with yours?
Yes a Daddy long legs climbing up the side onto my side!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! eeek! At least they are about unlike the bees/wasps and butterflies this year which has been dreadful.
Have a good day Toady ((())) xxx
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good morning Toni
Wppl xx
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) I’m sorry you have so many problems. I’ve never bought clothes on-line so I don’t know anything about that. Sorry about the noise in the night. What ever you do you have a problem somewhere. You need to start a new. Have a good day with out problems I hope.
Toni (()) I wish Charley and Annie all the best for the big day. Your fringe can’t look has bad as Claudia Winkleman’s. I’m sure she can’t see. Yes your whole body goes in a MRI machine I don’t like it when it seems close to your face. Did they tell you how long it would take to heal. Have a good day. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) have a good day and your mum (()) I hope she feels better soon xx
take care
joan xx0 -
Just had my flu & Covid booster. No effects of the jab
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hi Toni
How are you?
How was the HD experience?
Mums ok 👍
Was watching some tv with her
You don’t look like a granny anyway Toni 🤗
I’m running a bit behind on stuff
Internet provider is V***** Sacrifice Pedia
I’m ok thanks just in desperate need of ablutions
More later
Bye for now Toni tc xx
👋Greetings and salutations to Joan and toady
I think mum is feeling a bit better thanks
Bye for now everyone tc xx
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Hi
Does any of you do secondhand jigsaws?
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hi Stuartknee
Nice to meet you
Glad you had no side effects
Tc
bosh x
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Hi all 👋
I still have workmen next door would you believe, at this hour, drilling and shouting cheerily to one another 🤨 fun fun fun. Ah well have had a slightly better day, me and the scooter took some stuff to charity frog and went to Piddle, not much fun was had though and not much purchased today. Nice weather though have to get it while you can 😊. Sleek's fairy lights have been bought online & am still looking for the right little heater. The failed clothes shopping, yes that was so silly, they'd just sold one to me wouldn't you think that would give them fresh hope 😄 and they did sell in general I think, they weren't sitting there like a white elephant, just not enough obvs. Btw did you know that nosegay have done away with seller fees for private sellers altogether, having started with clothes? I have v mixed feelings about that, not so much about the amount I have paid them over the years, but because of all the time spent relisting things at certain times; now all listings could just roll on eternally in theory 🤷♀️. The curtain hooks I need are the hang off a track slider sort, that you then put the curtain hooks themselves in; don't suppose this is your specialist subject but if it is I will go into it further. A little French bib eh, splendide 😀 more work to go I see, oh dear, yes will have to be little & often. Lovely breakfast today thank you 😊 off to put the bins out & early to bed if poss, CH man may be coming Monday, 3 days to tidy 😬 can it be done 🤔. Have a good Friday and some sun I hope :) xx
Hello Joan, don't worry about me I have no more problems than anyone, less usually, I just complain more I expect 😄 they are only small silly things anyway I come in here and feel better for grumbling, then I am usually over them by bedtime 👍️. They weren't noisy in the night I just meant I didn't have a very good sleep, that's partly up to me too to have better habits 😳. I went to the shops today it was lovely weather I didn't see much to buy though. Hope you have a good night maybe you will go to town tomorrow as well, it should be fine :) xx
Hi bosh, thanks for last night's message, choc R brek is indeed a bridge too far for toads 😄. Well I've never tried it but I don't seem to fancy the idea. I don't have any of any sort at the moment til I do some shopping so the point is moot haha. No Earl Grey for the builders not likely, they are totally next door's responsibility, I suspect they must be mates in the trade of some sort or would have knocked off before this time - just my luck 🙄. Heating detente, well more of a stasis as far as it goes round here until the boilerman comes, I haven't put mine on at all yet. If there are any problems he can come and be the one to find them 😱🤞. Glad to hear your mum is feeling not too bad, have a good night yourself. Lovely pictures, love that window & teacup with apple & cinnamon 😊. Take care :) xx
Hello @Stuartknee nice to see you 👋 hope you're as well as possible, good that you've had no jab side-effects. I use to like the occasional jigsaw I don't seem to have the patience these days but I would do an interesting one maybe. Definitely not the challenging sort, the last time I started a difficult one it just took too much looking at concentration and my head didn't thank me for it. What type do you prefer? Have a good evening :) xx
Love to everyone 😘 xx
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hi
No, not really a jigsaw person unfortunately
Someone here is though, as far as I remember anyway, it might be toady
Have a good night tc
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hi toady
Glad to know you draw the line at chocolate R Brek
A small little poem here
Actually had to an emergency same day poem - payment that I’m not authorised to do
Don’t tell my (ex) - boss, thank you
It’s about the littleys and the waiting in the garden and on the steps are the true elements
By the way LA told his mummy that his packed lunch shouldn’t contain nuts as he has airborne nut allergies 😂😂
These kids do just pick up any phrase they hear don’t they?
Ok I am freezing on this room so will relocate asap
Have a good night toady tc xx
This poem by is called “The Waiters”
LA went to wait for Mima beside the flowers
But poor little LA, he was waiting there for hours
Then BR said, “Where is Mima? She’s my favourite aunt,
There’s no point in waiting for her beside the flowering plant
While mummy’s cooking, let’s put on our shoes and wait sitting on the steps by the door
And Big Brudder remember the chocolate coins for Mima, because that unfortunate auntie,she is as hungry as she is poor”1 -
Aw, the sadness, poor pitiful littleys 😧 an auntie that never comes and a penniless auntie at that. Even better to have a basis in fact, I can just picture the scene 🌻🌼🌷 😊. Well worth making this sweet little same-day withdrawal, I'm glad they let you 😄 not too many security checks I hope - 'please prove your ID, if you're a poet as you say, define an iambic pentameter please'. Have a good night, oh it's Toni who quite likes jigsaws I think, she does 'wasgij' puzzles etc - this is more my level, but she would probably like this too, quirky vintage motor and a nice stone wall 😀😄.
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