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Hi dachshund yeah I'm having a good week and thanks I get it fitted on the 19th of this month I hope everything is ok with you I hope you are having a good day.
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Hi all 👋 well what a nasty day compared to yesterday 🙄 properly cold & windy.
I was hoping for two good gardening days in a row frog but can't be helped, might be a couple of better ones to come. Just too windy to make it worth doing anything really, that won't keep, so washed my hair instead, which of course bore no resemblance to fun 😥. Glad to know Sleek has all the know-how for shed felting that I could possibly want 🤭 oh yes I have full feline liability insurance 😸 and strict safety procedures will be kept to of course 👍️. Not the day for it today but at least the tarp is doing a better job than the previous rustly plastic. Yes too much plant browsing will lead me into bad ways, I have virtuously resisted so far but will continue pondering a peony, are yours deciduous or tree? Silver sussex will be lovely I'm sure 😊. That's a lot of deer 😮😍 I count over a couple of dozen! amazing you must have been spellbound I would be. Hope you did get out ok yourself today too. I see that Elfie can get that tape measure round his middle about the same number of times I can 😂 hope he is happy with his 'tone' thanks to the yoga. Oh gosh I had only got as far as thinking was the imaging process itself low risk, I hadn't scaled the heights of thinking of actual procedures 😬 your poor Figgy friend, this is all the sort of thing you have to take into account don't you though. Why do people do things to themselves on purpose; tattoos of Feathers McGraw spring to mind, quite a thing apparently 🙄. Have a good evening :) xx
Hello Joan, I have been here a few years I try not to count 😬 it's too long for my liking, not what I intended but was scuppered by the worsening RA 🙄 the time to have moved was before that ideally. It's fatal to have a plan though isn't it because things happen. Yes I'm still a bit wrong as to the days, the only good thing is that it makes me a day in hand sort of because it's not as much of the week gone as I think 😄. Have a good evening 😘 xx
Hi bosh thank you for the toady/fairy, I am not feeling very fairylike it was a bit of a disturbed night but I should have gone to bed sooner so partly my fault, I was having tea about 4am. Sorry you are tired as well from maybe the iron, 🤔 will be interesting to see what they say. Sounds like your mum's doing very very well taking the initiative with her gp & everyone 👍️ hope that all pays off. Group tomorrow for you maybe (see I can remember it's Tuesday today, with a bit of effort), or at least a walk. Ok so your Dad is warming up a watch 🤨 that sounds like something I would do 😳 I hope it had the desired result 😬. Not a good tech day for me, my nosegay app needs updating but I remember all too well that this was the most recent version I could get away with on my android version last time, so basically my phone has to go too or I live without the app 🙄. Hope you have a good evening with the temps not yoyo-ing too much 🤞 oh yes the mima face watching sorry, I muddled all my BR idiosyncracies in together there it didn't come out right. Bye for now :) xx
Glad your animals get on pretty much Jojo. My neighbour ended up with her daughters cat because they got dogs and it was miserable, the cat was a real hunter so I could have done without it here - it was good of her to give it a better life but shame it wasn't a soppy old thing instead. Have a good evening glad you & husband are off at the same time does that take a bit of sorting or are holiday schedules not too bad. xx
Love to Stuart & all 😘 xx
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hi Toni
Good evening
How are you?
Mums ok thanks 👍
Yes it’s getting a bit Dubai - ish lol☀️
What a lovely goblin, lol, not scary
I wonder how many toasts he eats in the morning?
Yes mums sensible and strong 💪
Sorry I’m a bit crackered
More later bye for now tc xx
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Hi toady yeah it can be hard getting holidays together we had to change mine to April from the end of May because my husband couldn't get his time off with me but we've worked it all out now for this year. I hope you are ok and having a good evening.
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hi again Toni
I’ve lost the thermostat wars and poor mums been through so much so much I’m not doing the ninja sabotage right now also she’s been feeling dizzy which is probably a side effect of the medication, but she needs the nurse to get back to her
My stomach is very ookey 🤢🤢
Sorry Toni tonight I’ve invented the cracker lol
Have a good night tc xx
👋 Joan S knee etc
How are you both?
👋 Jojo
How are you?
I’m very tired today
👋greetings toady
How are you?
My dad said a person who can use both hands the same is amphi - dextrous 😂😂
Sorry very crackered
Living with the ginger nut or that Pater - nut or something lol
Mum was dizzy
Bit of a difficult day
Have a good night all tc xx
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Hi bosh I know that feeling I've been feeling really tired today I managed to push on and do morning school run and afternoon school run I'm off too bed now hope you get some sleep.
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Morning Joan hope you are doing ok today. Thanks for asking Lucy's shoulder is doing really well she doesn't seem to have any trouble with it at all bless her long may it last eh? Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Jojo how lovely a week 'off' together just the children to see to before and after school. Cats do choose their 'person' they absolutely do. I am my cat's too. It's an honour.
I had an ambulatory EEG twice once 20 years ago when I was having chest pains (after my Dad died so probably stress) it was 3 days and I didn't have a single turn!!! The last time was last year after I had a TIA that was fine it was on 48 hours I think if i remember. I think you should at least go into work for some shopping anything at all that might set one off. ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi how are you doing today? I hope your Mum had some good advice for her diabetes with her new medication. Is she still dizzy? That must have been quite a worry. I really hope you'll be telling us all is well today.
Hmmmm…. I expect that goblin, being somewhat rotund, eats at least 4 slices of toast don't you? He was quite sweet looking though I agree.
Is it still Dubai-esque in Reading? I do hope not although older people can get a bit chilly. Maybe you will have to start wearing summer clothes indoors! Then they might see just how warm you are🤭
But not for the group get yourself off there for some cooler air and some alternative company. It will do you good. You have spent a long time looking after and worrying about your lovely Mum, but you are important too.
When are your bloods? That iron level definitely needs checking.
Take care my friend ((())) xxx
Morning Toady
Hope all is well and not too much had been purchased due to enforced insideness. New word. Put it in the dictionary. My peonies ate deciduous. Shall I go for my shrubs do you think then?
Sleek is looking into hiring a cherry picker for the shed she reckons it's the best idea and has helped herself to Paul's harness too hope he doesn't need it!. I think that might be overkill myself. Still what do I know?
You washed your hair😮 Well that is a good job done even if it's not as much fun as gardening. we have ice outside this morning have you? Might just be because we are slightly in the sticks.
Elfie was ok with his tummy measurements well more or less. Sleek is bringing one of her friends over to try to get him to do Tai chi now
Yes There was a real herd I've seen them before (not quite so close) and had to stop my bike ride rather than spook them. It was the most beautiful sight ever! You'd have loved it you really would. Sorry I daredn't get nearer for a better pic to be honest.
Feathers McGraw? Is that a thing? Ok If i need surgery i'll have him tattooed over the scar! Gosh i hadn't even thought of imaging risks. Oh well Must exercise hard this week see what I can do.
Well have a good day I hope it will be nice ((())) xxx
Hoping Stuart is doing ok and the flare is settling down. (())
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) have a good day. Would you move again if you found the right house or do you feel worn out. And think no. We have sun at the moment
Toni (()) have a good day how fast does an electric bike go. yes Lucy has done so well all the problems she has xx
Reshmi (()) have a good day love to your mum (())
Jojo (()) have a good day We have the sun.
Stuart (()) how are you love to your mum (())
Skinny Keef (()) have a good day love to Loanda (()) and Sucre (())
take care
joan xx0 -
Hi frogmorton yeah cats do pick people I'm pleased your cat choose you yeah I think it might be more lightly to show up on the Thursday morning with the school runs it's always tiring. I hope you are well today and have a good day.
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Hi dachshund I hope you are well and have a good day too we have sun but it's been really cold this morning on the school run.
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Just back from Docs just had 2nd jab leg still asleep. I may sweep up later lot of moss on patio.
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greetings Toni
Good afternoon
How are you?
Mums ok 👍
I showed my face at group
No she’s not dizzy today thankfully
My bloods are on 13 February I think
Stomach may be still be ookey - I’m being cautious
tired still
Currently not in Dubai lol
But that might change in an hour or so really
Yes BR adores LA, so probably looks at his face lol
ok I’ll stop for now ablutions - time
Bye and tc Toni xx
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Hi all 😊
Well the sun's been out 🌤️and the sun's been in again 🌥️& so on today, v changeable, but still a lot lot better than yesterday. Certainly not icy 😮! I am attending to my garden furniture etc still frog, annoyingly one bolt (there's always one) won't come out of its bench slat, because the metal thread thing is moving in the wood instead so it's just turning, will have to fiddle with that somehow. At least it does look paint-uppable I think 👍️ I prefer insideness, as words go 😄. I have still not bought anything 😇 just seed compost, but I see no just cause or impediment why you shouldn't go ahead with your plant purchases, if you have their places in mind & all that. Cherry-picker and harness, well yes maybe elf & safety gone mad to use a very well-worn phrase, but maybe not such a bad idea, better than abseiling down from the overhanging tree 😱😄. I have seen my lovely speckled Mr B today pleased to say. I did wonder if you usually saw as many deer but a herd well it speaks for itself, in that I suppose you wouldn't see separate little groups. Hope you had a nice walk today. Tai chi eh Sleek, well it would be nice, especially a bit of the idealized picture, standing on sunny hillside etc looking very at one with things, might not be quite like that I'll let Elfie have first lessons and he can report back 😄. Have a good evening and good luck with the exercises 👍️ love to all 😘 xx
Hello Joan, well in my mind's eye I feel up to moving but I'm not very realistic always 😬 I would do it on the spot if I thought it would all work out, it's the things that can go wrong that are the problem. I was in the garden today and in 5 mins a ladder went up at the end garden to 2nd storey height, it's this sort of being overlooked I've had enough of. I did get the benefit of some time in the sun after that but still pretty cold. Things are growing though so we are going in the right direction 😊 xx
Hi bosh, hope quick visit to group was still worth it, glad to hear your mum was not dizzy today 🤞. Definitely yes to that sign, good fences make good neighbours Robert Frost never said a truer word, I've had nightmares with both 😱😱 only one you can use saws and hammer & nails on unfortunately 😂. I was doing a job with pliers & screwdriver today I could have done with being amphi-dextrous, obviously some frogs & toads must be or why the prefix 😄 since the RA I have to give my left hand some jobs and it's like delegating to a trainee that's not up to it. Have a good evening I hope 😊 xx
I was cleaning moss off my patio too Stuart, it must be the day for it 😄 need to get the gutters cleared too, because sparrows turf chunks of moss back out of them as soon as I sweep. But I'm not that tidy a gardener to be honest I don't mind some. Don't do too much after the jab hope it helps 👍️ xx
Wave to Jojo hope your day has been ok, it was very cold start this morning but nowhere near the horrible day yesterday was, and the sun made all the difference later :) xx
Kettle on I think ☕️ xx
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hi Stuartknee
Hope your leg feels better soon tc x
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Hi toady my day has not been too bad thanks apart from a fair amount of pain from my knees probably my fault because Im trying to cut back on parocetmol but still can't do without them I hope your day has been ok it's been cold here as well.
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hi Toni
Day ended very badly mum got in a terrible mood after her screen protector got broken and shouted her head off at me, even though I wasn’t responsible and this mood and shouting went on and on even though I ordered her another one
Group was very short but good thanks, I was thinking of giving it a miss as I was on the late side and there was nowhere to sit, but good old RR waved at me through the window and so J the leader noticed I was there so I was contractually bound to enter the coffee shop lol, so I solved the problem by just quickly talking to nice T who was there with her son and then I mentioned the iron - related issues and politely left the premises lol
It was nice to get out to the town centre and enjoy the fresh cooler air - you were right there Toni
My stomach still isn’t ok but I suspect this is just gastric justice for it having been ok for so long, but I noticed the stomach pain got worse after the stress with mum shouting about the phone etc
It’s such a sauna in here sometimes it’s so hot I can barely think
Doc said my blood pressure is a bit high so I have to do a week’s worth of readings
My stomach is feeling a bit ookey as we speak
Nice T is ok - ish thanks, her poor son was getting bored though lol, if he were about 17 years younger i would’ve sat him in front of B Shark lol
Have a good night Toni tc xx
Ps alternative Star Trek phlebotomist training maybe? By the way I suspect the biccies aren’t vegan Haha 🤢
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Hi Jojo
I slept well thanks
That must be tough doing the school run
Have a good night tc xx
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hi toady
Welcome to the ookey stomach hour
Well in my case anyway
Does your stomach tend to “ook”, note the conjugation please 😂😂
When you get stressed?
If so, it certainly doesn’t help matters does it?
Glad you had some sunYes it was nice to see nice T in the group thanks
Her father passed away recently though, poor thing and some of her relatives bullied her at the funeral
But her son was there helping her out even though he looked so bored, bless
I think I told Toni at some point, some sleazy guys approached on fb because I made a joke about eczema- yes eczema of all things lol
But don’t worry I annihilated them Vulcan style before they became major pests haha
however it should have been the kind of joke that attracted only dermatologists 😂
It just shows what quagmire fb really is, doesn’t it?
What a day, mum got in a strop, I knew i should’ve had four toasts for breakfast
Have a good night toady tc xx
Ps a bit of gothic tea there xx
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Morning Joan I am very much hoping you are feeling ok today? Is everything alright? Lucy has done well we just need her to get settled in a good relationship now (if she wants one and I think she does) then I will breathe out😊 Take very very good care today please and if you go out have a nice time ((())) xxx
Morning Stuart Glad you had your jab I hope though that you stayed inside and rested it. Did they not tell you to rest for 48 hours and move the joint as little as possible? This keeps the steroid where you need it for as long as possible. I'm sure the moss wants sweeping but it can wait a day or so. Your health is important (())
That's a good idea Jojo let your daughter stress you out in the morning before the school run that's probably your best chance to upset your heart/stress levels. It is lovely when a cat chooses you isn't it? Such an honour. I love mine so much she's an old girl now 15 and a half. I want her to stay with me forever. Paul was away working yesterday so she slept on the bed with me right next to me. I love her so much. I hope you are in a little less pain today ((())) xx
Morning Reshmi How are you today? I'm glad to hear your Mum wasn't dizzy yesterday.
My stomach gets set off straight away by any upset too. If I'm eating then it's like my stomach shuts down and l have to stop. Very kind of you to order your Mum another screen protector I hope it comes soon and you aren't sort of getting the blame today. I must say it's no surprise to me if your BP is a little high given the last few weeks you've gone through and also your meds. Doing the tests at home should give you and the doc a better idea though.
Well done getting out into the cold fresh air and popping into the group at least. Lovely that RR saw you and waved you in really. He might be a character but he is a good person I think. Nice T's son is he a bit immature? He may well quite like Baby 🦈 or perhaps some Bluey?🤭
Oh dear Mr Worf time does not heal all wounds😯 I'll dodge any biccies with animal products in them never fear.
Hope you have a good day. Get yourself off to Costa packet for an hour away from it all if you can today ((())) xxx
Morning Toady Even icier this morning and I need to get out to pick up my new hand held vac the old one smelt a bit scary🔥 Paul said I can get it so have ordered it from Hurry's. I plan to take my old one to a place where they might be able to repair if for spare.
I wish wish wish I could send a video because one came up on my feed Lucy did with Elfie 8 years ago! He was singing and brushing his hair bless him. It's so funny. He is indeed our Elf and safety inspector here, but Sleek herself tends to buy anything she sees on the internet as you know. Maybe I should send her over with some of her spoils so you can help her to sell some on nosegay?
I'd love to do Tai Chi too. I have done it once or twice on spa days years ago it was lovely and gentle.
If anyone can get that bench repaired and repainted it is you Toad. Have you a colour in mind? I remember Barbara used to go a lovely blue shade. Sleek has sorted out her 3rd worst overalls to help you with that job.
Mr B visited! I am pleased. I want him to stay resident in your garden and have speckly babies😊
Meeting a friend for a cuppa on my way back from fetching the new vac. Then I will probably use the new vac and trash my shoulder again!!!! Elfie has been doing a great job with the dustpan and brush but even he can only do so much.
Arya is bringing her Mummies over for tea🤗
Have a good day ((())) xxx
Morning to our much missed friend Skinny K hope you are doing ok ((())) xxx
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good morning Toni
Wppl xx
Ps Star Trek doc but not phlebotomist lol xx
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Hi frogmorton yeah it's a good feeling my cat is 10 years old so is getting on a bit my mams cat is 16 years old he's got a heart murmur but still around and it doesn't bother him I hope you have a good day my pain isn't too bad today thanks its bearable.
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Good morning everyone
Yesterday I when’s in the bathroom the brakes did not work i was getting into the wheelchair I got it to stop by pushing it into a cupboard by then I was on my knees I phoned a neighbour and I phoned and got a new wheelchair I think I sprained my ankle
Toady (()) have a good day you get used to living in your home I know how you feel.
Toni (()) Brenda went on her own she’s said you rest it to day we will go another day. Yes I hope Lucy finds a nice person to love her (()) have a lovely day. How is Arya getting on xx
Reshmi (()) have a good day love to you mum (())
Jojo (()) that’s a good age for a cat. Toni’s cat sleeke is older. Have a good day.
Stuart (()) that’ good you have had the injection. Love to your mum (())
Skinny Keef (()) have a good day love to Loanda (()) and Sucre (())
take care
joan xx0 -
sorry you sprained your ankle Joan
How are you feeling now?
Mums more or less ok 👍
Have a good afternoon tc xx
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hi lovely Toni
How’s mxt day going?
Pretty ookey here 🤢🤢
Stomach not completely ok
Mums bs is ok
But she’s in a strop
Nasty cold day isn’t it?
Walked but quite late in the day
Bought a bit of chocolate cake, but not with cream
Stomach is almost there actually
But you’re right stress doesn’t help our stomachs
Yes you and I can placate everyone under 30 with some kind of animated sea creature or other 😂
LA made an invention and went to inventors’ fair!!
Sorry this room is so cold need to perform emergency relocation and ablutions
Bye for now Toni tc xx
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Hi all 👋 bright but cold, mustn't grumble.
Definite white frost here this morning frog if not ice, yes yours must be geographical I guess. Have been out for a little while in the sun and even put some washing out, probably to very little avail 😄. Having sanded one bench slat down the wood itself is in surprisingly good nick, it was good hardwood but after all the rain etc I didn't expect much - only the finish is flaky etc - it has had some algae etc in the grain, so it depends whether that would 'come out' through any new paint etc. Will see how I go. Probably would have to be a darkish green or brown, I do have a blueish shed like Barbara 😊 but don't want that colour for this too - anyway they won't be right next to each other so hopefully wouldn't clash 😬. Yes by all means Sleek and I can put our heads together and downsize her excess purchases, I'm sure between us we can navigate all the new nosegay t&cs and the 3½p new buyer fee or whatever nonsense they come up with next 🙄. Can't believe Elfie is old enough that there is vintage footage of him 😂 what fun he has had living with you, just imagine the boring families some elves must have. He will be attending the tea party today I'm sure 😊 love to everyone and hope you saw your friend ok, and picked up the vac too, no overdoing it 😉. xx
Joan poor you knocking yourself like that! 😣 do hope your ankle has not swelled up and definitely that nothing has had a knock on effect to your hip etc 🤞 how soon will you get the new chair? It was very cold & frosty here today hope it won't be tomorrow for the bins but will be careful. I'm not attached to this house really and don't have roots in the area either etc but you could move from the frying pan to the fire that's the trouble 🙄. Take care hope you have everything you need ☕️😘 xx
Hi bosh, oh dear ups & downs at yours I hope things are better today. Yes I'm sure stress does ook my stomach, stands to reason really tension etc, unfortunately I'm consciously or unconsciously always that way more or less so I'd have to get unstressed before I really knew how much it helped 🙄. Glad you at least looked in at group partly thanks to a cheery wave from RR (I love 'contractually bound to go in' 😂) but sorry for nice T how awful that her relatives were horrid to her 😟. Hope no more FB pests have 'respawned' as they say in computer games to take the place of the others, that is fairly astonishing subject to cause a stir on the internet the mind really does boggle, heaven knows what I would unwittingly get myself into I am best off out of it I'm sure 🤨. Oh well done LA may we know anything more about the invention or is it 'patents pending' 🤨. Very cold here hope your temps are not too far the other extreme 👋 :) xx
Hi Jojo hope your knees not too much trouble, mine were my worst problem too at one stage, I found only ibuprofen touched them much because of the inflammation but don't want to take those ideally so it was tricky. Glad you get something off the paracetamol, is it a dose advised by Drs that you are trying to cut or are you just taking them off your own bat over the counter anyway? Keep warm it's not nice today & another cold night but a degree or two up on yesterday maybe. xx
Love to Stuart and SK and anyone who pops in 👋 xx
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