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  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 261

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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,475

    Take photos Jojo!!!! Make sure you take photos of swelling.

  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,475
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    Morning Joan awww little Pepper!! I bet he looks (and smells!) lovely now bless him. A mobile groomer that is useful for you. Still no news about when the freezer will be replaced or fixed? That's annoying. I bet Charlie is cross it's going to be warm again today. Take care((())) xxx

    Morning Jojo sorry about two replies it's just swelling is evidence and really important. Do try hard to take Michael with you when you go. You haven't been naughty just busy and when you weren't busy you needed to rest. I'm very glad you have a follow up appointment with the lady Dr again. Yes do your packing but take it steady ((())) xxx

    Morning Stuart sounds like the GP is insisting on sticking to their one month only rule. It's the same here unfortunately but does make it scary and you seem to be always putting in for repeat prescriptions. Hope your Mum is well though? ((())) xxx

    Morning Skinny Keef hope you are all well. What plans have you for the rest of your summer with Sucré? Doyou take him to Mersea? l used to love Mersea. Has Anda managed to get much time off? She (and you) deserve some time now all that studying had ended. Take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Reshmi I do hope you feel a good bit better today. Tea and toast if you get out that's what I'd have in your shoes. I hope your Mum is ok and that the cold room is now free for your use again?

    So no respire form BB your sister wats to be there for BR's graduation. I expect that is understandable hope she does not overdo it. Has she seen the Dr again I remember she was going to.

    We can wait patiently for the new poem to be cleared by the bank. Given you've been rather rough we can give you extra time to clear your unauthorised overdraft🤭

    Gosh yes we must be patient with everyone when they get silly and take it as just that. Them being silly. Sorry you have not only BB to contend with, but your Mum wasn't too friendly yesterday either. I wonder whether she had been looking forward to some respite from BB too🤔

    Us being silly here though is something quite different and yes it does help. It helps a lot. That's why we keep coming in to see each other, have a smile and time with friends😊

    HD is doing a fantastic job on his hair😁

    Take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Toady well today is the day I will be thinking of you and hope all goes well. Elfie will not be over he isn't too keen on strangers as you know. Sleek has already left and is probably making herself a cup of tea and you too if you're lucky.

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    Have you decided? New shiny boiler or possibly temporary fix? Honestly when we were kids it would always have been the temporary fix. Surely it's better for the environment. Still a new one would be peace of mind for you?

    Yes you're right all those burgers (chips) and fudge did only take the edge off for Elfie. He is in the kitchen here now making his breakfast which will consist of around 7 slices of toast and a pot of tea. He'll do me something if I fancy, but it's a bit early.

    The guitar playing neighbour is the one with the trampoline and 3 small dogs who bark at me when I'm gardening. Lovely.

    Fingers crossed for you ((())) xxx

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 636

    Hi frogmorton yeah I missed it this time but no doubt there will be some swelling again just walking to the bathroom is now painful so looks like I will have to hobble to the cinema. Yeah I've made a good start on the ironing so we will pack a good chunk after the cinema oh yeah we are going to see jurassic World at the cinema I think I forgot to say on yesterday's post. I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.

  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,386

    Good morning everyone

    Toady (()) when I worked in Garrads I was paid 7 pounds a week that was from 7-30 till 5- o clock. I gave my mum 5 pounds. I hope everything works out well for you today.

    Toni (()) the freezers could take another fortnight before they are fixed. I hope you have a good day. Your neighbour must think he’s good playing the guitar he wants everyone to hear.

    Reshmi (()) have a good day. I hope your sister can go to see her son. Love to your mum (())

    Jojo (()) I’m sorry your foot is so painful full go to the surgery and ask to see someone. A few years ago I phoned the pharmacist and said I cannot stand the aching in my legs she said have you tried Tramadol ask the doctor if you could have them I did and as long as I rest my legs a bit I haven’t got the aching.

    Stuart (()) have a good day sorry about your pain. love to your mum (())

    Skinny Keef (()) have a good day. Love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (())

    take care
    joan xx
  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 636

    Hi dachshund I keep putting my foot in a bowl of cooled water it helps for a bit and I'm back to taking codeine for now. I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788

    good afternoon Toni

    Wppl xx

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  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 261

    I am finally having a hand rail being put in by a local blacksmith

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788

    hi Toni

    Good afternoon

    How are you?

    Mums ok bs wise 👍

    My stomach is a lot better thanks

    I went out for a full length walk

    But it was boiling hot

    I saw a little boy having a tantrum in the bakery, he didn’t realise mummy had to pay for the doughnuts before he could eat it. 😂

    Poem is currently still festering in the bank, but I will sort it out at some stage

    Yes cold room is mine when I need it again thank cod or haddock lol

    Mums Cooking all day, she won’t let anyone help her

    Yes sister is seeing Doc tomorrow Bill is going with her

    yes thanks Toni, I also hope that the doctor can give her more helpful advice and treatment this time

    I had better ablute as i didn’t even do that yesterday as I was feeling so ookey

    So I had better make amends as they say lol

    Bye for now Toni, take care xx

    👍Joan hi how are you?

    thanks I hope my sister manages to go too and that she doesn’t stay for too long and takes care of her back as well.
    Have a nice day tc xx
    👋greetings toady and Jojo xx

    Ps tiny Ella trying on her mothers shoes haha xx

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  • Skinny Keef
    Skinny Keef Member Posts: 1,433

    hi everyonr, sorry i am not posting much. My polychondritis symptoms are causing more problems and pain, and I am spending every moment I can with Sucré, I even had him on my own Thursday for a while.
    will post more after i have seen my consultant.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788
    edited 25. Jul 2025, 21:38

    hi Toni and toady

    How are you both tonight?

    I know I shouldn’t apologise so much but that’s my nature lol

    Way too hot today

    Plus mum was cooking almost all day and not accepting help

    So it was even hotter than it needed to be

    Was feeling nauseous and weak for a long time

    Still not really feeling too great to be honest

    Plus early start tomorrow as parents are going to MH early 🤷‍♀️

    👋toady

    Did the boiler man come?

    No it was too hot for town centre tea and toasting unfortunately

    Did have some nice Swedish bass/ haddock/ cod / gl*ce ice cream though lol

    LA said cheese is bad for him so he’s having pizzas and cutting out cheese sarnies haha

    Well I can’t dispute the logic of that 😂😂

    👋 Good night everyone tc xx

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  • toady
    toady Member Posts: 2,830

    Hi all - just to say goodnight - yes boilerman came, bosh & everyone, thank you 👍️, I was up earlier than I needed because better that than be caught unprepared so I'm absolutely dropping now 😴 off to bed with this quick iou. Repair is not too bad, (well it's a dismantle job but no serious talk of replacing) and quote is fine barring it escalating depending on what he finds, so just this once I will concede to your think positive side vs my pessimism frog 😉. The only thing now is fitting it in because it is such an inconvenient time for me so it may have to be week after next but that's not a big problem. Have a good night all and will see you tomorrow 😘. xx

  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 261

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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,475
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    Morning Joan how are you and Pepper? All is well here Lucy is coming over later. We had rain overnight/early hours so it's wet outside - a bit anyway. Yesterday was very hot wasn't it? Take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Jojo darn it you missed the chance for a photo next time. Also if you have a tape measure (or even a piece of string will do) measure around it so you can prove in cms how much it swells. That might still be possible today.

    At least you'll be sitting down in the cinema so you can enjoy the film and time with Michael. Then the dreaded packing😣but worth it😊 Hope your day is good ((())) xxx

    Morning Skinny Keef. I thought something was wrong. Glad you are seeing the consultant soon - this week? I hope he/she has some ideas for a plan B for you.

    How lovely you two boys spending time together. He is growing up now and you want him to have memories of time with his Dad.

    Take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Stuart me too🙄 always awake at 4 or thereabouts take tablets read for a while come on here. Thanks for the cuppa😊The handrail is a brilliant idea it will help you and your mum so much. Take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Reshmi

    I hope you are feeling much better. Was your Mum cooking to take food to MH? The heat and maybe MTX hangover? I am thinking something much more healthy than cheese or pizza with cheese. Bless him LA!! Both are probably not great but fine in moderation🤭

    I hope you aren't going and are getting some respite for yourself? I also hope you'll get an update about your sister and that the Dr has suggested next steps for her now.

    Little Ella's baby sister looks very cute in her Mummy's heels. Poor little boy having to wait for his mummy to pay for his doughnut bless him.

    You can go into the bank and organise the poem withdrawal when you feel up to it there is no rush.

    I love Swedish glace ice cream it's to tasty😋

    I am a tiny bit worried about Paul. One of his ankles is swollen. No pain just the skin pinching. I ignored it at first thought it was sunburn. Tried piriton yesterday today I will have to contact the Dr if it hasn't gone down overnight. I mean it could even be a DVT or his heart getting worse, but him being him he wouldn't let me ring anyone last night. Men!

    Take care Reshmi enjoy a peaceful day ((())) xxx

    Morning Toady aha good. Your boilerman I like. He sounds 'old school' enough to be prepared to try to fix it and not just go for the easy option - a new boiler like so many these days.

    I hope you are going to manage without. Elfie plans to bring the Church urn over for you filled up of course. I am storing it here while the work is being done over there. Could be useful?

    Elfie is a bit miffed though. He thought there was a vegan food market in Lichfield today, but it was last week bless him. We will find something else for him to do. Unless Paul's foot is still swollen (see last paragraph of my post to Bosh) then we will be trying to get a Drs appt. You'll see I'm worried fearing his heart, cellulitis or even a DVT. I said to him you'll have to see someone and get it sorted I need you alive - I don't want to do the paperwork😁 That made him laugh a bit. He is on site in London or is it Ireland all week so needs sorting this weekend.

    Take care Toady Sleek is en route she'll tell you all about her Dad's foot no doubt. ((())) xxx

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 636

    Morning frogmorton I managed to take some photos yesterday morning. We are off on a bus trip this morning with the kids. I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.

  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,386

    Good morning everyone

    Toady (()) that’s good the boiler man came. Now you have to fit it in. I went up the co- yesterday the freezers were full I said how long the lady said last Saturday. I said to Charle this morning he said I told you a few days ago I cannot understand everything he says he’s Scottish. Have a good day.

    Toni (()) I hope you have a good day today. We haven’t had any rain yet. I hope Lucy (()) has a good day and Paul (()) I read in the news a lady strangled her husband because he wouldn’t clean the litter tray.

    Jojo (()) have a lovely time out. Sorry about your pain.

    Reshmi (()) have a good day love to your mum (())

    Stuart (()) that’s good a hand rail that will help your mum (()) as well.
    Skinny Keef good luck with your consultant I hope he helps you. Love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (()) that was nice spending more time on your own with him.

    take care
    joan xx
  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788
    edited 26. Jul 2025, 11:44

    good afternoon, Toni

    how are you today?
    It’s a lot cooler here, thank goodness

    mums ok , thanks👍

    Sorry, if the punctuation is a bit weird, it’s the fault of partial fault of partial voice control lol

    I am feeling a lot better than yesterday thanks I think you’re right

    mainly heat and MXT side-effects

    Yes you’re right. My mum has been cooking food parcels as it were for my sister and her family
    I told her they would have managed there’s no need to cook like there’s no tomorrow ha ha,

    but she didn’t listen. She never does in this respect unfortunately

    Yes, thanks about my sister.
    I Also hope that her doctor’s appointment goes well.
    Mum is also in a better mood today. Thanks
    I am having a therapeutic, hot chocolate and veggie burger

    Yes, I like that ice cream too
    Sorry about Paul, I hope it’s not DVT
    Sorry about your aunt too I think I forgot to mention the lady with stomach cancer

    Yes the poem may take quite a while to convert into payment haha

    You know the other day I went to the bakery and someone asked if he could have 20p credit so that he could pay for the doughnut tomorrow

    mind you it’s not like he didn’t have any money at all either. He had already bought many cakes and naughty sweet treats

    Doughnut - credit, I like that, an essential tool for all the hard working families, according to the government at least 😂

    Yes I’ve got some a few hours to myself Toni so I’m hoping to make the most of it even if it’s means a fair bit of vegetating in front of the tv lol

    Bye for now Toni take care xx

    👋toady and Joan xx

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  • toady
    toady Member Posts: 2,830
    edited 26. Jul 2025, 16:17

    Afternoon all 👋

    Hope you & Paul are ok frog, any joy with the doctor's appt? 😔 do hope it's something & nothing and you've been able to get some advice 🤞. Especially as Paul is due away. I hope Elfie is not worrying too much and keeping occupied. Thank you so much for the lend of the tea urn, there is nothing I would like better! - it will be no end of help, and will be returned in due course with thanks and a suitable box of biscuits for the next function or 'church do' (I do love a church tea ☕️). Sleek has filled me in on the general local happenings, yes I did think 'guitar man' would probably be the trampoline side it sounded all too likely 😣. Time for a burst of something from your side - twinkle twinkle on a recorder? or just a selection from Elfie 😉. Yes boilerman is very very old school, you've got that right, in most things as well as doing a proper job; unimpressed by modern life so in that regard we get on. Change & decay in all around we see etc. Have you seen they are dragging a well-known plain choc brand ever further from its heritage and into horrible 'more contemporary' packaging, ugh 😕 cheap & nasty looking, they should if anything go back, to one of their early classic designs. Oh and new flavours too, you'll never guess - salted caramel! imagine, hours in a boardroom coming up with that 😒. (I believe there was controversy over their ceasing to be 'accidentally' vegan, and therefore a question mark over their past production 🤨 so prob not in your good books for that, do you buy 'their' actual vegan bars? I can't remember if you've said.) Love to everyone & hope to hear you've had reassuring news 😘 xx p.s. I was listening to a Doctor Chew story (as bosh & I say) and a tv was turning on by itself, even when switched off at the mains 😮 how is yours?!

    Thank you Joan hopefully the boiler will work out on the dates I've got, at least I know it's ok to wait now someone's had a look at it. Just have to watch the pressure and fiddle about with the mains water if needs be. I can't believe the freezers have been back on at the shop and you just couldn't make out Charlie's accent, he will have to write little notes down or draw pictures 😄 or do you not tell him you can't understand, so as not to offend? Hope the shop is getting straight now. That was a long day's work for you at Garrard's and people now wouldn't believe your weekly pay would they, I didn't earn much more my first job as it was one of the so-called youth training scheme things. Were they a big local employer did lots of people in your area go there? Hope you have had a good day and your garden is ok 😊 xx

    Hi bosh, it's all go in the doughnut world this week, did they let the guy owe his 20p was he a 'regular' I wonder? As to the child with the tantrum, I'm afraid there are no doughnuts at all for little boys who have tantrums in bakeries, ah life is so easy when you are an armchair parent 😂. How long will the LA cheese sandwich abstinence last I wonder, also very gripping news 🤭. Going back to the subject of midnight feasts yes it was such a classic school story thing wasn't I, I expect the fact of children having tuck boxes was a real thing not that I know much about it, but how in many schools Matron let you get away with such things I don't know, maybe that was the snitching hour when others told tales on you 😄. I always remember watching a documentary on a boys' boarding school and just feeling so sorry for the little lads, but whether it turned out to be the 'making of them' or not I have no idea. You're right about never getting round to the last books in that school series that can happen sometimes and then do you or should you go back later? sometimes a good idea in my experience sometime not 🤷‍♀️. Hope you are having a quiet time as planned and everything ok at EF, have a good evening :) xx

    Hope your bus trip went well today Jojo and you are feeling a bit better, and your foot has calmed down as giving you less trouble, have a good Sunday :) xx

    Sorry things are a bit rough Keef, a bit of catch up from your IOM trip maybe and will hopefully calm down, keep us posted good luck with the appt 👍️ xx

    Oooh handrail Stuart, good luck with that hope they make a good job. My grandad was a blacksmith among other things, sounds so much nicer than a handyman doesn't it 😊 not the same job as it used to be though of course xx

    Tea up ☕️ xx

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788
    edited 26. Jul 2025, 18:03

    hi toady

    How are you?

    That did make me laugh- the snitching hour, haha

    I wonder what tales might be told?

    Maybe Lorenzo would spread the information that LA was eating pizzas from al fresco, not the items lovingly made from his auntie, or something like that haha

    No, the doughnut- adulk was not given credit but a gentle telling off by the lady serving him, who said she could lose her job if she showed a 20 p - lenience, so to speak, which was of course a valid point, but unfortunately the bakery was part of a chain, not an independent establishment, because I know if I had a small independent bakery - chance would be a fine thing really 😂- but I would be quite happy to allow a tiny credit situation to develop for a good and trusted customer - oh well he was certainly purchasing a large item of “goodies”, so maybe the shop assistant was indirectly doing him a favour

    yes i understand I am mostly an armchair auntie lol

    I only have my own tantrums to manage- but to be honest that’s a full- time job haha

    Yes LA has a tendency to say things without following through to be honest, at least in cheese - related topics, a bit like a seven year old politician haha

    Yes I know what you mean, children’s book often lose their charm after a while unfortunately

    Have a good night toady tc xx
    ps yes another bad pun, but not one of mine lol xx

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  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 261

    My feet ache as much as my knees now

  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 261
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    My painful feet

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788

    good night Joan Jojo SK and S knee xx

    👋hi S knee

    Sorry to hear about your feet

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 636

    Hi toady it's been a good day out kids enjoyed the rides and the beach we went to Bridlington. Obviously my foot spoiled it on the way back to the bus nearly never made it my foot was so painful could barely walk in the end got my foot in a bowl of cooled water now painkillers down and codeine so hopefully it's better soon.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,788
    edited 26. Jul 2025, 22:03

    Hi Jojo

    that’s nice that you had a nice day out with your family,

    sorry you’re still in a lot of pain

    have a good night. Take care xx

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 636

    Thank you bosh I'm hoping resting it In bed might help. I hope you are well and I hope you sleep well tonight.