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  • jaspercat
    jaspercat Member Posts: 1,238
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Everyone,

    Another update for you Jasper is fine today but the really sad news is that Malcolm's dad died at around 3am today, we are going to the hospice soon for a chat and see what happens now, with reference to the death certficate etc. Malcolm remains very calm about the news, I thought that he would have taken it harder, it was me that cried my eyes out.

    Wish the news was better love Jaspercatxx
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello, I'm sorry for Melcome and you, however much expected it is, its still a shock when a loved one passes on. I hope that you also feel a sense of relief that its over and hes out of his pain and at peace.

    Take care and look after each other, if others want to help you, then let them, you will need your energy.

    So glad the cats well, thats one worry less.

    I send you both all my love and very best wishes, I'll remeber you in my thoughts and prayers,
    :cry: with much love, Sue xxxxx
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My thoughts are with you today Jasper. Malcolm will stay strong for you, as well as himself. When the time comes for him to let go - and it will - I`m sure you will be there for him.


    Take care of each other..........Much love........Ange.
  • lindah
    lindah Member Posts: 445
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Adding my thoughts for both of you.
    Love from Linda H
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Jaspercat and Malcolm,

    I am so sorry to hear your very sad news.

    You are both in my thoughts,

    Love
    Elna xx(())
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,135
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaspercat.
    I'm sorry to hear your sad news.
    you did your very best for him.
    look after your self. i'm glad jasper is better.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaspercat

    I am so sorry to hear of Malcolm's father's death. Even though it was expected, it is hard when it happens. I went through the same thing with my parents and in-laws, so I know how it feels.

    There is a lot to do when someone dies, and this carries you through, but sometimes it hits you later. You will be there for each other, so that is a good thing.

    Although you are feeling the shock of his death at the moment, you will be able to remember some happy times, and I'm sure you will be able to celebrate his life.

    Joan

    Glad to hear that Jasper is better. Tommy had an off day too, but he stayed in bed all this morning, and now he seems better.
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  • carol71
    carol71 Member Posts: 131
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So very sorry to hear your sad news reguarding Malcoms dad. Wishing you both strength at a time you need it.
    Also hope Jasper is feeling better and more like his Catty self

    Carol xxx
  • vonski
    vonski Member Posts: 1,292
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Jasper I'm so sorry to hear your sad news, like has been said already he will now be at peace without the pain. It might not have hit Malcolm yet, my hubby was the same until the funeral and that's when he went to pieces. I know you will support each other to get through this sad time and you will remember the good times,

    Thinking of you both.

    Love
    Vonski x
  • eckstardeluxe
    eckstardeluxe Member Posts: 1,192
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I came in for an update to see your very sad news. I am so sad for you and Malcolm. I really will keep you in my thoughts and wishes. I know you have not been feeling your best just now, but I hope you can muster up the strength to support Malcolm as best you can through this. At least Malcolm's father is free from pain at last. I just hope both of you and little Jasper can keep it together, you know we are all here for you, every day, whenever you need us, someone will be here.

    Take care

    Alex
    xxxxxxxxxxxx
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kat my thoughts are with you and Malcolm
  • jaspercat
    jaspercat Member Posts: 1,238
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi, once again thanks for all your kind words and thoughts, the hard word starts now, we have had phone calls from lots of people we haven't seen for years, we have to make an appt to register the death tomorrow, and also see the solicitor, and then there is organising the funeral, have made countless lists of things to do etc love Jaspercatxx
  • kathbee
    kathbee Member Posts: 934
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So very sorry to hear your news.

    Thinking of you and Malcolm at this
    very sad time.

    Love Kath xx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaspercat,

    My thought are with you and Malcolm at this sad time. I hope it will all go smoothly for you with all the arrangements. You both take care and more cyber ((( )))'s. Luv Cris xx
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello,
    I am so sorry, their is a lot to do to settle everything after a loss.
    Don't do too much and make yourself feel ill, its a hard time now, but it will get easier. My thoughts and love to you both. Sue
  • mistywillow
    mistywillow Member Posts: 711
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just wanted to add my condolences to you and Malcome at this sad time.
    Gillx

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