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Thankyou Everyone

barbara12barbara12 Posts: 20,943 ✭✭
edited 2. Jan 2010, 09:11 in Community Chit-chat archive
Just to let you know that my brother died on Christmas day, I would like to thank you all for your support and friendship.
I will see you in the cafe very soon.
Love Barbara xx


  • jean123jean123 Posts: 642
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am so very sorry Barbara. Our thoughts are with you.

    Jean, Guy, and the moderating team
  • trishertrisher Posts: 9,727
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Barbara

    I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. You know we are here for you, if you need us.

    Lots of Love and some (((((gentle hugs))))))

    Trish xxx
  • janie68janie68 Posts: 1,186
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00

    My sister is called Barbara too, dont come across your name very often. So sorry about your brother, I hope that you have lots of support around you,but please use us as well. Look after yourself and let others look after you too, try to eat well and healthy, you will find that you will suffer physically as well as emotionally. I know that is easier said than done, but it may sound silly, take vitamins as well maybe?

    Again, so sorry about your loss, thinking of you at this very sad time

    Janie xx
  • angel1angel1 Posts: 1,651
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thinking of you, with much love, Barbara. So glad you found us, just in case you need us.........Ange.
  • jaspercatjaspercat Posts: 1,238
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Barbara, just wanted to say that I am sorry to learn about your brother, we are all here if you fancy a chat love Jaspercatxx
  • annie_mialannie_mial Posts: 5,818
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    So sorry, Barbara, hope you and yours are given the strength to overcome the loss.

    PS - My sister is also Barbara! There are a few around!
  • joanlawsonjoanlawson Posts: 10,319
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Barbara

    I am so sorry to hear about your brother's death. I know what it is like to lose someone you love at Christmas, as both my parents died at Christmas on two consecutive years.

    I hope that you have many happy memories of your brother, and that these will comfort you.

  • ninakangninakang Posts: 2,056
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00

    I'm so sorry to hear of your brother passing away. I don't really have anything else to add other than we are all here for you.

    Nina X
  • chris7chris7 Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00

    Only just catching this, after being away over Christmas. I have been thinking of you all, as I knew your brother had been taken to the hospice. Just adding my sympathy and best wishes to you and the family at this sad time. Take care of one another.
  • tkachevtkachev Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Barbara,

    I am really sad to read about your brothers death.
    My thoughts are with you.
    Take care
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • elnafinnelnafinn Posts: 8,043
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Barbara

    I am so sorry. Although your brother was very unwell we are almost never prepared for the reality of death. Take your time in grieving, there is no time limit. We are all here for you and I sincerely hope this will bring you some comfort.

    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • joyful164joyful164 Posts: 2,962
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry Barbara
    I miss this thread.

    Sorry to hear about your Brother. However ill he was, it is still a shock.
    I hope the next 2/3 months will go smoothly for you, it is a great strain on you emotionally and all the practical aspect of a bereivement. This will not help you physically either so look after yourself firstly. Especially with your back. That is going to take the strain first. Day at a time, day at a time.

  • dachshunddachshund Posts: 7,838 ✭✭✭
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Barbara.
    i'm so sorry a bout your brother.
    we will all be here to help you if needed.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
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