Thank you all

tjt6768

I just wanted to say a big thanks to you all for being so supportive.
It has been a really rough time for us as you know, firstly losing our beloved Cleo, and then to find out a good friend of mine had taken his own life the next day.... Deeply shocking and sad..

I know it has only been a few days but I am starting to come to terms with things, slowly.. You lot have been a big help that's for sure.

Having our Daughter here for the weekend has been lovely, haven't seen her since before Christmas.. It gave us something to smile about.

Guess I am rambling a bit...
At the minute I am feeling ok, but I know it won't be long before the tidal wave of sadness will knock me on my **** again... That wave will slowly get smaller though and over time should just be like the sea lapping at my feet, something to feel nice about, remembering the good and fun times.

Thank you, everyone who has been there for me & Janet..

dreamdaisy

Take it from one who knows - the waves do decrease in strength. Eventually. DD

ironic

Oh Tony, I am so sorry I did not know about your friend. My heart goes out to you.
One day at a time,

Many hugs to you and Janet,
Lv, Ix

katie5

hi tony and janet

i really dont know what to say other than take care of each other and remember you have lots of friends who are here for you.

Katie x

frogmorton

Hi Tony

bless you and well - no need at all to thank us - it's what we do best, support our friends.

You are doing amazingly well you know....and you are right the waves of pain do come less frequently and the strength of your's and Janet's relationship will get you through.

You take care and know we are always here.

Love

toni xx

Hugs to Ra

PamieAFC1903

Honey, friends are there/here to help us through the tough times and give us the strength and courage to continue.

We are all here for each other on the forum and I am sure I speak for us all when I say, helping each other is the friends you need in your life.

My thoughs are with you and your friends family at this tough time for you all.

tjt6768

thank you ladies, appreciate it.
I will be glad when the waves are tickling mi toes..

bubbles

it is the least any one of us can do, to offer support and let you know that we genuinely care about each other. Take care, XXXXX Bubbles

valval

we are here for when the waves flow again
val

dachshund

Hi Tony and Janet.
life can be hard at times and we all do the best we can with our problems.
you and Janet take care. we will all be thinking about you.
joan xx

NinaKKang

It's what we all do for each other again and again. Which is why I keep coming back to this site.

Nxx

minky67

Hi Tony, as the days go by it does get easier.
Im still missing snowy like mad but its not as hard as it has been.
we got a card through the post today from the vets :eek: Signed by them all. it was a lovely card but i still shed a few tears when i read what they put. :sad:
Take care, my thoughts are with you all.
Special (((()))) for you all, debs

traluvie

Sending you both big hugs (((((x)))))

coco67

Sending you both hugs and i have life jackets at the ready, dont worry with us all here those waves wont get your hair wet. thinking of you both xxxx

tjt6768

That is me smiling reading these msgs..

I am still waiting for the post from the vets.... Doubt it will be a card, it is going to be the bill... :roll:

julie47

Sorry tony that I am a bit late responding to this thread.
I am so sorry that you have had to deal with yet another loss
Just sendind you and janet hugs ((((((((((()))))))
juliepf x

tjt6768

Thanks Julie hun..

tjt6768

We got the bill from the vets a couple of days ago, I couldn't bring myself to open it for a while... It is actually quite reasonable at under £ 22, and they had also put a condolences note on it too.
Suppose I should pay it..

Missing Cleo like mad still, especially today, laid up, fed up and pretty low... Those blooming waves are building back up....
Guess it's because I've been used to having either our young un here or my folks who are up at the minute but they've gone out for the day..
I'm rambling again, sorry...

Would someone kick me up the ar5e...? I'd do it myself but both my knees feel like someone has taken an axe to them..

seamonkey

Tony,
i am so sorry to have just read about your 2 losses. such pain and sadness for you. I am sorry you are having a bad day today but i do hope the waves decrease again soon and you are feeling a bit better.
Thinking of you and sending my support,
all the best
seamonkey x

dreamdaisy

You had two tough blows in very quick succession so it's no wonder you are feeling down. Factor in grotty knees (yes, understatement I know but I don't want to be banned for obscenties!) and of course you are struggling. Pain doesn't hurt anywhere near as much when lovely things are happening but it increases more than one hundred-fold when other things are not good. You know what I am going to say now: it will pass, all things do. I am thinking of you. DD

tjt6768

Thanks Tinks, DD and seamonkey.. Appreciate it.
Now, who's legs are good enough to give me that kick up the bum? :shock:

seamonkey

ah sorry im out of that one barely managing a shuffle today! I could wak you with my crutch though if that would help
Although i certainly dont want to add any extra pain to your day, you def dont need any more,
Seamonkey

tjt6768

what's a bit more pain among friends, lol....
Wak away..

seamonkey wrote:

ah sorry im out of that one barely managing a shuffle today! I could wak you with my crutch though if that would help
Although i certainly dont want to add any extra pain to your day, you def dont need any more,
Seamonkey

seamonkey

now theres a thought a pain party! having to focus on a specific pain rather than the dull grinding ache may be helpful to me today. Could be because i forgot to take meds at lunch yesterday so im a bit short on pain dullers at mo! Im thinking your hands are good as you volunteered the other day to slap someone? hehe, ill wak you slap, a stinging one to the cheek should see me right for a while!
seamonkey

tjt6768

Lol, I wish, my hands also hurt, reason I offered to slap was because they hurt anyway, might as well have some fun slapping someone..

Sounds like a plan though, all get together and just hit each other..
I think Rehab may enjoy it a bit too much though :shock:
Right, gonna see if the neighbour is up to popping round to make me a sandwich, don't think I can even stand up at the minute.
Catch you in a bit..

seamonkey

enjoy your sarnie, hope your feeling bit better soon,
seamonkey