Disappearing again

rugbygirl
rugbygirl Member Posts: 691
edited 23. Jul 2011, 20:05 in Community Chit-chat archive
Just thought I would pop in and say that I am not going to be about for a while as hubby has just been admitted to hospital with pneumonia. I have just been sent home by the hospital to get some sleep but I will be back again visiting and I will be there as much as I physically can.

Feeling a bit low and very helpless - dont know what to do for the best or where to start.

I will be back on the forum at some point but dont know when
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  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    just leaving you a bucket of hugs to help you through he is in the best place just make sure you look after your self or u will be no good to him val
    val
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Jaki, I am so sorry, but as Val has said he is in the best place, and this is where you have to look after yourself so that you are strong for him. Make sure that you get plenty of rest and eat well.

    I am sending you big hugs and I do hope that your hubby is well soon and back at home with you.

    Karen xx
    Karen xx
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Awww Jaki, So sorry to hear this, hope hubby makes a speedy recovery .

    For starters you must take care of yourself, rest when you can and leave jobs for the fairies to do :wink:

    Sleep well (((((hugs))))) to you and your hubby.

    Rose x
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Jaki, I'm so sorry to hear that your husband is ill. I hope that he will soon recover and be back home again. It's a worrying time for you, so take care of yourself too.

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    Joan
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  • liesa
    liesa Member Posts: 821
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hope hubby is soon on the mend, rest up yourself he will need you healthy for when hes home xxx
    love and hugs
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  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Jaki,Im so sorry this has happened, the hospital was right to send you home for some rest, bet you didnt get any but at least you know he is in good hands
    You take care of yourself, and I hope that your hubby improves very soon.
    Sending you lots of hugs (((((())))) and love to keep you going.
    Please let us know how he is doing.
    Love
    Barbara
  • caterina57
    caterina57 Member Posts: 1,424
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to hear this bad news Jaki but he is in the best place to aid a speedy recovery. You take care and sending you a big hug
    Cath
  • prefabkid47
    prefabkid47 Member Posts: 1,316
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Jaki
    Let's hope everything goes ok and you are soon back together again.It's so unsettling when you are separated from ones OH
    Thinking of you
    Ron
    ''Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy''. Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh dear, I am so sorry. He is defintely in the right place, so let's hope he mends sooner rather than later and that he is home soon. You take all the time you need for him and you - we will all still be here when you return. Take each day as it comes and if the whole day becomes too much then take the morning then the afternoon: if that gets too much divide it even further. I wish you both well. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning Jaki

    I hope you managed to get at leat a couple of hours sleep. I can only imagine how worried you are.
    I hope your husband recovers quickly.
    Take care
    Juliepf x
  • rugbygirl
    rugbygirl Member Posts: 691
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi everyone,

    Thank you so much for all your messages. Hubby is responding well to treatment and if he continues to improve at the rate he has, he will be able to come home at the weekend. I have different friends popping round to do things for me and to make sure I am looking after myself and eating well.

    I just thought I would update you all before I go to bed tonight.

    Thanks again
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  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi jaki

    Glad your hubby is doing well and I have my fingers crossed he is home by the weekend.

    I am really pleased for you too , that you have such good friends that are keeping an eye on you.

    Sleep well and take care
    Juliepf x
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,086
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Jaki

    l only just saw this :shock:

    l am SURE he will be fine, now you just look after yourself as well.

    Love and hugs

    toni xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaki
    What lovely friends you have....you take care of yourself, and I am so glad your hubby is improving.. it will be nice to have him home.
    Love
    Barbara
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am glad to hear he is getting better and I hope he can make it home as scheduled. I also hope you are looking after yourself too. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Well I hope hubby is okay now and did come home for the weekend. I hope you are coping too,

    Best wishes

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • rugbygirl
    rugbygirl Member Posts: 691
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi all

    Thanks for all the messages. Hubby is finally home and things are settling down. I am doing what I can but if its not done then its not a problem. I am not going to try to kill myself just to keep on top of things.

    I am making sure that he takes things easy and he is taking his medication as and when he needs it.

    Things have been all over the place but now they are getting back to normal. I have missed doing a lot of things but I think now I am more able to get on with doing the things that I want while looking after hubby at the same time.

    We have been told that it may take another month before he is back to what can be classed as normal :)

    Hope everyone is ok and coping with the different pains and strains of arthur.
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  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am so pleased for you both, Your husband will make a better recovery at home with you and you will feel a lot better having him home. Just, as you said take things easy, don't want you ending up exhausted. And as you said don't worry about housework it will always be there another day.

    Again, It is really good news.

    Karen xx
    Karen xx
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just poppin in to see how you doin, glad to see hubby is on the mend and home, it will be much easier .

    Take it easy (((((hugs)))) for you both
    Rose x
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,182
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaki.
    how are are you and your husband today.
    i hope everythings going well.
    take care. joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,086
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaki

    glad he is home and to see you too of course :smile:

    You are so wise do only what you can otherwise there will be two of you in trouble and that wouldn't help at all!

    Love and hugs

    Toni xx
  • rugbygirl
    rugbygirl Member Posts: 691
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Been to the doctors today and he has had the ok at the moment. He is improving and currently has 98% oxygen in his blood instead of the 70% he had when he was admitted to hospital.

    We are both still taking things easy and doing what we can when we can. Thank god for home shopping :)


    Hope you are all ok. Will soon be about a bit more I hope
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  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am pleased to hear that your OH is continuing to improve, let's hope that remains the case, yes? I am sure that being at home has made the difference, hospitals are the last places where a good recovery is possible! You look after yourself too, please. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,182
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jaki.
    how are you and how is your husband doing now.
    i hope everythings going well for you both.
    take care. joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi jaki

    I am pleased that your OH is now home and recovering nicely.
    Good that you are both taking it easy and yes...supermarket shopping on the net does come in useful.
    Take care both of you
    Juliepf x

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