Disappearing again

rugbygirl

Just thought I would pop in and say that I am not going to be about for a while as hubby has just been admitted to hospital with pneumonia. I have just been sent home by the hospital to get some sleep but I will be back again visiting and I will be there as much as I physically can.

Feeling a bit low and very helpless - dont know what to do for the best or where to start.

I will be back on the forum at some point but dont know when

valval

just leaving you a bucket of hugs to help you through he is in the best place just make sure you look after your self or u will be no good to him val

constable

Jaki, I am so sorry, but as Val has said he is in the best place, and this is where you have to look after yourself so that you are strong for him. Make sure that you get plenty of rest and eat well.

I am sending you big hugs and I do hope that your hubby is well soon and back at home with you.

Karen xx

roses1

Awww Jaki, So sorry to hear this, hope hubby makes a speedy recovery .

For starters you must take care of yourself, rest when you can and leave jobs for the fairies to do

Sleep well (((((hugs))))) to you and your hubby.

Rose x

joanlawson

Jaki, I'm so sorry to hear that your husband is ill. I hope that he will soon recover and be back home again. It's a worrying time for you, so take care of yourself too.



Joan

liesa

hope hubby is soon on the mend, rest up yourself he will need you healthy for when hes home xxx

barbara12

Oh Jaki,Im so sorry this has happened, the hospital was right to send you home for some rest, bet you didnt get any but at least you know he is in good hands
You take care of yourself, and I hope that your hubby improves very soon.
Sending you lots of hugs (((((())))) and love to keep you going.
Please let us know how he is doing.

caterina57

Sorry to hear this bad news Jaki but he is in the best place to aid a speedy recovery. You take care and sending you a big hug
Cath

prefabkid47

Jaki
Let's hope everything goes ok and you are soon back together again.It's so unsettling when you are separated from ones OH
Thinking of you
Ron

dreamdaisy

Oh dear, I am so sorry. He is defintely in the right place, so let's hope he mends sooner rather than later and that he is home soon. You take all the time you need for him and you - we will all still be here when you return. Take each day as it comes and if the whole day becomes too much then take the morning then the afternoon: if that gets too much divide it even further. I wish you both well. DD

julie47

Morning Jaki

I hope you managed to get at leat a couple of hours sleep. I can only imagine how worried you are.
I hope your husband recovers quickly.
Take care
Juliepf x

rugbygirl

Hi everyone,

Thank you so much for all your messages. Hubby is responding well to treatment and if he continues to improve at the rate he has, he will be able to come home at the weekend. I have different friends popping round to do things for me and to make sure I am looking after myself and eating well.

I just thought I would update you all before I go to bed tonight.

Thanks again

julie47

Hi jaki

Glad your hubby is doing well and I have my fingers crossed he is home by the weekend.

I am really pleased for you too , that you have such good friends that are keeping an eye on you.

Sleep well and take care
Juliepf x

frogmorton

Oh Jaki

l only just saw this :shock:

l am SURE he will be fine, now you just look after yourself as well.

Love and hugs

toni xx

barbara12

Hi Jaki
What lovely friends you have....you take care of yourself, and I am so glad your hubby is improving.. it will be nice to have him home.

dreamdaisy

I am glad to hear he is getting better and I hope he can make it home as scheduled. I also hope you are looking after yourself too. DD

tkachev

Well I hope hubby is okay now and did come home for the weekend. I hope you are coping too,

Best wishes

Elizabeth

rugbygirl

Hi all

Thanks for all the messages. Hubby is finally home and things are settling down. I am doing what I can but if its not done then its not a problem. I am not going to try to kill myself just to keep on top of things.

I am making sure that he takes things easy and he is taking his medication as and when he needs it.

Things have been all over the place but now they are getting back to normal. I have missed doing a lot of things but I think now I am more able to get on with doing the things that I want while looking after hubby at the same time.

We have been told that it may take another month before he is back to what can be classed as normal

Hope everyone is ok and coping with the different pains and strains of arthur.

constable

I am so pleased for you both, Your husband will make a better recovery at home with you and you will feel a lot better having him home. Just, as you said take things easy, don't want you ending up exhausted. And as you said don't worry about housework it will always be there another day.

Again, It is really good news.

Karen xx

roses1

Just poppin in to see how you doin, glad to see hubby is on the mend and home, it will be much easier .

Take it easy (((((hugs)))) for you both
Rose x

dachshund

Hi Jaki.
how are are you and your husband today.
i hope everythings going well.
take care. joan xx

frogmorton

Hi Jaki

glad he is home and to see you too of course

You are so wise do only what you can otherwise there will be two of you in trouble and that wouldn't help at all!

Love and hugs

Toni xx

rugbygirl

Been to the doctors today and he has had the ok at the moment. He is improving and currently has 98% oxygen in his blood instead of the 70% he had when he was admitted to hospital.

We are both still taking things easy and doing what we can when we can. Thank god for home shopping


Hope you are all ok. Will soon be about a bit more I hope

dreamdaisy

I am pleased to hear that your OH is continuing to improve, let's hope that remains the case, yes? I am sure that being at home has made the difference, hospitals are the last places where a good recovery is possible! You look after yourself too, please. DD

dachshund

Hi Jaki.
how are you and how is your husband doing now.
i hope everythings going well for you both.
take care. joan xx

julie47

Hi jaki

I am pleased that your OH is now home and recovering nicely.
Good that you are both taking it easy and yes...supermarket shopping on the net does come in useful.
Take care both of you
Juliepf x