Good Vibes needed

Turbogran · 11. Jul 2011, 07:03

What next one asks last week was a complete nightmare on Tuesday my daughter tells me her partner had walked out and has gone to stay with my eldest granddaughter saying my daughter kicked him out. then later I find out my Aunt of 85 is in hospital with carbon monoxide poisoning and fighting for her life. then Friday Auntie is a bit better so things are looking up there or so we think cause today all that has changed and she has gone down hill again and they are now sayig there is not much else they can do for her. My mind is a complete jumble with it all no wonder my pain levels have risen today. the good thing to come out of this is that after nearly 4 weeks on citalopram I feel remarkable calm about it all long may this continue. sorry to bother you all with this but I just needed to write all down feeling better for having done so.
take care all

valval · 11. Jul 2011, 07:07

so glad you came to share with us it helps and things have beed bad for you by the sounds of it am sending hugs and positive thoughts your way stay strong you are doing so well keep it up val

frogmorton · 11. Jul 2011, 07:36

Oh NO!

Carol

poor poor you :sad:

It never rains but it pours eh?

I do hope your daughter is ok and that your Auntie at least if she can't be helped has a peaceful end.

So so sorry...now YOU take care

Love

Toni xx

julie47 · 11. Jul 2011, 10:58

carole.....sending those good vibes you need~~~~~~

Hope they start working soon and that everything is going to be ok.

Take care
love juliepf x

constable · 11. Jul 2011, 11:05

Hi Carol

What a time you have been having, I am so sorry. As someone else said, it never rains but it pours. Good that the tabs are working well, and lets hope they continue to do so. Glad you posted. A problem shared is a problem halved.

I am sending you those good vibes along with big comfort hugs.

Karen xx

barbara12 · 11. Jul 2011, 11:10

OMG Carol...I do hope they are wrong about your aunt, how awful, and hopefully your daughter will sought everything out....family's eh
You take care, and try to have some me time.....

Poppyg1rl · 11. Jul 2011, 11:15

Hi Carol, poor you! It's not bad enough we've Arthur to deal with, but life likes to throw as many difficulties as it can too :roll: it's good that we can come on here and get some much needed support and cyber hugs

I'll be thinking of you Carol and sending positive vibes and hugs your way (((((()))))) Xxx
Ps. Thankyou for your kind words last week, your support really did help me get through it X

dachshund · 11. Jul 2011, 11:24

Hi Carol.
i'm so sorry you have all that to worry about as well as how you are feeling.
please take care i will be thinking about you.
joan xx

Turbogran · 11. Jul 2011, 11:26

Thank you all it's amazing what a lovely group we have here on the forum no matter what happens there are so many people out there to support you and it really helps to be able to share your troubles with as you say Karen a problem shared is a problem halved.
thanks Toni I am keeping i mind that she is 85 after all.
Thanks Poppy yeah life loves messing us up dosen't it glad my post last week helped you. yes Barbara families who'd have em

(oo did i reall say that :oops:

)

nanasue · 11. Jul 2011, 11:42

Carol, I'm so sorry to hear that you have all this going on, as someone else said having arthur is bad enough without added troubles. I also take citalopram and find it really does help when you have other things to cope with, as I've found with my family problems. I hope everything will sort itself out and you can relax again, thinking of you and sending (((())))

Sue x

tillytop · 11. Jul 2011, 13:53

I am so sorry that there are so many awful/difficult things going on for you at the moment Turbogran.

Just to say I am thinking of you.

Love Tilly xxx

hileena111 · 11. Jul 2011, 13:59

Hi Carol,
What a time you are having of it........as someone said ....it never rains but it pours.
I hope they are wrong about your aunt and she picks up

Glad the meds are helping you

Love
Hileena

Turbogran · 11. Jul 2011, 15:19

thanks all
just heard about 3/4 of an hour ago that my aunt passed away about 7.15 this evening :sad:

Poppyg1rl · 11. Jul 2011, 15:21

Oh I'm so sorry Carol, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
Hugs ((((((())))))) xxx

Turbogran · 11. Jul 2011, 15:33

thanks Poppy

jean123 · 11. Jul 2011, 15:34

I am so sorry for your loss. It is so difficult to lose a cherished member of your family. Wishing you strength in the difficult time to come.

Jean and the forum team

hileena111 · 11. Jul 2011, 16:23

I'm so sorry about your aunt
You and your family are in my prayers

Love
Hileena

jillyb1 · 11. Jul 2011, 16:28

Sorry to hear all your sad news , Carol , you need to try and detach yourself from all this distress and look after YOU a little bit now . Sending hugs and positive healing vibes . Jillyb

lilyflower · 11. Jul 2011, 17:00

Thinking of you at this sad time Carol.
Hope you find inner strength to help you.
Jackie x

mareith · 11. Jul 2011, 17:12

sending lots and lots of love will be thinking of you and remembering you in my prayers
god bless Mareith xx

Turbogran · 12. Jul 2011, 08:08

Hi all you lovely people
thank you all for your lovely replies and support yesterday they really do help. After a few tears this morning I do feel a lot better (despite the pain i'm in) and not so jumbled up in my mind. At least auntie is not suffering anymore and although her passing was expected at the start of the week it was a really devestating when it happened, she was always a lovely and very jolly lady and always life and sole of any party. I have so many wonderful memories of her when I was a lot younger. to numerous to list or I would be here all day. As I sit here typing this things she said or did the past keep coming into my mind. The whole family are devestated cause although we are scattered and may not see one another very often but we are all very close. The funeral is the next thing to get through for all of us but untill then I know I have to be very positive to get through this time, and yes my faith will keep me strong and I know I have to have some me time so will try very hard to do this.
when I have posted this and my last lot of meds I have just taken kick in I am going out and treat myself to a very large latte and lunch out.
oh my goodness this is such a long post :roll: but I needed to put it all down
thank you all

Poppyg1rl · 12. Jul 2011, 15:17

Hi Carol,
I'm so glad you got everything out and written down, and that the memories of your lovely aunt live on in you and all that knew and loved her. My family,friends and faith got me through my loss, and the support of the lovely friends here on the forum including you Carol helped me so much through the memorial last week.
I'm sending you love and hugs and you and your family are in my prayers xxxx

Turbogran · 12. Jul 2011, 15:37

thank you Poppy she will certainly live on in the family. and your words really help.

stickywicket · 13. Jul 2011, 03:27

Of course you needed to get it all down, Carol. And keep on doing so whenever you feel like that. This is a very tough time for you. I will be thinking of you.

Turbogran · 13. Jul 2011, 09:31

Found out Last night My Aunties Funeral is on Friday week the 22nd at 9.30am. Very early for me but I am determined that I will be there
whatever it takes. so will need more positive thoughts and vibes to get me there me thinks. but I will do it I will.

hope you are all having a good day. :roll:

constable · 13. Jul 2011, 13:15

I am so sorry for your loss. And that I have only just realised. Please accept my apologies.

As you said she will live on in the family.

Sending you some really big hugs and thinking of you and your family at this time.

On the friday 22nd I will be sending good vibes and thinking of you all.

Karen xx

Good Vibes needed

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