Hi Its debs

minky67

Hello everyone, I just wanted to post to say a very big thank you to cris for all her help whilst i was with her & for getting me to my daughters safe.
I also wanted to say thank you for all your messages/texts.
As some of you know i had some trouble on holiday when i was assualted by my (then) stepson & partner. Cris came to my rescue weds night then brought me home on Saturday.
Im ok & staying with my daughter until i can find somewhere else to live.
I cant go home & dont want to.
Ive got a lot to sort out & that all starts tomorrow.
Im so sorry that ive not been around much but this has not been the first time anything like this has happened, ive stupidly stayed & hoped it would get better. They both have problems that i can no longer help with & i cant tolerate being treated the way i have been lately.
Ive had a hell over a rough time over the past 18 or so months but this now brings it to an end.
Thank you to you all & i will stay in touch as i know some of you have been worried about me.
luv n hugs debs

tjt6768

bloody hell hun.
That's awful.. I hope that you can start a fresh life well away from all of that.

Best wishes from me and Ra

bertyboy

oh Debs i am sorry that you are having to deal with things like this , but you have made the right choice some people just wont be helped , love and hugs xxx

valval

i for one am very proud of you it takes strenth to walk away from that kind of enviroment had a pal had to do it it was not easy he tried everything to track her down and talk her into going back but friends looked out for her and she is not happily married to some one else so stay strong know it will not be easy but you will have a far better life ((())) so head up you have done the hardest bit well done val

lindalegs

Aww Debs I had no idea. :sad: :sad: How absolutely rotten for you but three cheers for Cris. (I can just see her on a white horse with a lance riding to your rescue.)

Hope you get somewhere to live very soon.

Thinking of you.

Luv

magenta

Hi Debs,

I'm very sorry to hear this but so glad you've got yourself away from it-with the help of Cris. She's a real star.

(((((()))))) Take care,

love Magenta x

Ankyspond

String lady you should be proud of yourself, nobody deserves
that treatment, onwards and upwards now. Xx

dreamdaisy

Bloody hell. I thank whoever you are out of that situation and the courage to take that step should not be under-estimated. Men like that rarely change, the same for abusive women. Bloody hell minky, the very best to you, take life one day at a time, seek all the help you can, yes? We're here to do whatever we can. I am so sorry, DD ((()))

suzygirl

So sorry to hear you have been through such a terrible situation. It takes immense courage and strength of character to walk away.

My thoughts are with you and hoping that things work out for you. It was kind of you to help Cris recently and I am pleased she was there for you.

(((hugs))) to you, Cris and your daughter x

hileena111

Awww Debs,
I had no idea.......What a thing to have to put up with and good for you having the courage to walk away from it. Thank goodness you have a daughter to go to. Take it easy...one day at a time and keep in touch when you can.
Love
Hileena

janie68

Debs

You have immense strength and courage, getting away from those two must have been very hard.

Imhope that now you move on, baby steps and remember you have lots of friends on here that will support you all the way.
Dear dear Cris, isnt she great?!

Wishing you lots of luck and sending lots of hugs

Janie xx

barbara12

Debs my love, I am so very sorry to read this, you do not deserve to be treated like this, they are bloody animals....but you have all of us behind you, and our lovely Cris our knight in shining armour...thank god she was there for you.
Please dont forget if ever you need to talk I am here for you.
Take care , and wishing you well for a new beginning...
Lots of love
Barbara xxx

jillyb1

More hugs and positive vibes from me too , you are a very brave lady and should feel proud of yourself . Stay strong and start anew . Jillyb

skezier

Hi Debs,

Look at all these people who care... see you have huge value.... you remember that.

What happened to you was appalling and I am pleased I was able to help. Sorry that me and my charger went charging past and to the wrong place :oops:

Hope your not to stiff after the drive it was a long old haul that eh? I also sorry the usual fatigue thing arrived on time but we got there and I got back... via London... I don't know what I did wrong.. one min I am on the M3 the next I am a few miles from central London I reckon I brought a pyskie and he lead me some astray

You hang in there and Debs its going to be a bit hard for a min or so but hang in there cus better days are going to come.

Oh and be warmed I will vet the next one

You did not deserve that and I am so proud of you for leaving him. Debs you will really are strong enough and you got all these folks to help you and keep you buoyant as well as your family. Love, a sleep well draft and a (((((((((( )))))))))) Cris xxx

hileena111

Morning Debs
Just popping in to say Hi and see how you are

Love
Hileena

dreamdaisy

Hello minky, I was thinking of you last night, and I am still thinking of you this morning. ((())) DD

angie1973

It takes some guts to remove yourself from a situation like that, but you did the right thing. People like that don't change. I've seen my sister go through the same thing, and her ex was appalling, especially after a drink.

Doesn't matter how nice they can be any other time, it's because they can turn you have done the right thing.

I can only imagine you have a lot of sorting out to do, but at least you can do it now knowing you are in charge of your own life and you can do what you want to do.

Very special hugs for you.

barbara12

Hi Debs
Im still thinking about you, just take it one day at a time...and you will get there .
Take care
Sending you loads of hugs ((((())) wish I could give them for real..

julie47

aww debs

I am so sorry to read this thread (and I am a day late :oops: ) but I am glad that you had the help of lovely skezier and that you are now safe with your daughter.
Sending you hugs ((((((())))))) , don't really know what else to say.

I am thinking of you
Love Juliepf x

dachshund

Hi Debs.
i'm so sorry that happened to you.you did the right thing i know its hard but it will work out alright in the end.
we all care about you((((((((debs))))))))
joan xx

stickywicket

I'm so sorry about this, Debs but proud of you for walking away. It's the only solution. You are one strong lady. Well done.

frogmorton

Hi Debs


l am so glad you have posted so you can receive support from all the wonderful people on here.

Things will work out for you l promise.

You have done the right thing - l did not want to read about you in take a break magazine

Love and hugs

Toni xx

skezier

Hi All,

Debs said last night she has a bit of internet trouble but I will let her know about all this support cus she really needs some.

As Toni said you are wonderful people. xx

Hi Debs if you do get to get in a (((((((((( )))))))))) and a nudge from Flo xxx

hileena111

Hi Debs
Isnt it typical....internet problems just when you need support :roll: :roll:
As soon as you get it sorted get back on please because we do worry about you
Love
Hileena

tillytop

I am so sorry you are having such a difficult time Debs.

Thinking of you.

Love Tilly xxx

minky67

Thank you all for you lovely messages.
Im doing ok apart from a rough day trying to sort benefits out :x Seems he gets the money & I get a crisis loan that i have to pay back :x Im writing to them about this as its so wrong.
Ringing a few centres tomorrow but looks like i'll be going in refuge for a bit til i can get rehoused. Quickest way & i'll get more help & support that way too.
I'll keep in contact one way or another so please dont worry, im doing ok.
Dont feel so strong sometimes but i'll get there.
Thank you your all lovely people

Cris recharge that charger it goes the wrong way & they'll be no vetting needed as im steering clear of all male species.
Take care everyone
luv debs xx