Apologies and goodbye

Folara

It seems I have been reported for swearing by several members for which I must apologise, I was reacting to a post without stopping to think and was incensed with the DWP yet again.

However, I feel that as there are obviously people here who would rather speak 'behind my back' than message me, where I would have happily apologized, I don't feel that I can be a part of their group.

I wish you all well in the future.

Fols x

tjt6768

hey... Please don't leave.... :shock:
I can't believe folks couldn't just pm you if they were upset with your posts..
Anyone having problems with the dwp r-soles should understand anyway..
I know right now you're upset, take some time out maybe but don't dissapear..
X

Folara wrote:

It seems I have been reported for swearing by several members for which I must apologise, I was reacting to a post without stopping to think and was incensed with the DWP yet again.

However, I feel that as there are obviously people here who would rather speak 'behind my back' than message me, where I would have happily apologized, I don't feel that I can be a part of their group.

I wish you all well in the future.

Fols x

Numptydumpty

Dear Fols, I am so sorry to hear this. I ask you to please reconsider your decision. You are a valued (by me and a lot of others on this forum) member of the forum. You are helpful, caring and funny. I for one would miss you.
As for the swearing, we are all adults. If it offends don't read it!
I hope you change your mind.
All the best,
Numpty

elnafinn

I am sorry to hear that you are thinking of leaving, Fols. In the terms and conditions it does mention hardcore swearing is not permitted. I did not read your posting so am unable to comment on what word(s) you used but I was under the impression that the swear words used in EastEnders is acceptable on the forum.

I hope you reconsider and stay.

Elna x

dreamdaisy

Folara, please PLEASE reconsider. There may be some on here who have the tolerance levels of bone china but the rest of us don't - and we're the ones with whom you belong. You are a kind and supportive friend - I enjoy reading your posts and replies to people and I for one don't want you to go. DD

dachshund

Hello Fols.
please dont go i will miss you take care and please think about us we'll miss you.
joan xx

kellerman

Hey don't let it get you down. I did read your post and was in no way offended.Its your opinion....which you are entitled to.
Please reconsider leaving us....you have given loads of good advice to many and you would be sadly missed. May

mig

NO,Please dont go,stay with us,dont let some uptight person drive you away.(((()))) Mig

RosieGlow

Hey Fols, you can`t leave now! I need your support to carry on losing weight girl. I`ve "plateaued" at the moment!!

Seriously, you have far too much to offer to let the faint hearted win. You broke a rule, you`ve apologised, end of....Rosie....x.

jillyb1

No idea what you've said and what awful crime you've commited ; but please don't leave us we're grown ups and I'm sure that a few mutterings won't damage any of us irrepairably ! Jillyb

valval

i am sorry to say that for a few it the done thing to go behind ones back like this we always say let us know if we have offended so we can say sorry as we are grown ups who understand the stress arthritis has on each and every one of us please do not let them chase you out there are many here they have tried this on and we will not let them win val

barbara12

Oh Fols please dont go....you have not been with us very long.....just put it behind you and carry on posting....xx

barking1

Fols you have answered my posts, supported lots and lots of people and your opinion is valuble please dont let this be the end of your posts,every one has there own opinions and if people dont like what they read they should be big enough to tell you instead of reporting you , dont allow it to stop you posting on here, i think the majority appreciate honest opinions even when they are sometimes heated, it is a very emotive buisness being ill and you are intitled to vent, if you go how will others be able to vent there frustration , i for one will vent when need be and if others dont like it thats to bad and if i get told of so be it we live in a free sociaty what happened to freedom of speech , take care and please come back xxxx ((((((( ))))))) Jane

elnafinn

delboy wrote:

A lot of us have fallen foul of the rules and suffered the wrath of the button pushers but we're still here to liven things up so you must stay or our numbers will mean we shall become extinct eventually.

Hi Fols,

As Del says, quite a few of us have had our knuckles rapped for one reason or an other, even goody two shoes, me and I am still here to tell the tale.

Elna x

JuliaHod12

Hi Fols

I am so very sorry you have decided to leave us..............you have been so very supportive to me and I have never read anything you have posted that hasn't been uplifting to the rest of us!

If this isn't the place where we can let off steam, then where the h*ll is?

I do believe a measure of TOLERANCE from the people reading posts and also moderators is what is required!

Judge not lest ye be judged..............or some such

Bless your heart..............you are such a good soul

lots of love
Julia xx

jaja

Hi Fols i have not been on this forum for long.. but you were one of the very kind people on here that made me feel welcome..iv read many of the posts you have done and iv always found your advice and comments sound and valuable...

im sorry some one has been offended by what you have said (iv not read the post).....but i think weve all offended some-one some-how at one time or another!!...i think most people on here want you to stay as i do...

its hard to accept that we sometimes upset people because of course we never would intentially do such a thing......it hurts us to think we have...but as i read on here..people on this forum are often in pain and suffering and maybe some days feel more sensitive or might feel
like hitting out...i do hope you can over-come the hurt you feel and remain with your friends here.....

JAJA

Heather65

Dont let small minded people push you out we are all on here to support each other

applerose

Hi Fols. I didn't read that post so don't know what you said but I can understand you being upset when you wrote it. I think you did enough by apologising and that should be the end of it. You have offered advice and support and you are a valuable member here. I hope you stay.

skezier

hi Fols.

I so hope you will reconsider, you have been a good friend to many here, including me.

Flower knuckle raps are gentle here and swearing isn't really allowed but at the same time we all get so frustrated at times.

Fols my eyes are rubbish just now and I didn't see your post but we sometimes get our knuckles tapped but you don;t have to leave.... you really don;t so please reconsider.

It might not be someone making complains an talking behind your back my friend. The mods remove some swearing as a matter of course as the rules say we mustn't. We have kids as members so that's why the rules say it I guess.

Just have a think and know you are a valued member of the forum and please reconsider. ((( ))) and just don;t go. Cris xx

Hey I hope this is something near readable Fols the eyes are just not good.

7worlds

Hi Folara. Iwas just getting to know you and any of your posts that i read were nothing but helpful and supportive. Iwould be so sorry if you left.

7worlds

diamond

Hi Fols,please take time out and reconsider not to leave us.We need to calm down you have apologised so let that be the end of the matter.I for one was not offended with your post.xx

PatriciaH

Hi Fols I didn't see your post but you have apologised and what more can you do?? Look at all the posts here to support you so please don't leave. Your advice and support has been gratefully received by many....x

elainebadknee

Folara

Well if its the post I replied to as well which was Stephen's one about not getting ESA...I swore too so why havent they complained about me too...Plus lots of us swore but in sympathy with Stephen.....
Take no notice of the nimbyists on here...If got something to say and it aint to your face they aint worth knowing....

You will post again my dear!!!

Elainex

Folara wrote:

It seems I have been reported for swearing by several members for which I must apologise, I was reacting to a post without stopping to think and was incensed with the DWP yet again.

However, I feel that as there are obviously people here who would rather speak 'behind my back' than message me, where I would have happily apologized, I don't feel that I can be a part of their group.

I wish you all well in the future.

Fols x

resusjan

Fols,

I hope you've read all the messages of support on here to prove just how much people value you as a forum member. Please don't leave us - the forum will not be the same without your funny, witty and supportive posts.

Jan xxxx

lindalegs

I'm so sorry to read your post Fols and hope when you've read what support you have you'll come back to us.

I missed the thread you're talking about as I don't keep up with all that's posted. :roll:

I hope you'll reconsider and join in again, we'll miss you.

Luv,

suncatcher

Please don't leave we've all been on the forum naughty step. The dwp makes everyone swear. I have never been offended by any posts and ask you to reconsider you are a very valued member do not leave us please. from joanne