Apologies and goodbye

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  • sbolam
    sbolam Member Posts: 374
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    O...M...G are people really that shallow that they feel the need to push REPORT first without pming the person to give them a chance to say sorry. Things are hard enough and people do get frustrated its understandable if the odd swear word appears, Its not like it was a personal attack it...

    Please please please dont go flo,


    stephen
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  • lululu
    lululu Member Posts: 486
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Fols I think Skezier said it all. I have just had a first look at your Healthy Eating thread and it would be a shame if you go, you are helping so many people there and obviously get a lot out of it yourself, I think you would miss this site terribly, please don't act in haste. Don't cut off your nose to spite your face.
  • emsjane
    emsjane Member Posts: 351
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Ohh Fols, please don't leave!!!! Don't take any notice of pathetic people like that, if you do then they have won!!!! PLEASE STAY!!!!!
    LOVE EMMA X
  • freesia
    freesia Member Posts: 409
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Fols.....

    PLEASE don't leave.... we are all here to "support" one another....

    Please reconsider....
    hugs freesia xxx
  • elainebadknee
    elainebadknee Bots Posts: 3,703
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I hope the complainers take a good long hard look at themselves over this...Had it been said to someone is a derogatory manner fine, complain but it wasnt and the people guilty of pressing the report button....WHY?????


    Shame, live and let live....

    Elainex
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry you are leaving. I do often see heavily disguised swear words on here and thought that was allowable.








    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    skezier wrote:
    hi Fols.



    It might not be someone making complains an talking behind your back my friend. The mods remove some swearing as a matter of course as the rules say we mustn't. We have kids as members so that's why the rules say it I guess.

    Just have a think and know you are a valued member of the forum and please reconsider. ((( ))) and just don;t go. Cris xx

    Hey I hope this is something near readable Fols the eyes are just not good.


    I think Skeziers words are correct,

    E x
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • liesa
    liesa Member Posts: 821
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hiya
    can you feel the love?? dont go,

    i know i have been upset at remarks someone made to me and yes i complained but others had already reported those who made me feel uncomfortable, i do think there are many lovely people here who have your best interests at heart and want to be friends,
    sometimes people act in haste...and may regret their actions,
    i never saw your post so cant coment about it,

    just feel the love and stay, happy sunday xx
    love and hugs
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  • Puschinka
    Puschinka Member Posts: 176
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I hope you'll change your mind and stay, Fols!
    Don't let narrow minded people drive you away!
    I don't know what you said or what words you used to offend anyone, or when ( haven't been here a lot lately as I've not been well at all )
    but whatever it was, you're not the first and sure won't be the last to have used the odd swear word here.

    Warm regards to you. xx
    Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans.
  • gilly1957
    gilly1957 Member Posts: 212
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Fols

    please dont leave, i dont come on here loads or always make comments,but its a very supportive forum and helps to message peeps in a similar positions,

    whats a swear word between friends.

    I think its really sad that someone can be sooo petty minded,when we are all struggling with our conditions and there are so many other bad things happening in the world......

    I should imagine lots of us swear when we are frustrated or in pain,i know i do, and im not to proud to admit it.

    the person who complained about you....NEEDS TO GET A LIFE :)
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Whatever has happened on here (I’ve been away) I do hope that you won’t leave, Fols. Perhaps you simply fell foul of Rules & Regs. You wouldn’t be the first :oops: Perhaps someone who lacks the courage to simply ask you to tone down your language has played the anonymity card. What does it matter? You can see how valued you are. Besides, if you go now I’ll never find out if you did flatten that GP of yours. I have this wonderful image in my head and now I might never get to know how accurate it is. Please don't do this to me :wink:
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Folara, I hope you have been looking in and seeing the support that you have - and it's support that you deserve. I send hugs and a smidge of love. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • traluvie
    traluvie Member Posts: 2,579
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Have no idea whats happened but as you can see you are a valued member and have lots of kind words said. Hope you reconsider..
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  • williamlargs
    williamlargs Member Posts: 143
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just had look through some of your posts and 'good grief' lol can't see what anyone would be getting their knicks in a twist about.

    If anyone could hear me on a daily basis or even have a clue as to how I behave at times I would be banned sin die as they say.

    Some folks should loosen up a bit and live and let live.

    As we say here in Scotland 'yer a lang time deed'

    Stay with us please. :)
  • Folara
    Folara Member Posts: 568
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    A massive thank you for all your kind comments. I'm back after a little fume filled sulk. Life's too short and you are all my friends.

    I do apologise for swearing and I will remember to think before I post in future.

    Fols x
  • bubbadog
    bubbadog Member Posts: 5,544
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh fols glad to hear your just going to have a cooling off period and will stay with the forum, life would have been alittle boring without you on here and your always good to me, and reply to alot of the posts and join in. Glad your going to stay!
  • liesa
    liesa Member Posts: 821
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    glad you've decided to stay, :D
    love and hugs
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  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hurrah! That's made my morning Folara, it's lovely to hear from you again. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    That's great Fols :D:D
    Very pleased you have decided to stay :wink:
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  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm sooooooooooooo glad you've reconsidered. It means a lot to us that you've returned.

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    Luv,
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Fols

    i'm a new member so you do not know me , but please do not go , you have alot of friends on this forum who will really miss you , it seems such a shame .That some people have done this to you .Come and work with me we have swearing on fridays and we shout real loud .


    regards
    fowls 48
  • 7worlds
    7worlds Member Posts: 302
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Glad your staying Folara.

    7worlds
  • resusjan
    resusjan Member Posts: 290
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Fols,

    I'm so pleased. I'm really busy right now preparing for exams tomorrow but just logged on to find out if you are still here. Great - I can go back to the books now.

    Jan xx
  • suncatcher
    suncatcher Member Posts: 2,174
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    i AM GLAD YOU ARE STAYING WITH US X FROM JOANNE
    Joanne