tjt's Dad.

tjt6768

thank you Rose mi lovely.
Hoping he's back out later today, providing his potassium levels are alright.
He's sooooooo fed up of that place now.

valval

not suprised .you can not see the sea from there and all the little angels saying i want to there stressed parents wish him well and that he is out soon ((())) val

tjt6768

bless ya Val mi dear

Dad is finally home.. He wasn't very impressed with his treatment and won't go back to boston hospital again he said.. All I can say is that they left him in a mess for over four hours.. Disgusting..
It's knocked his confidence beyond belief, and he was doing so well with all of this.. It will take some getting over I think..

Right now he's just glad he is home and so am I..

valval

make sure he stays there this time home is best

tjt6768

I know Val.. I hope he settles ok and can start to forget what he's been through

mig

Hope you are okay too.Mig

valval

hi pal how it going hope dad slept well and can start to recover val

dachshund

Hello Tony
i hope your dad is begining to feel better now.
i hope you are feeling more relaxed now tony you try and rest
take care all.
joan xx

tjt6768

Mum was in a real state last couple of phone calls so this evening I packed a case and drove down, in my courtesy car after breaking mine on sunday of course lol

Neither of my folks are coping well at all, I am hear just in case I can help at all

joanlawson

Hi Tony, I'm glad to hear that your Dad is home at last. I hope he will gain more strength now that he's back home.
Take care, and love
Joanx

PatriciaH

...so happy to hear that your Dad is home, Tony Both your mum and dad will be really grateful that you are at home with them. It is such a stressful time when our parents become poorly isn't it?? Life isn't easy for you by any means at the moment but at least you know you have 'done your absolute best' to look after your mamma and pops. You could do no more than you are doing. I just hope things settle down for you all really soon. You all deserve a break from this stress!! Take great care.....x

barbara12

Tony I am so pleased your dad is home at last, and hopefully this time for good....bless they have put him through it..and you his family.
They have a lot to answer for, I do hope he can now start to recover well...he has a lovely family behind him and that counts for a lot.
You take care of yourself the best you can in all this
Love to all of you xxxxx

tjt6768

Thank you everyone.
Another bad night was had for them both.
He's had to arrange an emergency appointment with the stoma nurse in boston.
Transport has been arranged. He's a shell of the person he used to be.
They've had nothing but trouble with the bags leaking (sorry) and his wound is very sore..
The travel home the other day really wore him out and this will do the same..
I know that the stoma will settle but it's taking a long time.
The health system here is dire.. I would be much happier if they were in Leeds

fowls48

Hi Tony

Sorry you are still having a tough time , Hope you dad is feeling better , well done too you for standing up to the doctors , Otherwise they would have shipped him off home again Hope you are ok in your self i know you are having a pretty tough time So hugs and kisses from myself and Chintz
(((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))))))xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hope thats enough to keep you going for know

karen xx

Christimay

Hi tony

What worries you have, you must be exhausted, it's such a worry when there is something wrong with our parents, so hope one of my sons are like you when there older take care and have a rest when you can. Thoughts are with you.

joanlawson

I'm so sorry that things are still not going too well for your Dad, Tony, and I hope things will settle down soon. Thinking of you all.
Joan

dachshund

Hello Tony
i'm so sorry your dad is having problems i hope things settle soon then i'm sure your mum wont be so worried.
take care ((((((((tonys dad and mum tony))))))))
joan xx

dreamdaisy

I am thinking of you all. DD

tjt6768

thank you, each and every one of you..
Well, his appointment was at two.. Transport arrived at quarter past two :shock:
Mum had to ring the nurse and explain..
Someone had given the driver the wrong address :x
One farce after another.

Mum has a list of problems etc for the nurse.. I've told her not to leave until she's happy

They may be a while :?

I think they're glad I'm here. Been and done some shopping etc for them. Mum doesn't drive and she's not really happy leaving dad.

[Deleted User]

Hi Tony,
Hope you are OK and your dad is doing well.
I wish you all the best.

tjt6768

thanks hun.
The trip to the hospital in boston and back had really worn him out. He's had to go back to bed.
The nurse actually sorted things our properly this time and have them done creams etc for the sore wound.
I really hope this helps. His confidence has dissipated into oblivion..
It's gonna be tough to leave them again. Think I'll go home sunday.

nesia wrote:

Hi Tony,
Hope you are OK and your dad is doing well.
I wish you all the best.

Suestpeters

Hi tony - hope all will be well very soon. Keep smiling, you don't know how much of an inspiriation you are. Thinking of you.

Sue x

dreamdaisy

I'm still thinking of you all. Your mum needs you mate, you are where you should be. Please send a hug from me to Janet, yes? DD

valval

i can not imagine how hard it must be for you at this time you are a lovely person and must be a lovely son bet your mum loves you so much you have been such a support to them both even though it costs you so much in pain hope things sorted for your dad now ((())) val

bubbles

Keeping you and yours in my thoughts and prayers. I do know what you are going through, truly. Glad that a nurse was there to actually sort things out, I will keep sending matronly vibes, for extra special treatment and speedy recoveries. Slowly and steadily. Take lots of care. XX Bubbles