The hospital rang.

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  • tillytop
    tillytop Member Posts: 3,460
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    DD, I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. Thinking of you.

    Tillyxxx
  • wynnie
    wynnie Member Posts: 117
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    deepest condolences to you DD ,thinking of you at this sad time x
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear DD, you have my deepest sympathy at this very sad time.
    My heart goes out to you.
    Love Numpty. ((((()))))
  • maria09
    maria09 Member Posts: 1,905
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear DD
    Sending you a (((hug))) at this sad time
    Love Maria x
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thinking of you, can't say no more at this time (((((()))))) xxx
    Smile a while and while you smile
    smile another smile and soon there
    will be miles and miles of smiles
    just because you smiled I wish your
    day is full of Smiles
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning DD,Hope you both managed to get some rest last night,the next few days are going to be hard on you ,I want you to know that the Mig family will be thinking of you at this difficult time. (((()))) Mig xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    ((((())))xx just to let you know I am thinking about you
    Love
    Barbara
  • kentishlady
    kentishlady Member Posts: 809
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello DD. Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. Maybe in the days ahead, when you are feeling just a little bit stronger, you might find some comfort in this poem.

    SHE IS GONE - ANONYMOUS
    You can shed tears that she is gone or you can smile because she has lived.
    You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
    Your heart can be empty because you can't see her or you can be full of the love you shared.
    You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
    You can remember her and only that's she's gone or you can cherish her memory and let it live on

    You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back, or you can do what she'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

    Take care of yourself. Beryl
  • bubbadog
    bubbadog Member Posts: 5,544
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm so sorry to hear of your sad news. Take each day as it comes and remember we're all thinking of you and are sending our love and hugs to you.((((HUG))))
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh my word. Thank you so much, my wonderful cyber friends, for all your supportive messages, they are truly appreciated and treasured. I'm sitting here before a mirror. There's a face in it which looks kinda familiar but isn't quite who I think it is.

    Adrenaline was my 'friend' yesterday and it served me well. Today it's nowhere to be seen (or felt) and this 'stout party' has collapsed (in a manner of speaking). 'Im indoors is being wonderful (as ever), he has just left the hospital and is now on his way to the Registrars' to do the formal stuff. I'm on my way to the bathroom for a shower. It might help matters but to be honest not much does. That will pass because all things do.

    I won't be around too much over the next few days, probably not until the 'stranger in the mirror' becomes more recognisable. I am thinking of you all from time to time, however, and I hope you are all keeping as well as you possibly can.

    Thank you, everyone, for all your messages and good wishes. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,161
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello DD
    we are thinking about you at this sad time take care.
    ((((((((DD))))))))
    take care
    joan xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Lots of (((hugs))) DD. You will feel very numb for a while but, one day, you will smile and remember all the lovely memories you shared with your mum. Until then, please remember to take care of yourself and lean on your OH and other family members and friends who are there for you. And us, of course.
    Christine
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am so so sorry that I have only just seen this. I am sending you as much love as I possibly can. You will need as much as possible at the mo.

    My thoughts are with you and your family. And, some big hugs for you ((())).
    Karen xx
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning DD,I am sending you all my spoons except one,think you might need them to help you through.Love to you and Mr DD. Mig
  • theresa4
    theresa4 Member Posts: 696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thinking of you DD sending love and hugs

    Theresa x
    There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart...pursue those. --Michael Nolan



    Theresa xxx
  • daffy2
    daffy2 Member Posts: 1,636
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dearest DD
    When my mother died a few months ago a friend sent a card that said 'It's so hard when someone you love becomes someone you loved', which seemed to sum things up quite well.
    I do hope 'friend adrenaline' didn't leave too much rubbish in its wake, as your poor bod has enough to cope with already.
    This will be the sort of situation that Mr DD will find easier to deal with than your run of ill health, so make the most of it,let him get on with practicalities, and concentrate on yourself and the things he can't help you with - we are here for some of those.
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,161
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello DD
    thinking of you at this sad time you take care.
    ((((((((DD))))))))
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • hileena111
    hileena111 Member Posts: 7,099
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    DD
    I'm so sorry....I've just seen this thread now....I've been ill and not in line.
    All I can say is that I'm so sorry and I'm sending loads of (((((((()))))))))
    As many as you need ...some more ((((((((()))))))
    We don't expect you to be around for a while....just take care of yourself and we aren't going anywhere......we'll all be here when you come back
    lots of love
    Hileena

    ps THANKS TONI
  • Susiesoo
    Susiesoo Member Posts: 358
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dreamdaisy

    I send my deepest condolences at this sad time.
    I am thinking of you.

    Susie
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi DD, just to say, I'm still thinking of you, very much.
    Please take good care of yourself, you are much loved and appreciated by all of us.
    ((((()))))
    Numpty
  • maggsy
    maggsy Member Posts: 25
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi DD
    so sorry to hear about your loss my thoughts are with

    lots of Hugs

    Maggsy xxxx
  • joon51
    joon51 Member Posts: 221
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    DD I am thinking of you at this very sad time xx
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Aww DD just seen this thread, so sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you & your hubby
    Take care Sue xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    ((((())))xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi DD,hope everything is ok with you both.(((((()))))) Mig