The hospital rang.

tillytop

DD, I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. Thinking of you.

Tillyxxx

wynnie

deepest condolences to you DD ,thinking of you at this sad time x

Numptydumpty

Dear DD, you have my deepest sympathy at this very sad time.
My heart goes out to you.
Love Numpty. ((((()))))

maria09

Dear DD
Sending you a (((hug))) at this sad time
Love Maria x

villier

Thinking of you, can't say no more at this time (((((()))))) xxx

mig

Morning DD,Hope you both managed to get some rest last night,the next few days are going to be hard on you ,I want you to know that the Mig family will be thinking of you at this difficult time. (((()))) Mig xx

barbara12

((((())))xx just to let you know I am thinking about you

kentishlady

Hello DD. Just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you. Maybe in the days ahead, when you are feeling just a little bit stronger, you might find some comfort in this poem.

SHE IS GONE - ANONYMOUS
You can shed tears that she is gone or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that's she's gone or you can cherish her memory and let it live on

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back, or you can do what she'd want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

Take care of yourself. Beryl

bubbadog

I'm so sorry to hear of your sad news. Take each day as it comes and remember we're all thinking of you and are sending our love and hugs to you.((((HUG))))

dreamdaisy

Oh my word. Thank you so much, my wonderful cyber friends, for all your supportive messages, they are truly appreciated and treasured. I'm sitting here before a mirror. There's a face in it which looks kinda familiar but isn't quite who I think it is.

Adrenaline was my 'friend' yesterday and it served me well. Today it's nowhere to be seen (or felt) and this 'stout party' has collapsed (in a manner of speaking). 'Im indoors is being wonderful (as ever), he has just left the hospital and is now on his way to the Registrars' to do the formal stuff. I'm on my way to the bathroom for a shower. It might help matters but to be honest not much does. That will pass because all things do.

I won't be around too much over the next few days, probably not until the 'stranger in the mirror' becomes more recognisable. I am thinking of you all from time to time, however, and I hope you are all keeping as well as you possibly can.

Thank you, everyone, for all your messages and good wishes. DD

dachshund

Hello DD
we are thinking about you at this sad time take care.
((((((((DD))))))))

applerose

Lots of (((hugs))) DD. You will feel very numb for a while but, one day, you will smile and remember all the lovely memories you shared with your mum. Until then, please remember to take care of yourself and lean on your OH and other family members and friends who are there for you. And us, of course.

constable

I am so so sorry that I have only just seen this. I am sending you as much love as I possibly can. You will need as much as possible at the mo.

My thoughts are with you and your family. And, some big hugs for you ((())).

mig

Morning DD,I am sending you all my spoons except one,think you might need them to help you through.Love to you and Mr DD. Mig

theresa4

Thinking of you DD sending love and hugs

Theresa x

daffy2

Dearest DD
When my mother died a few months ago a friend sent a card that said 'It's so hard when someone you love becomes someone you loved', which seemed to sum things up quite well.
I do hope 'friend adrenaline' didn't leave too much rubbish in its wake, as your poor bod has enough to cope with already.
This will be the sort of situation that Mr DD will find easier to deal with than your run of ill health, so make the most of it,let him get on with practicalities, and concentrate on yourself and the things he can't help you with - we are here for some of those.

dachshund

Hello DD
thinking of you at this sad time you take care.
((((((((DD))))))))
joan xx

hileena111

DD
I'm so sorry....I've just seen this thread now....I've been ill and not in line.
All I can say is that I'm so sorry and I'm sending loads of (((((((()))))))))
As many as you need ...some more ((((((((()))))))
We don't expect you to be around for a while....just take care of yourself and we aren't going anywhere......we'll all be here when you come back
lots of love
Hileena

ps THANKS TONI

Susiesoo

Dreamdaisy

I send my deepest condolences at this sad time.
I am thinking of you.

Susie

Numptydumpty

Hi DD, just to say, I'm still thinking of you, very much.
Please take good care of yourself, you are much loved and appreciated by all of us.
((((()))))
Numpty

maggsy

Hi DD
so sorry to hear about your loss my thoughts are with

lots of Hugs

Maggsy xxxx

joon51

DD I am thinking of you at this very sad time xx

queenfan

Aww DD just seen this thread, so sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you & your hubby
Take care Sue xx

barbara12

((((())))xx

mig

Hi DD,hope everything is ok with you both.(((((()))))) Mig